I was going with this guy, short of. I thought everything was going okay, meaning that I thought we were going somewhere. He send me 24 yellow roses and when we ment, he brought me the cuties teddy bear. Before we ment, we would talk on the phone. He would tell me all these wonderful things...like, he doesn't cheat, used, play, or anything, because he thought that was totally wrong. He said he wouldn't do that to someone. I believed him. He would come to my place and hang out. We would cuddle and everything. He took me to the movies one time. That was the only time he took me out. We always hang out at my place. On my 23rd. birthday, I lost my...you know with this guy. Then, like 6 days after that....we rented a room and you know.... I swear everything was going perfect. But, the next day.... he told me that the dating isn't going to work out. I was in shocked, because the day before...we spent like 6 hours together in the room.
2007-01-29 16:57:08 · 13 answers · asked by graduation_girl2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The next day after he told me that the dating wasn't going to work out....he told me that I was too big for him and that he wasn't attractive too me. He didn't want to lean me on, so he told me that truth. If I was too big for him and all, then why did he come to my place and cuddle and everything with me? Why did he do it with me?
2007-01-29 16:58:38 · update #1
I'm sorry to say but you got played. Unfortunately some of the "nice guys" aren't so nice. Sometimes it's just that they want the one thing. Sometimes they were genuinely interested but after being intimate they know that you're not "the one" for them. It's sad but try to move on and know that someone better is out there for you!
2007-01-29 17:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a man will do many things that give you the impression that he really loves you. But guys will be guys and once they have sex with you, the relationship seems to have hit the climax and he feels that he really doesn't think that he can make any kind of big decision with you in the future because he still is looking for women. See, once a guy has sex with you everything he worked for is done, he really doesn't think that spending anymore time with you is feeding his hormones so to speak. The man will definitely call you if he needs sex not a partner in crime!
2007-01-30 01:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by calsonic66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of he is a f#$@ing a@@ hole ...believe me guys will say anything they think will make you happy. he wasnt really conserned about the weight he wanted what you had..(your vertue) and he took it because ..and excuse the language he is a ****** asshole along with the others like him.. i am really sry that you had to experience that believe me iknow the feelin the first guy i cared for disappeared the very next day not even an explination as to were he was going and he was my first i was 15 at the time so like i said i know it hurts but he isnt worth a second thought
2007-01-30 02:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by K.C. W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a game to him that he needs to conquer. He went with the moves and said the right things. Even if he found you to be too big for him, he was horny enough to do it with you. After the conquest reality sinks in and he doesn't feel like your worth the time. That's why it's better off to be friends with a guy first and learn his true nature.
2007-01-30 01:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously just used you for sex.Next time be more careful, get a commitment before you get in bed with a guy. If he never took you out or introduced you to his friends or family, that is a pretty big clue that he does not want to be seen with you.
2007-01-30 11:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IThink you got played.He just said and done all the right things until he got sex and dropped you. I'm sorry you got done like this I wish I had some advice on how to keep this from happening again but sometimes it is hard to tell the good guys from the bad guys. Sorry
2007-01-30 01:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wanted sex and that is what he got. He's not a nice guy and is probably trying on the same thing with one or more other girls. You have learned a lesson, unless it's with me don't jump into bed unless you really know the guy well.
2007-01-30 01:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a butthead! Sorry to say but he played you. Now dry your eyes and tell yourself I am a goddess!!! Don't let this buttmunch get you down there ARE good ones out there and you WILL find one that is worthy of YOU
2007-01-30 01:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by sassygrrll7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys are pigs n r after one thing a wham bam thank you ma'm. these guys r jerks. hopefully you will fimd a guy who likes you for you. dont settle on secon best when u can have the grand prize kk??
2007-01-30 01:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by karimah_aziza 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry , but he a jerk that why he did what he did, and that
sometime is the problem with some people they dont care
about any one but there self. he sound like that personl but\
dont worry what goes round come round and he will get
what coming to him. so dont let bring down. he not worth
it, good luck to you.
2007-01-30 01:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋