recentally my best guy friend and i started dating. I'm ok with it and every thing but things at home are getting wierd. He knows some of the stuff that has happened at home before, but only a few since i didn't know him then. I don't want to say anything to him, but i don't know who to talk to about things. I really like him i just don't want him to be included in the trouble at home and think that I'm a freak. We've only been together about a month, but i've known him awhile. What should i do?
2007-01-28 10:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by band_nerds_rock2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on what the trouble at home is. I mean your parents are keeping dead bodies, or the parts thereof around? Or, are we talking Creepy, or Immoral, or Illegal? If so you probably don't want to drag him, but if it's just mom and dad fighting, or something like that talk to him. Tactfully bring it up and ask him what he would do about a "hypothetical"situation. See what he says and how he would react will give you a clue. If you want someone to talk to maybe a pastor, a priest, a rabbi, or whatever, or maybe a counselor at school.
2007-01-28 11:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is ur best guy friend suddenly turned bf, i think u should tell him things that are going on if ur home if he really lieks u then i think he would love to be part of ur life and be able to help u with ur problems. so be open with him and let him know whats going on in your life. im sure he would love to hear it, even if it isnt the best news, im sure he doesnt want u to deal with everything on ur own. so let him noe whats going on, after all he was ur bestfriend and u can talk to him.!
2007-01-28 18:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still your best friend, even if you're dating him or not. Talk to him and ask him if he cares if you vent to him. I'll bet he actually would like being there for you.
2007-01-28 18:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by gigagiggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of trouble at home?
2007-01-28 18:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Luthyin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not know what to do then the best thing to do is nothing.
2007-01-28 18:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him everything be honest. unless you caused all the termoil you have nothing to be ashamed of.
2007-01-28 18:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. He should still be your friend.
2007-01-28 18:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋