I really use to like this guy and I used to think about him everyday. I had a crush on him for a year. But now, he likes me and I don't feel the way that I used to feel about him anymore.
This is not the first time that happen. That is one of the reasons why I never had a boyfriend.
2007-01-29 16:47:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you're young this isn't too unusual but it can become a bad habit of always wanting the unattainable. Once it's attainable it's just not interesting. You need to relax about it and not let it become a negative pattern for future relationships.
2007-01-29 17:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like your young so its not too late. Always remember that there are plenty of fishes in the sea. Just keep looking and when you have found the right one for you, don't let it pass you by or you may have to go looking some more again. So don't worry about it, having a boyfriend or not doesn't define whether your ok or not as long as you know what you want and your comfortable with that.
2007-01-30 01:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the right one comes along everything will change! You will just want to spend every moment with him. Your subconscious is just scared when the boy actually likes you too. Don't be in such a hurry to get a boyfriend, enjoy your girlfriends at the moment cos I promise you that when you do get a boyfriend there will be no time left for your old friends.
2007-01-30 00:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a huge issue - timing is very important - and if the guy doesnt respond while the irons hot the strike is useless..
dont worry too much about it- but just make sure that the next time you like someone you let them know in a more obvious manner so that they can respond quicker..
2007-01-30 00:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by cerebral_orgasm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're a good candidate for an abused girlfriend or wife. In other words, you're only crazy about a guy when he treats you like you're worthless.
Good luck.
2007-01-30 00:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by James Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get attracted with the image of this guy in your head. The true him can never live up to it and you get turned off. Also you find them more exciting when they ignore you than when they notice you.
2007-01-30 00:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just let the feelings flow and get a boyfriend.
2007-01-30 00:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically you only like what you cannot have. Once you have it then you don't like it anymore. Good luck. You're going to be pretty lonely.
2007-01-30 00:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way, and it sucks I never had a gf. its just we have to control are feelings. good luck
2007-01-30 00:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully someday you'll find someone who feels what you do when you do. Then you'll know that you've found the right one.
2007-01-30 00:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋