This makes me sound like a psycho, but I CANNOT stop thinking about this guy I have a crush on. Seriously, I think about him at least once an hour and he is always at the back of my mind. I think about him even when i don't want to. It's really bugging me because I'm not sure WHY i even like him that much. I don't stalk him, but I'm totally obsessed with him!
What can I do to make it stop!?
2007-01-29 17:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well have u gone on dats wit him or just fascinated from a far !! i dont know how to make it stop other than just every time u get an obsessing thoght just change it to somethign else, like the wether. Try Limiting your exposure to the guy. or go the total other route and ask him out and see what happens.
2007-01-29 17:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, you're not alone on this issue. Many people deal with obsessive crushes on a daily basis. The answer lies in what you feel most comfortable with. If you're not shy and not afraid to take risks, try to start up a conversation with him. You never know, it might lead to something. Maybe he will develop feelings for you as well. If, however, your feelings are not reciprocated, maybe you can just be friends.
Another path that you can take, which might not sound all too desirable, is to give it some time. With time, you will get over your obsession. Maybe you'll find someone new or maybe you'll just simply get fed up with wanting someone whom you can't have. What you shouldn't do is wait around for him to make a first move because that might never happen and you will just be wasting your time. Allow yourself to be open to other romantic possibilities. You never know, love may hit you unexpectedly and you'll automatically stop obsessing over this guy.
Hope this helps!
2007-01-29 17:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by amcstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, not much. At least for a while. Do your best to distract yourself until you have some time to sort out your feeling for this guy. When you nail down your own feelings, some of the obsessive things will fade into the background.
2007-01-29 17:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by William M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with one of ur gals from school and go on a shopping spree and watch a funny movie togetha u will be so caught up in whats happening at the time that, u will stop thinkin about him for a while, and its ok that ur thinkin about him all the time u dont have to stop its normal i know a guy he thinks about me all the time his frendz get so annoyed of him becoz he is always saying that i did this and i did that and hes ALWAYS talking bout me lol never stops thinking of me , dont worry its normal its fine to think about ur crush all the time. p.s sorry bout my spellin this keybordi is really bad.
2007-01-29 17:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by cute_lil_surfer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make it stop. That happened to me before and it just past over time. Try to find out something negetive about him. Like for example he has bad breath, and you will hopefully get over him.
2007-01-29 17:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he dosen't like you then you have a problem, but i have the same thing over this girl who dosen't even like me ( thats real bad) and i don't want to go out with her crazy cutter self. But i can find other girls so its cool. But try to get with someone else so then you can focus on them instead.
2007-01-29 17:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try doing fun activities that can take him off your mind for awhile. but i see you really like this guy and talking to him,telling him how you feel about him and asking him out will help you tons too.
2007-01-29 17:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ziggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is usual. You love him. This will go away after some months.
2007-01-29 17:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by goodquestion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go know him! dun resist. After you get to know him better, you wont have this problem no longer.
2007-01-29 17:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Luffy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a good anti-OCD drug. I hear zoloft is good for that.
2007-01-29 17:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by ms_upsidedown 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋