there is this guy that i went to high school with. me and him hung out at my place last week and then 3 days later, i havent heard from him. and then he writes me a email and tells me that he has a girlfriend, but she is pregnant with his baby. when he told me that, my heart was broken, because i dont think that we would be able to hang out again, knowing the fact that i have deeper feelings for him and i cant seem to get him out of my mind. the more i think about him, the more i feel hurt and i really cant take it anymore. what should i do?
2007-01-28 09:55:42 · 8 answers · asked by shadowgurl2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just try move on...Takes a while...Just try to keep yourself busy.
2007-01-28 10:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, I've been there and it really stinks. I thought about mine every minute and couldn't even sleep. You may not believe me, but time heals the hurt, and it ended because something better is coming for you. That's the way life is. One door closes and the next one opens. What helped me was everytime a thought of him came into my head, I would right away think of something else, I just kept doing that and it helped. Also I concentrated on myself. I bought some new clothes, and stayed very busy with my friends. And one day, it was over, I didn't even want him anymore. The hurt was gone. Just like that. Broken hearts do mend. I read a great book on breakups and it was funny. It was written by Alison James, called I used to miss him but my aim is improving. You will laugh, and maybe even get a few ideas to make you feel better. I hate to read, but this book was my savior. Take care!! Love yourself.
2007-01-28 19:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by Josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww..that must be really hard for you. i totally understand how you feel but remember you are not alone....situations like these happen to many people. All i can say is that there are many guys out there. You just have to open up and meet new people. I can imagine how you were brokenhearted when he called you and told you everything. i would've been so hurt and depressed too. it will take time before you will completely forget about him. what i do when i have guy problems like that i get a makeover...get a pedicure/manicure, cut my hair, meditate...something that will make me feel good about myself inside. Surround yourself with your friends and keep yourself occupied so you wont have to think too much about it. Give time for yourself to heal. you will find someone better....just take good care of yourself!
2007-01-28 18:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and get over him. He has a baby to think about. I think that is more important than hanging out with you. Not trying to be mean, but you can meet someone else and hang out with them.
2007-01-28 18:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like something you will get over soon. You never had a relationship with this guy right, sounds more like a crush to me, that's why they call it a crush.. But anyway, don't worry about it, sounds like he's got his own issues to deal with. Why would you want to deal with a baby mama?
2007-01-28 18:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by SphinxEyez999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i am so sorry that seems like it would be soooo hard!
its okay to wallow and cry for a while sometimes thats the best thing call your bff and have him/her come over cuz they should have your back. find anothr lover to take your distractions away from him
2007-01-28 18:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by abby_borg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I am sorry. Second of all, try not to think of it at all. And listen to funny songs, watch funny movies, anything to make u laugh, instead of cry, and also try not to think about it. at all.
2007-01-28 18:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kaycee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy yourself a lolipop and listen to It's my party and I'll cry if I want to
2007-01-28 17:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋