There is no problem he just wants to move back so its easy for him.I say stay where you are untill there is a problem and you need help.What do you think?
2007-01-28 09:58:28 · 12 answers · asked by kOFFIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There must have been a reason in the first place, If the boy has a job, and does not have unsavory friend "hanging out", and you guys all get along, why not? You are allowed to change your mind. BUT, if his lifestyle (drinking, illegal stuff, whatever) does not agree with yours, or if he is being a sponge, or guilt tripping you in any way......Hell No
2007-01-28 10:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A classic example of the boomerrang kid who leaves home only to return. If you let him return you might as well do it for your good and not his. Charge him rent and make him do chores around the house. He probablys thinks he just going to freeload off mom and dad and save his earnings for his wants and forget about you. Hes old enough to know that nothing in this world comes cheap so he can pay his own way. Whats the worst that can happen here, he doesnt move back home which really wont hurt you anyway and then he will still have to pay for his lifestyle, but he will have to grow up faster than being under mom and dad or he will be out on the streets faster. Choice is yours but make him pay for the decision. Good luck
2007-01-28 10:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well wife an i got 4 sons, which 2 wanted to try to live on their on,..we bothth try telling them it was going to be hard, but life show them,what we could not tell them,,so i say this let him get ,to see what life is realy about,,,but when he learn,an need a place, do let him back in, for if it just easy for him, What has he learn. an he the one that thought he was a man,,, Yes, well let him see what being a man all about,,,you find latter down the road you have less trouble from him..Iproud to say both of our son ,are back at home,an now know just, how are it is,
2007-01-28 10:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand if he's in college and wants to live at home til he's done, but other than that, no he needs to live on his own. I think that parents who allow their kids to live with them need to know that they are only hindering them from growing up and taking responsibility. I know it's hard because you love them so much, but you don't want to see them like this their whole life. I have a sister-in-law who is 34 and still bums money off inlaws and does not pay back. She has not learned how to save money at all. I think it's ridiculous and time for her to learn a lesson. Hope this helps you some...
2007-01-28 10:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lids 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mother it is hard to say no, but I am told that we are doing our adult children no favors by doing to much for them.
They must learn how to make it on their own. Only you know what would be best for you and your son.
Don't let him stay at home scott free. He needs to pay his way unless he is going to be a student.
I made the mistake of making my last child (a son) my baby for way to long. That did not serve him well. My fault. He is doing fine now and about to be married, but it took him so much longer to mature and grow up.I expected so much more from my other 4 children, and got it.
Sooooo Mom, if you felt it best for whatever reason to get him out before, then think about that long and hard, before you decide what your final decision is, on him coming back home again.
Good Luck and God Bless you both.~~~Happy New Year" ~~~
2007-01-28 10:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer if he's modeling guy clothing. as long as he does not develop right into a permenant variety, or get into style, then no it won't lead into homosexuality. inspite of the incontrovertible fact which you mentioned he's only 13? that fairly isn't that youthful for a baby variety guy. young babies alot youthful than that are doing the very comparable subject for banners, classified ads and what no longer. provide it some theory, yet on the age he's at and the money you would be pulling in?! how are you able to assert no? Why might you no longer want him in a boxer p.c.. for babies making that style of money? I advise modeling i assume in case you get rather deep into it ought to steer in direction of homosexuality. i might agree on that, yet while he only does a number of those shoots, its no longer likely to break his sexuality in any respect. think of roughly it guy.
2016-09-28 02:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by schenecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in america, it is having to become this way, due to horrible high rent everywhere. I see no problem with it , as long as he holds down a job, and helps you out in the process.
2007-01-28 10:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You never stop being a parent. Let him move back in. BUT, make it so miserable for him (your house-your rules) that he would rather live in siberia than with you.
2007-01-28 10:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn to live on his own and deal with his own problems. It is called growing up. My brother is 43 and still lives at home, and i think he is the biggest loser.
2007-01-28 10:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Derek Wildstar 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Having been a parent, who has been there and done that, my advice is NO.
You will have a hard time getting rid of him, and he will become demanding and lazy.
Tell him to "Sink or swim".
2007-01-28 10:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋