Ok, so We have been dating for 3 years in Feb and she is a little on the insane side. After a year, i broke up with her to have some fun over the summer. I flirted with this girl, but my girlfriend and i got back together before anything happened with the other girl. Now my girlfriend is making this other girls life a living hell. She teases her and calls her names, and this girl did nothing to my girlfriend. My girlfriend forbids me to talk to her. Is this reason enough to end a 3 year long relationship? (I am 17 and a senior in high school)
2007-01-29 17:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by mike w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yo im kinda like that... But i dont go around and make the girl go thru hell... but u gotta understand that its hard 2 jus accept that u've taken time away 4rm her 2 be wit somebody else... Its funny cause me and my bf got the arguin about that twice 2day... its not that she dont trust u but if it happened once ((meanin u gain intrest in someone while wit her)) then u may do it again...
Its a sad feeling trust me... Im all upset now from writin it... But she jus LOVE you 2 much!!! I think that the only way that she'll get over it is if you like spend time wit her & try not 2 do anythin 2 bring it up...
I dont kno ... im still tryna figure out wat 2 do myself... if u find a way then please let me kno...
my email is jazalicious0991@yahoo.com
DONT LEAVE HER IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER!!!!
2007-01-29 17:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love "Your" girl, tell her how you honestly feel. That she is not only hurting the other girl but making you question just what kind of person she is that she feels the need to be so petty....ok, maybe you might not want to use the word petty as that could be considered a bit harsh....she is being pretty harsh to the innocent girl though. Anyways, the real point is, tell her you are starting to be pushed away with how she is acting towards the other girl. She should be happy and confident in the relationship the two of you have and move on. Not gloat....
2007-01-30 01:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by slavetofs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forewarned is forearmed. Don't dump her because she is treating the other girl poorly, dump her because she is a control freak and she will make your life a living hell until the day you die.
And know too, that when you try and dump her, she will use everything in her power to get you back on the string, like getting pregnant, or pretending she is pregnant.
Don't ever let anyone forbid you from talking to whomever you want to talk to. A relationship is not an agreement to sign over your entire life, it is a bond made of mutual trust and honesty.
2007-01-30 01:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship has been up and down for 3 years - sometimes running hot and sometimes running cold - it's a bad sign for your future together. If things have been steady and your girlfriend is usually level-headed (despite her current behavior with this other girl) then this might just be a bad phase in your relationship. If you just want her to stop harassing this poor other woman, perhaps you should say something like this:
"I think you're being immature about this, and it is beneath you to keep acting this way. You're just not as attractive to me when you focus on some other girl more than you focus on our relationship. It just seems weird to me that you want to waste so much energy on someone you don't like. This other girl is not a threat to you. There's a reason I'm with you and not her. She's moved on, I've moved on, and I think you should move on too."
Hope this helps and you're situation becomes drama-free, dude.
2007-01-30 01:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kendall 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay, 3 yrs. is a long time, but 17 is much to young. How should I know though, I haven't even reached that age!
But still, sometimes, as much as you don't like it, the excitement sort of vanishes away and it gets boring, we get curious.
IT's not right that she's teasing her, she's jealous but she's over doing it. I'm worried she might do something irrational if you've described her as crazy.
Tell her that you didn't do anything with this girl, if you ahve and she hasn't believed you and doesn't seem to trust you, if she's taunting this woman, then she must not believe you. It seems like you want some fun, so as much as I don't want to say it, this ship has sailed.
2007-01-30 01:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by wordwaves 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yo, she in love with you. anything that comes in between that is done for. then you left to go play around for a while? what was she supposed to think? now your back together..........your playing with her heart and thats a big no no. i understand how she feels and why she's behaving like she is(no that doesnt give her the right to torment this other girl and forbid you contact w/her) but i feel you asked for it. chalk it up and let this be a lesson learned.
2007-01-30 01:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already broke up with her. Your mistake was in getting back together with a crazy girl. This situation isn't reason enough to break up again, but her insanity is.
2007-01-30 01:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be making her feel insecure. Teasing her and calling names is just a way of boosting her ego.
And ending the relationship actually depends on whether you like her, wat has it gotta do with her being crazy. Come on... you know your own answer, just trying to get some assurance that you are doing the right thing rite?
2007-01-30 01:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Luffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a reason to end a relationship. And compard to this one nutcase i almost went out with ( check my other questions , shes a cutter) your girlfriend's sane.
2007-01-30 01:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 this girl did not do anything to her if this is a taste of how it is going to be i would say end it now i could see if you cheated on her but this girl was there when you two were broke up. YOU ARE A SENIOR YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU MOVE ON DUMP HER CRAZY *** GOOD LUCK
2007-01-30 01:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by lovewhereilive 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋