There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke college student, and I cannot afford them, but he's still asking me to told me to call him for this free session, so I asked him why was he offering me the free session, and he said because he does it for people he connect with so anyhow, I finally showed up for the damn session but I was late, so he's like when can you come in and I told him next friday and he's like why so
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2007-01-28 10:11:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cont) when I showed up for the session, he's pressing me about why can't I do the "Free session" tommorrow..he's like why does it have to be so long, and I 'm thinking damn this is a free session..so why are you pressing me so hard....and he sort of gave me the third degree about being late...he was questioning me about why I was late..and I told him traffic, and he's like okay you get a pass for that one..damn am I tripping or is he...
2007-01-28 10:12:26 · update #1
Plus.while we were conversating..he asked me how I was..and I told him I was tired..and he was like 'Oh well you weren't even looking foward to coming today to the session then anyway" I was thiking damn..he is sensitive..
2007-01-28 10:13:47 · update #2
And he calls me while he's at church..to make sure I was coming..
2007-01-28 10:14:50 · update #3
Say, I notice you're not wearing a ring. And let him run with that.
2007-01-28 10:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by da_hammerhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really sounds like this guy works off of commissions so the more people he gets to join the more he makes. So its his job to be overly nice to people just to get them to join. By making the free session is his way of telling just how serious you are about joining a fitness program. I wouldnt be a bit surprised if you did some checking that this guy is the same way with other females too. If this isnt he situation and hes really coming on to you then hes over stepping his boundaries and bordering on sexual harassment.But I really believe the first scenario is correct that hes just an over bearing sales person/trainer. Dont read too much more into this guy cause it isnt there. Good luck
2007-01-28 10:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him then???? Are you or he married??? If so back off and dont go further with this but if you both are available and single then ask him!
2007-01-28 10:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like, he's like, kinda like, maybe like, interested in you . m
2007-01-28 10:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋