ok heres the story. one of my best friends i thiiiink might like me, my friends have said he looks at me in that way, and even sometimes *ahem* checks me out. he treats me a little differently, (doesnt insult me ect.) and at one of my school dances he asked me to dance but i found out later one of my friends had kinda prodded him to. ok i know now ur thinking, "he sooo likes u go for it." but heres the trouble. two of my friends like him too and hes friends with them and doesnt want to hurt them. hes worried about his friends making fun of me and him, (we're in seprate grades) and we only have the rest of this year in the same school before he goes to high school. i really wana make the most of our time but im not sure if i wana screw up our friendship. HELP!!!
2007-01-28 10:18:23 · 13 answers · asked by Christine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay sweetie I hope your ready but in all honesty leave it the way it is. I have done what you are thinking about doing, he was my friend for 3 years and my boyfriend for 4 months and when we broke up 6 years ago I realized I made the biggest mistake of my life because after all is said and done when the relationship is over the friendship is too. Think about it and make the decision that is best for you.
2007-01-28 10:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by JaNelle M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to make something "official" for it to work. My guy friend and I are the same way--we both like each other but we won't pursue anything serious because we're best friends and we don't want to screw that up. You could try just spending some time alone with him as "just friends", and see how that goes. You could then either just leave things like that or else pursue something more if you thought it would go over well.
2007-01-28 10:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Andre@ L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is bound to anyone and no one owes anyone anything.
A mature person can like whomever he chooses and express it. If other people are unhappy, that is their problem. We were not put here to live our lives the way everyone else wants us to. We are free to like whomever we choose, and if that person likes us back, great! If that person likes someone else, okay! He is free to do that and a mature person accepts that and moves on.
There is no resolution for teen trauma except growing up and becoming and acting mature.
2007-01-28 10:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel and not what other people think. Who cares its your guys life not thiers. People will see you happy and try to destroy it because thay don't have what you do. If your friend have a problem with him liking you more then he likes them its not your fault if will be fine with it if thier your real friends. They will get over it either way...Stay strong..
2007-02-05 08:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like the guy go for it altho you are in a fairly young grade but i had the same problem and it worked out for me me and my guy have been happily together for almost 1 year so good luck to you!
2007-01-28 10:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by cluess356101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never going to know the outcomes of your problem if you don't a least try. I'm things of going to be fine. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-05 02:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lil' mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on. He likes you and you know it, and I know it, you two are perfect for each other so stop worrying about it... Let it happen by itself.
Love, your awesome best friend,
Makenzie :)
2007-01-29 09:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Makenzie. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to tell him and your friends how you feel about the subject. I know,,,, I am a teen too.
good luck!!
2007-01-28 10:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by roppter3--it really is! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO OUT WITH HIM IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS STRONG ENOUGHT IT WILL HANDLE THE TEASING AND THE GRADE DIFF GIVE IT A SHOT
2007-01-28 11:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋