but he has already been married and he has picures and love notes from her and she calls every week i'm not sure if i want to rush into a relation ship like that
2007-01-28 10:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eek... yea that's pretty scary. I would tell him it's her or you, not that he can't be her friend, but he has to put his past relationship behind him, casue he has to be loyal to you. Did he propose or going to?
2007-01-28 10:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by yanosh13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is calling every week and he still has obvious displays of her stuff laying around, then he is not emotionally over her yet and you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. He needs to move on and choose you or else you need to find someone else who is able to TOTALLY commit to you and you alone. In a way, he is cheating on each of you with the other one. Emotional adultery/cheating is the worst kind because you need emotional connection/trust in a realationship and without it, or when it is lost, you have nothing. But, on the other hand, for some people think that the actual physical act would be worse, but it depends on the person. Unless he is having sex with her! In that case, RUN the other way.
2007-01-28 18:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still has pictures and love notes from her and she is still calling then I'd say that they still have feelings for each other. I wouldn't rush into anything either. Guard your heart, girl!
2007-01-28 18:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very careful. he could still have feeling for her. and if so you definatley DO NOT deserve that!
ask him about all the pics and all that, cos if they are for memories, fair enough, but if they are more then that, keep clear.
He may need time to get over it, but if he is hanging on to stuff and calling her, then he may not want to.
Talk to him, and express how it makes you feel.
2007-01-28 18:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not marry him either cause he is still involved with the other lady and you have the right notion to not rush into this relationship.
2007-01-28 18:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say its not wise to b with a man in a situation like this for the rest of ur freakin life. she ll always b there,u know. marriage is no game. you got to tell him what u urself need, what is fine with u and what is not. dont freakout! if u guys r meant to b then it ll happen no matter what. have faith n god will show u the way
2007-01-28 18:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by abderrahman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not get married just wait find some one special he obviously does not like you go to day cares and work with kids then he will already know how to take care of kids trust me I did the same thing.
2007-01-28 18:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, he isn't ready to move on. I really wouldn't even be in a commited relationship with him, let alone marriage. Think about how he isn't 100% with you...emotionally.
2007-01-28 19:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes not ready either.
2007-01-28 18:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful that you are not the re-bound.
2007-01-28 18:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Kathryn G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋