Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

2007-01-28 10:19:22 · 8 answers · asked by Ponyboy99 3 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the story. one of my best friends i thiiiink might like me, my friends have said he looks at me in that way, and even sometimes *ahem* checks me out. he treats me a little differently, (doesnt insult me ect.) and at one of my school dances he asked me to dance but i found out later one of my friends had kinda prodded him to. ok i know now ur thinking, "he sooo likes u go for it." but heres the trouble. two of my friends like him too and hes friends with them and doesnt want to hurt them. hes worried about his friends making fun of me and him, (we're in seprate grades) and we only have the rest of this year in the same school before he goes to high school. i really wana make the most of our time but im not sure if i wana screw up our friendship. HELP!!!

2007-01-28 10:18:23 · 13 answers · asked by Christine 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl that likes me and i her...told me she's not ready for a relationship but would tell me when she is...im constantly wondering if their is someone else she wants. Who her close boy friends are and stuff. I guess im paranoid of she's not gonna be with her. She says im sweet and nice but i think im almost stalking her and im scared im a lose her and we are not a couple right now.

2007-01-28 10:17:24 · 3 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

recentally my best guy friend and i started dating. I'm ok with it and every thing but things at home are getting wierd. He knows some of the stuff that has happened at home before, but only a few since i didn't know him then. I don't want to say anything to him, but i don't know who to talk to about things. I really like him i just don't want him to be included in the trouble at home and think that I'm a freak. We've only been together about a month, but i've known him awhile. What should i do?

2007-01-28 10:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by band_nerds_rock2 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, no sex jokes please, I'm serious.
I am thinking of inviting THE MAN OF MY DREAMS (from Italy) to visit me in the US. WE HAVE NEVER EVEN HAD ONE DATE!!! I have never even spent one full hour with him!!! And now I will be in a hotel with him for a full week! I am nervous!! How can I keep him entertained?? I don't want him to get bored!!!! I want to get a hotel on the ocean and we can go to the beach but what else can we do??? I want to give him THE TIME OF HIS LIFE. What are some fun things we can do?? (Please don't say anything like museums, etc, he's not that type...) HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(We are in our 30s. He says he has NEVER been on vacation before (due to lack of money).) I need some romantic, exciting, fun things....
Thank you!!! :)

2007-01-28 10:16:25 · 4 answers · asked by F 5 in Singles & Dating

but he has already been married and he has picures and love notes from her and she calls every week i'm not sure if i want to rush into a relation ship like that

2007-01-28 10:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband SO much, but I want to choke the crap out of him sometimes.

Do you ever feel the same about your spouse or significant other?

2007-01-28 10:15:44 · 17 answers · asked by CyndiDrum 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been seeing the most wonderful man since early Nov...we live in 2 different states. He ALWAYS does what he says like calling ..etc. I talked to him last friday, and was leaving noon saturday to see me, thats the last time Ive talked to him!! His employer says he is on a "big job" but let me to believe something is up. He had a serious mishap with the law and Im afraid if he maybe was pulled over for something on friday his bond would be revoked (it was in another state). What can I do to find him? Im physically sick Im so worried!

2007-01-28 10:14:17 · 2 answers · asked by Sabby S 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and he likes me...but he has a gf and im the one backing off...he asked to kiss me but i said no...and i think i sort of regret it now what should i do? and ive never had my first kiss...what should i do..?

2007-01-28 10:14:04 · 4 answers · asked by Monica 2 in Singles & Dating

he said he likes me too and he said he was making it obvious. but then he told me he hates being emotional and doesn't like to show his feelings. what does this mean? does it mean he likes me but doesn't want to go out with me or what?

2007-01-28 10:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you also tell me the first time you did it and if you remeber where you did it.

2007-01-28 10:12:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there's this guy at my school, and I've sort of had a crush on him, I think he did, or does. Um, anyway. I told a few of my friends about this. [I trust them, they didn't say anything to anyone else.] And everytime I'd tell a friend, he'd be right there to hear it. (I kept my voice low however) I think he heard me, he won't really look my way, and it's rare when I see him at least glance over quickly. We haven't really talked either. But my question is, did I scare him, or does he even like me at all?

Plz, don't be mean, I'm not in the mood for it.

2007-01-28 10:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the deal Me and my fiance have been dating for 4 years, he deployed in May and came back in Oct. During that time I would go to his parents and you know, visit with them, when he got back they were very "selfih" with him, they would actually guilt him into doing thing just for them, anyway, Thanksgiving came around, he spent Thanksgiving day with them and we went to my family' at night, the next day they came to our apt and demanded that he move back in with them, he didnt leave but that whole situation involved me and his mother fighting, I wouldnt have done it, but my fiance wa having an axiety attack during this whole situation, my sis was restraining his mother away from me, when I turned around I saw her slapping and pulling off the earrings of my 16 YO sis, I cant go to his special army events, he only tells them to go, he will leave and Ill be here alone, my moms health is failing now and I want to leave him, and go and tend to her, I want him to go too what to do?

2007-01-28 10:12:13 · 15 answers · asked by Summer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke college student, and I cannot afford them, but he's still asking me to told me to call him for this free session, so I asked him why was he offering me the free session, and he said because he does it for people he connect with so anyhow, I finally showed up for the damn session but I was late, so he's like when can you come in and I told him next friday and he's like why so
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2007-01-28 10:11:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is so depressed, I don't know what to do to help him. He has not many friends, because the ones in high school were "losers" and he has recently changed directions and realized that. Thank God for that at least. He has lots of family in the area, but it's not the same. He wants to meet people his own age, or in the same situation, but doesn't know how. He is so lonely. Any suggestions? On the days that he doesn't have his son he goes absolutely crazy. Needs to do something, but doesn't know where to go. Doesn't have a whole lot of money to spend. Please help.

P.S. - Amandawil and LadyHewit - thanks so much

2007-01-28 10:11:41 · 9 answers · asked by Sharon 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i need an boyfriend that nice, kind and, sweet boyfriend

2007-01-28 10:11:17 · 8 answers · asked by tata 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 10:10:58 · 4 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know which one i prefer as Ive had experience but maybe not enough...

2007-01-28 10:09:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever since my mum has had the internet she's been meetin up wiv men from there and sleeping with them she even kicked my pregnant sister out and her boyfriend jus so she could have a bloke 14 years younger than her round. she turning into a prostitute.

2007-01-28 10:09:46 · 24 answers · asked by dummy_blonde 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is a good way i can do for my wife for valentines day or just in general to show shes wanted and i care.....

2007-01-28 10:09:01 · 16 answers · asked by mastaflx17 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dependant on my husband, my husband have finacial problems, loan, credit card etc..
I am trying to do some savings these days, my husband life style is very different from mine, however after a fight yesterday, my husband admitted he will go for a day near the beach, even uf he doesn't like water, and small cabins, he said to me: " he became home kind of person, he likes to relax at home" and he said: " I have to get back the sense of going out"
plus my husband is doing e-business, advertising at home, all day especially on week-end, he learning. He is doing that because he non longer want to have a boss above his head, because of his boss.
He even told me he will do business from home full time when he sees this thing is working better than his acual job as an accountant.
I had one misscarriage last year 2006 during my studies, and I was studying full time, my husband was supportive staying with me at the hospital, after the cleaning operation, he was very supportive and he promised me that this miscarriage will stay confidential.
During summer break, my husband took 2 weeks off during chritsmas, he didn't get out for the whole break, he asked me to be supportive and patient, he need to set his e-business first.
but I asked him to go for a cheap holiday, he said he can't.
now, after the 2 months passed, I stayed at home most of the time, I was bored, there is nothing to do if you stay by yourself, I feel insecure, anxious, stressed out, I fee very sick, I am depressed now
yesterday, I blew out all my frustrations my talking loudly at night with my husband, I went through a fight with him, I said to him, I ca,t cure myself from head ach, I can't sleep, I keep thinking and worrying, I have headach, this will affect my studies in my final semeastre.
I need recharge! I gave him an example: how the computer sometimes is hot and slows down whe you use it alot, a human being is the same, e should know that, but he really thing that I am holding him back, after all the time I spend more with myself, he didn't bother thinking and suggesting to go out from this boring cycle at home, I cook everydaym wash the plate, clean the house, and give my heart to him.
he threatened me after the fight yesterday because I was yelling and embarrassing, he was going to hit me but thankfully he didn't, instead he went back to the Internet and made a reservation for me and him for one night, a cheap stay at a holiday place.
you can see on his face the "I don't like this outing" when I said I will prepare the bag.
I said " I am sorry for yelling at you, but I am frustrated and I am not enjoying my life since I came to Australia, you don't take me out much, I am isolated socially, that is hard, we didn't have honeymoon after our wedding, he claims that he spent alot of money for our wedding.
I don't want to live with him anymore, he doesn't appeciate me, and he think I don't appreciate what he did for me so far.
last night I slept well, but In the morning I felt he still sad becoz of the way I communicate with him.
I know that I am not perfect, but I need a solution to live happily with my husband, he is hard to control.

2007-01-28 10:08:55 · 7 answers · asked by Summer O 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-28 10:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 10:08:08 · 4 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy i like passes me and says my name then walks away?

2007-01-28 10:06:32 · 18 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Friends

How mad would you be?

2007-01-28 10:06:23 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

i did i am so embrassed.i couldnt help it.please help

2007-01-28 10:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by angie w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, we have 2 children together, but they are adults and don't live with me...they live on their own. We were married for 13 years, He wanted the divorce, but I filed because he said that he didn't want to take the heat for being the one that filed. Even to this day, he will call and tell me that he wasn't expecting me to answer the phone. Then he says he can't remember why he called and he'll call me back if he remembers. He sent me a wedding invitation (which I thought was tacky-I didn't go). And he NEVER even mentions his wife's name-EVER. I don't know what his game is ...if it is a game. And NO! I do NOT want him back, I just don't underatand his behavior. We are cordial to each other. It was a pleasant divorce...if there is such a thing. He has never needed my approval for anything in the past. What do you think? I'm trying not to read anything into it, but it's awful strange.

2007-01-28 10:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 in Marriage & Divorce

At my job, this woman has got to be the laziest most spoiled person I have ever meet in my life. Well after 6 months of of dealing with her BS, my boss decided to let her go. Well she took it to court and sued the company for a lot of money. The company had to fire about 10 people due to her lawsuit to cover the money loss (people who were friends of mine and actually worked). Luckily I had seniority and got to stay. This is such bullcrap. You woman can get away with murder and no one can fire you because you will just scream sexual harrasment. Right now im saving up to open my own business. Due to what my company went through, I have firmly decided never to hire a woman.

2007-01-28 10:05:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i met this guy this past weekend at a camp thingy. and i thought he was really cute...the problem he goes to a different school and i didnt really talk to him. i want to get to know him more...and there is an away game this week at his school. against my school. i wanna go and talk to him, but am too shy and i am scared of what he will think...please help. advice on what i should do. thanks

2007-01-28 10:05:25 · 4 answers · asked by roxygirl2828 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 10:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by Nikki V 1 in Singles & Dating