I confessed to this guy and turns out he liked me more.
Now we've been together for about a month, and he's already talking about our future.....but we are only 16. Do all guys talk about this kind of stuff once they get a girlfriend?
2007-01-29 16:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by minoru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all guys, but that's pretty common. Take it with a really big grain of salt.
2007-01-29 17:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my personal experience I noticed that my high school ex bfs all were talking about future and all that and that creeped me out. Now that I'm older (20) I have a boyfriend who is 25 and we never talk about any serious future plans and we have been going out for 10 months now. I guess guys grow up and think about consequences that it's not easy to just married and start having kids because it's important to be financially stable first to afford good living for the whole family.
2007-01-30 01:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by SnowLeo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but the ones who plan on marrying you do. He may be a lot farther along in the process of falling in love than you are. He may just be moving too fast. You have to talk about the future - college plans, career plans - eventually. But you have the right to tell him it's too soon to be worrying about that stuff, because you aren't at that point in the relationship (for that matter, you aren't at that point in your lives - you should still be enjoying your teenage years). Tell him to just have fun with his girlfriend for a while, and that he ought to try being less serious for a little while.
2007-01-30 01:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your is to young for a serious relationship. You should be out having fun with other people getting to know things cause as time goes you will be a different person. Its puppy love and I bet the guy never a g/f before in his life or he just trying to get some.
2007-01-30 01:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh... No. at least not all. 2 things could be possible. Either he loves you alot and think you are the one or he's juz a sweet talker to get you in bed. U guys are only 16 and still sucking the blood out of your parent's wallet. What future you talking again?
2007-01-30 01:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Luffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....it's only puppy love.
2007-01-30 00:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋