Suppose you were a big fan of a musical band - there were two main stars in this band - the lead singer & the keyboard player, both of them are brothers. The singer is a tall and handsome guy and he sings with so much passion that gets cheers from all the fans – and you are like totally attracted to him & eventually by virtue of luck, you both meet and go out on a date. You get to know that not only is he the lead singer, but also the music composer & lyricist, wow! The chemistry between you two is increased tenfold & you both are deeply in love with each other and pursue a serious relationship.
Now, this guy's brother - the keyboard player is kinda ugly and a bit fat; but a very good guy at heart. It turns out that he actually has deep feelings for you, but once he knew that you and his brother were dating, he is heartbroken but makes a mature decision not to see you or get involved in your matters.
But one day, by chance you meet this brother, say hi & strike up a friendly conversation. He is immensely delighted to meet and spend time with you & he expresses how happy he is to know that you and his brother are together. You both have an enjoyable conversation, until all of a sudden you get shocking news………
The main person responsible for the working & success of the band was not your bf, but the brother! The brother was the guy who composed all the songs, wrote the lyrics & even arranged the vocalist for the songs!!! Your bf didn’t do anything! You thought he was the singer of the band, but you were wrong founded – you bf had very poor quality of voice, so he was merely lip-syncing with the vocalist behind the scenes, but you couldn’t make out the difference, because the sounds were synthesized & the music was so good, that you were absorbed in the enjoyment. The reason your bf was even in the band in the first place is because he was his brother. You initially doubted the brother, but after he proved everything to you, you came to the realization – your bf is a cheat! He just lied to you about himself being so great, just because he wanted to love you. And needless to say the brother is heart-stricken with disappointment as well.
In this situation what would you do next?
1.Dump your boyfriend immediately because he lied to you & then get away from both of them.
2.Calm down and still stick with your bf, realizing it’s too late – you have already given your heart away to him.
3.Dump your boyfriend immediately, but after a period of time start dating his brother, as he is very talented and good-natured.
2007-01-29 17:09:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-01-29 17:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-29 17:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by natsirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you considering it as a story line for a novel?
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Depending on the complete situation. If the two have been dating for a bit, the young lady would have come to realize the truth about her bf not being able to sing early on, especially if she attended the bands practice sessions. Now if the young lady truly loves the singer for who he is then finding out that he is not the brains behind the band, should not sway her love.
If his brother is the brains behind the band, then she should be glad it is in the family. She has values and ethics, which means going from one brother to the other is unacceptable and she would never demean herself by traveling that path.
Now, if the lady hooked up with the singer for the wrong reasons, then she would be best advised to search her heart, soul and mind and determine what it is she wants or what does she expect. If the end results are that she stays with the singer, then ok, however if she decides the indeed they should part, then she would be wise to make a clean break and not even contemplate seeing his brother unless it is years, years later.
Rebound relationships rarely work and if you two are falling for each other you want to ensure it is for the correct reasons and not because he is the brains behind the business. Businesses end, and it just might if the singer is bitter and decides his brother went behind his back to take his girl away from him. So the lady needs to tread carefully as she considers all aspects before acting.
2007-01-29 17:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no easy answers to affairs of the heart.
I would very upset to think that my boyfriend had lied about his true involvement in the band.I would be questioning what else has he lied about
.However, It is not because of his involvement in the band or good looks that made me fall in love with him in the first place.
I'd probably need some space and see how what happens!
2007-01-29 17:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. Hm personally I would stick with the guy since supposedly we both love each other. I would just ask him one thing - tell me the truth. I can take it or leave it but honesty is the best thing, makes your relationship stronger. And if the other brother is so good why would he sell out his own brother knowing that the truth might break his brother's relationship.
2007-01-29 17:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by SnowLeo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither, I would talk it out with current boyfriend, and discuss where the relationship stood, seeing the relationship was based on false notions, and eventually leave him for the genuine brother, no matter the looks its the personality that will do it for me.
2007-01-29 17:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the others!! U tel ur bf wat u heard. Make him tel the truth to u. Explain to him on how u felt wen u found out this.. See his expression.. Then decide..
Gal jst because the guy lied to to tat does not mean he will cheat u all ur life..
My hubbi and i are married abt 4 months.. But we have been dating for 6 years. I wen on with my hubby out of pity that he was a Brain Tumor patient, which i found out months later that he Lied!! I was very confused and jst hate him and myself... But i reali need to find out things and spoke to him face to face.. And found out that he reali loved me and he thought if onli he don keep up with the lie.. i will leave him... See..
Now we are married!! So u need to talk out things and not Jump into decisions!! k
GoodLuck
2007-01-29 17:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Cirano D. to me. I would never go out with a lead singer, they are attention grabbers and the whole world is all about them.
2007-01-29 17:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're frequently basically lonely or no longer lonely,worrying those who love animals and don't have the middle to exhibit away strays.there might want to correctly be some who're loopy,yet,hi, all people might want to be loopy.And different human beings have different evaluations on what loopy is.as an social gathering,some human beings might want to imagine you're loopy.LOL and through the way,i'm the dictionary woman
2016-10-17 04:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by mcgoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lie's a lie. unfortunately it depends on the true feelings of the girl. In the end, probably #1 it would be a sticky situation to "switch" brothers.
2007-01-29 17:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by mcneely96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try dating the brother so number three
2007-01-29 17:16:01 · answer #11 · answered by SANCHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋