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i met this girl and immediately liked her so i sent her a poem as a secret admirer through e-mail. i didn't know her well at all but i really liked her writing on myspace. she really liked the poem i sent and said she wanted to know who i was. so finally i told her. now, she knows i like her and wants to get to know me to see if she has the same feelings, but i can't stop thinking she is only being nice and secretly thinks i'm a stalker/creep? even though i want to get to know her, i avoid her so she doesn't think i'm stalking her. how do i get over the feeling of being a creep? we have talked a few times now and she says i make her feel incredible inside, but i still think she is just too nice.

2007-01-28 09:56:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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sounds like you have a 'crush' on her. just take it one day at a time...its too early to start feeling like you dont deserve happiness.

2007-01-28 10:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

ok, I am confused. You wrote her a poem to get her attention and now that you have it, you want to stop talking to her? What doesnt sound right with this picture. If she hasnt said anything about her feeling like you are a stalker, then why are you worried about it. That is just silly. As long as she is ok with it all, roll with it.
As far as a stalker.....that is a perv peekin through windows or hiding behind bushes to see where she is and what she is doing. Are you doing any of these things? I dont think so.....so lighten up and let it be what it will. You need to chill out and see where this goes. If she didnt wanna talk to you, she wouldnt. No matter how nice she is.
Good luck.

2007-01-28 18:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1 0

If a guy sent me a poem and seemed to be a nice, kind , sincere guy... I would want to meet him in a heart beat !!! Hundreds of people ... young and old ... meet online every day !!! Don't let this opportunity escape you!! The worst thing that can happen is it won't work out. But... at least you won't always be wondering " WHAT IF ????????" Go for it !!

2007-01-28 18:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think you've impressed her. Keep up the good work!
If you have confidence in yourself, then you won't feel like a creep. Just stay cool and appear casual whenever u guys meet, that way nobody will think of you as stalking her.

2007-01-28 18:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 2 · 1 0

Dont avoid her. if she says you make her feel incredible that means she doesn't think you are stalking her, and probably likes it.
If you are just shy and thats why you didn't tell her at first who you where, then theres nothing to be ashamed of...
Just act normal, don't purposely stalk her nor avoid her. if you bump into her, you bump into her. but don't stop talking :).

2007-01-28 18:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

girls dont tend to compliment stalkers it just not the norm id go for broke this one could be a keeper. dont let these feelings your having ruin a perfectly good thing.

2007-01-28 18:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

YOUR DOING FINE, JUST KEEP THINGS NICE AND CASUAL AND FIND OUT FROM HER , THE BEST WAY TO MEET AND ENJOY ONE ANOTHER. MAYBE AT THE LIBRARY, ASK HER FOR SUGGESTIONS. ONCE YOU GET THE BALL ROLLING THEN KINDA MUTUALLY HAVE FUN- - EVEN STUDYING TOGETHER AT THE LIBRARY. MAKE THINGS GRADUAL AND BELIEVE ME YOU WILL APPRECIATE HER AND YOURSELF MORE.

2007-01-28 18:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0 0

Ask her what she really thinks of you and if you don't feel like she's being completly honest with you then slowly stop talking to her.

2007-01-28 18:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lola 5 · 0 1

Too nice? Do you really not believe that there are actually people out there who're genuinely, sincerely nice?

2007-01-28 18:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by ....A Tragedy.... 3 · 1 0

It all depends on what questions u ask her, and how u word ur questions. That's all. Just don't ask anything sex related, and ur in the clear. Ok?
Good luck

2007-01-28 18:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0 1

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