Ok, there's this guy at my school, and I've sort of had a crush on him, I think he did, or does. Um, anyway. I told a few of my friends about this. [I trust them, they didn't say anything to anyone else.] And everytime I'd tell a friend, he'd be right there to hear it. (I kept my voice low however) I think he heard me, he won't really look my way, and it's rare when I see him at least glance over quickly. We haven't really talked either. But my question is, did I scare him, or does he even like me at all?
Plz, don't be mean, I'm not in the mood for it.
2007-01-28 10:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you scared him you may have just made him nervous; it's amazing what kind of power girls have in groups (even if it's just two of you). Whenever you see him at least smile, you don't have to necessarily put yourself out there and make the first move unless you feel comfortable. With a simple smile, you let him know that you're not out to get him. Remember, a lot of guys are just shy.
2007-01-28 10:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have heard you talking about him and is now too embarrassed to look at you. I guess the answer is YES you scared him. That doesn't mean you should worry about it. He may very well like you too. He could be shy which would be a real problem. Maybe one of your more outgoing friends could help out, say something to him about you to give him a little strength. A friend could possibly find out if he's interested in you or if you're wasting your time. Good luck.
2007-01-28 18:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by IveBeenThere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a possibility that he may have a "thing" for you or not. Some guys are actually very shy and have a hard time approaching the opposite gender even to say hello! Be gentle with him and go up to him next time between classes or at the beginning of lunch break and talk to him! You may very well be surprised!!
2007-01-28 18:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be shy.....then again he may not even be interested. If he isnt, to hell with it sweetie!!! There will be way more guys fussing over you in the future.
But dont cancel him out just yet, be bold and step to him about it. He already heard you, so there's no surprise for him. That way you'll get it out of your system now if he isnt interested. I hope he is...Good Luck!
2007-01-28 18:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess Amore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key...A GUYS POINT OF VIEW......................dont give up your morals for any guy...but if you like this guy and it seems clear that you do , then , talk to him...if you want to tell him that you like him then tell him...but dont give in to him...when i guy thinks he has an upper hand he WILL take advantage of you...if he is too bashful to talk to you then you have to break the ice...then listen to the way he talks...tones...his speach...pay attention to his body language...if he wants to be the bad boy type...he really wants to impress his friends...not you...if he is shy...then he may need some coaxing...if you are uncomfortable talking to him in public...then do what a young lady done to me some 23 years ago...put your phone number in his hand and tell him to call you...this lady and i have been married now for 21 years...what if she were to shy to put her number in my hand that night.............good luck...be safe...and keep trying...he may come around...
2007-01-28 18:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi to the poor guy. He likes you you will know it. Maybe he's shy. Talk to him. Introduce yourself if he doesn't know who you are. Maybe he's just afraid to speak to you. What have you got to loose?
2007-01-28 18:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's not ready to be more than just friends....the only way to know is try pretending he does not exist and see if he comes running...
2007-01-28 18:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should start talking to him or tell him how u feel about him and maybe things will work out between u two
2007-01-28 18:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just be embarresed
2007-01-28 18:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how r we supose to know, ask him ask him say "....." well say something just ask him
2007-01-28 18:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋