Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

everyone of my friends doent understand me at all i always try to find a true friend but never seem to find one and my exbf say that i need to let people go into my life in order to understand me but i know my friends arnt that kind of people so i never showed my true self thats y i want to know what is true friend like..

2007-01-28 10:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi to everybody,
I am an Italian girl (you excuse the errors), I have a friend to which he likes the Philippine girls and he wants to come in your country and to succeed in finding a girl for then to marry , has serious intentions, but I have always dissuaded him to go to a country that doesn't know, and I have told him that it is not to find effortless the correct girl.
You that you think of it???
is it possible that he will succeed in finding the correct girl?

2007-01-28 10:04:31 · 3 answers · asked by Elisabetta c 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 10:04:18 · 3 answers · asked by Mariniac 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend birthday is coming up and i dont know what to get her. she is a college student, like clothes and all girlie stuffs. i'm planning to spend at least $20 buck. any suggestion?

2007-01-28 10:03:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i want to get a gf but im kinda of those big kids not overweight just bigboned. well i ask girls and they always say no i have a bf or no cause im to big(substitute for fat) or they find other reasons to say sumting else so does any body have any advice how to get a gf? it will be great too if you guys also give me tips and stories of your own how you got your gf or bf. thx again

2007-01-28 10:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by majmaxwell 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this girl that's all over my friend, but he doesn't know how to tell her off, so can you give me some ideas to tell him so that the girl thinks he's a real asshole

2007-01-28 10:02:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need a new boyfriend!im searchin

2007-01-28 10:02:23 · 7 answers · asked by Brat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 10:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by ARTHUR A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i never feel him.and he knows that.and it causes us lot's of probs.coz i almost always refuse,and when we're together,i'm cold as ice.i sometimes even cry coz i don't want it,thank God we're in the dark and he doesn't see that.and as we are not good in bed,there is no intimacy in the daily life relation.any help plz?it's a serious prob.thanx...

2007-01-28 10:01:15 · 31 answers · asked by Queen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In highschool everyone thought that my sister would be the sibling of our family (3 of us) that would make it into college. Now that me and her have graduated and started our separate lifes I am the one who has gone to college and she is working full time.
Last night I called her and she said that she didnt want to sound depressed but she feels bad everytime she calls me because she feels that she isnt doing anything admirable with her life.
I idolize her and dont want her being sad because I am doing my best to better myself, but I still want to keep in contact with her. What can I do to make my sister realize that just because she isnt in school she isnt a failure.
My sister in my eyes has done much better than me, she is working full time, living on her own, and she has a much more complex personal life than me. Her job helps touch those that are less fortunate than us.
I just need advice on how to cheer my sister up & make her see how trully sucessful she is.

2007-01-28 10:00:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im looking for a nice boy but dont know how to get them intrested in me

2007-01-28 10:00:45 · 12 answers · asked by stephanie l 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i aproach my girlfriend the next day after fingering her for the first time

2007-01-28 10:00:22 · 4 answers · asked by kornbready 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i'm 13 almost 14 and my girlfriend just turned 14 in november. Obviously neither of us can drive so we can't see each other that much. We both love each other alot (please no 'you're too young for it to really be love') and we can only see each other when my mom bothers to drive me there. It's about 45 minutes away and we can't see each other on weekends because she leaves to go to her dad's house and its even farther away. The only time we ever see each other is after school and it's only for like 2 hours because she has to be bak at her house at 6 (we go to a park by her house usually) I really miss her alot and any ideas on how we can see each other more would be awesome. We talk on the phone evryday and night and on AIM and stuff like that, we just don't see each other alot. So my main question is any ideas on how we can see each other more?

thanks

2007-01-28 10:00:15 · 4 answers · asked by robertthejetsfan 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy once in December and we have talked a few times on the phone since then. On our one date, he practically stood me up: he had to work late but didn't call to tell me until an hour after we were supposed to be out. I went out with him anyway because I was all dressed up, and had an okay time, and we kissed a little at the end.

But he has since done a lot of not calling when he says he will and then he called at 4am drunk. We talked last night and i tried to tell him I didn't want to see him again, but he said that he was out of town because his friend was killed and that it wasn't his fault he didn't call. He has admitted that he doesn't want to feel "committed" to me b/c he just got out of a long relationship, but he does want to see me again. I don't want to bother with someone who doesn't take me seriously but I feel guilty about blowing him off b/c his friend died. How can I tell him I don't want to see him again without being mean? Is that possible?

2007-01-28 10:00:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive seen this feela for 6 and a half weeks and hed said he was crazy about me madly in love with me and ask about the future all the things you look out for to see if someone was interested all of a sudden he broke up with me saying the magic had died and that although he fancied me and really liked me as a person it wasnt working for him. i was gutted i really didnt want to get hurt and had played it safe letting him take the reigns. he also had the nerve to say if it was any consolation he had been in it for the long haul. i met him again since and hes asked how i was and general talk i still feel there is someting there and id been to a fortune teller who told me that he was the one for me im afraid if i dont make a step il never know. plzzzzzzzzz help im a complete wreck.

2007-01-28 09:59:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been seperated since November. I told him in August that I wanted to seperate but we tried to work things out, and they didn't. I had had a bit of an affair on him... no sex, more of an emotional thing with some kissing, etc. Now, my ex wants me and our three kids out of the house (which was bought from our wedding money) and is going to talk to his lawyer tomorrow to see how he can more or less pay me off to get out. He thinks it should be roughly 2000. We bought the house for 67,000, but it was bankruptand is valued at 110,000. We've paid off 7500. Legally, I believe that I am entitled to half of the home's worth, but am okay with getting a smaller settlement.He says now that if I don't agree to what his lawyer says than we will go to court, and I will walk away with nothing because of my little affair that I had. Is that used against you in the courts? Would I be better off to take the 2000 and just leave the house, or should I fight it?In Ontario Canada

2007-01-28 09:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like I'm constantly attacked by my friends because they seem to degrade me and think I'm someone else that I'm not. They treat me if I'm some arrogant freak.For an example, let's say I got a 98 on a test. I would be fairly happy with it, but I am always a type who wants to learn from mistake and make sure I don't make it again. So I would be a bit concerned with it because I know that even though 98 is an A+, you can always find a way to improve and stop making silly mistakes. But my friends think that I'm being arrogant, thinking that I think that I'm smarter than I really am. Then they'd say, "What if you really /don't/ have the ability to get it correct?" That really hurts me because I know I /do/ have the ability(I know that sounds a bit arrogant) but I need to fix my attitude. In general, I do not want to be better than anybody else but I just want to improve and stay that way. Now they think I'm some crazy competitive freak and it really hurts me b/c I know I'm not! Help?!

2007-01-28 09:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by bloop 2 in Friends

I just met this guy, how do i turn him on and make him go crazy without having sex??!!

2007-01-28 09:58:55 · 13 answers · asked by BRiCKiN 1 in Singles & Dating

There is no problem he just wants to move back so its easy for him.I say stay where you are untill there is a problem and you need help.What do you think?

2007-01-28 09:58:28 · 12 answers · asked by kOFFIE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this girl and immediately liked her so i sent her a poem as a secret admirer through e-mail. i didn't know her well at all but i really liked her writing on myspace. she really liked the poem i sent and said she wanted to know who i was. so finally i told her. now, she knows i like her and wants to get to know me to see if she has the same feelings, but i can't stop thinking she is only being nice and secretly thinks i'm a stalker/creep? even though i want to get to know her, i avoid her so she doesn't think i'm stalking her. how do i get over the feeling of being a creep? we have talked a few times now and she says i make her feel incredible inside, but i still think she is just too nice.

2007-01-28 09:56:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a sit down dinner and everybody to dress nice. Most things I see say this is a formal wedding. However, I don't want to wear a big huge formal wedding dress. It is nice but not with a ball gown. I also don't want to wear a veil. Does it really matter to stick to the rules? I mean I find the rules a little shady. What do I tell people to wear? Can I have semi-formal to informal wear and still have it in a nice reception hall?

2007-01-28 09:55:51 · 9 answers · asked by fifimsp1 4 in Weddings

there is this guy that i went to high school with. me and him hung out at my place last week and then 3 days later, i havent heard from him. and then he writes me a email and tells me that he has a girlfriend, but she is pregnant with his baby. when he told me that, my heart was broken, because i dont think that we would be able to hang out again, knowing the fact that i have deeper feelings for him and i cant seem to get him out of my mind. the more i think about him, the more i feel hurt and i really cant take it anymore. what should i do?

2007-01-28 09:55:42 · 8 answers · asked by shadowgurl2006 1 in Friends

It's a Sunday evening, and my girlfriend and I want to spend the majority of time here at home. What are some things we can do that require minimal time invested in going out and getting the materials?

2007-01-28 09:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by carlos1485 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad is making me go to a community center beacuse he thinks im home to much ????? what to do ?????? what i want to do is go out to the paintball field and play with my friends none of my friends go to the community center

2007-01-28 09:53:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when do u have sex

2007-01-28 09:53:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this girl and some of the stuff she does is very irritating. She judges a lot of people based on their weight, beauty and other superficial things. I have this feeling, that she really doesnt like me, but thinks i'm rich and uses me for stuff. And I feel like she's never there for me, to listen to me, but i'm always there for her. I also never feel comfortable telling her any deep things..

2007-01-28 09:53:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have my own computer and my parents didn't put any parental controls on it so sometimes when i'm home alone i might look at p*rn. i no this sounds a little weird but when they come back i kind of feel guilty and wish i had never done it in the first place. its rely hard for me not to look at it (i cant rely explain it). does anyone know something that can block everything? (like software or something) ps: i dont want to sound like a pervert to anyone

2007-01-28 09:52:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am trying to figure out the NEW idea of an ideal housewife. From how the house looks to how she treats her husband. Not the ideal 1950's housewife of Donna Reed (because we don't have scripts or writers) but a REAL housewife.

An example is:
Keeps the house clean as if she is expecting company. Looks nice when the husband comes home (but what is looking nice?).

Thanks for all the answers!!

2007-01-28 09:52:31 · 12 answers · asked by KJ97Y100 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If he is super curious about what I do and who I hang out with and refuses to leave me alone until I tell him about my new boyfriend.

2007-01-28 09:51:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

used to date a guy for a few months, but he turned out to be a creep. After we stopped dating, he stalked me, harrassed me, called me a ****, threatened to get me, so forth. Well, another friend of mine knows this guy I dated and everything he has done to me. Today, he adds this creep to his facebook (I know, sounds childish, but deal with it)!

All I put on my friend's site was, "Birds of a feather flock together." He'll know what I'm talking about.

Am I wrong for feeling this way, or making that comment? And why would this friend add such a creep (especially when he used to talk about wanting to beat the creep up)?

2007-01-28 09:51:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends