If he is super curious about what I do and who I hang out with and refuses to leave me alone until I tell him about my new boyfriend.
2007-01-28 09:51:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is entirely up to you to decide. My personal experience is that any good friend is worth keeping around... but it is YOUR choice what you tell him and he needs to respect that. And if he gets jealous or annoying over you dating other people, well, would you take that from any other of your friends? If not, then don't take it from him because you don't have to. He needs to realize you are not his anymore and move on before a sucessful friendship can ensue. The only one of my ex's that I would even consider being friends with... is my friend. But it took a while to get there, at the beginning he would cry when we would meet up to hangout for dinner or coffee. Then he was asking too many questions and acting jealous and possessive anytime I mentioned dating someone new. Then he wouldn't let me talk about my date (which I expect to be able to talk about with my friends)... so I ditched him as a friend. 3 months later (6 months after we had broken up) he calls me up and we chit chat, and he got over the break up. And since then we've been able to have a friendship. Sometimes I still see a green eyed monster in him but that is the reality... you can't FORGET the past but you can try to put it behind you... so yes it is a friendship worth keeping IF it is a friendship at all... you have to look at his actions. If he's being an a**hole then I think its not worth it. If he's meant to be in your life, it'll happen at a later time when he's ready.
2007-01-28 10:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who broke up with who. If he broke up with you, he has no right to ask about what you do. If you broke up with him, he will be curious. In both ways, he still cares about you though. But from my past experiences, I dont like being around my exes, because there is always that awkwardness okf the feelings of wanting to kiss each other, and then you realize that you arent together no more and you make the attempt to not be around and in some cases it is worse than that. So I would say that being friends is really gonna be hard, but I would not recommend it.
2007-01-28 10:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 04:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they say it an be done, but if there are still feelings then NO it is impossible.
he does not have the right to ask you about your current boyfriend. you don't ask him about his dates ,do you?
I have found in my own experience, that friendships only work if the 'old feelings' are gone, and you want the other person to be happy, knowing that it might mean without you.
2007-01-28 09:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hardly ever do. Jealously is usually a huge obstacle. It is normal to wonder what each other is doing, but if either person is bugging the other for information it gets annoying and ruins the friendship.
2007-01-28 09:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Trixstix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depend on if your ex has move on and found someone else. You never know you and him might learn from each other as friend and things might spark back up with you and him.
2007-01-28 10:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by ***you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It sounds as if he wants to control you and doesn't want to hear about your new beau. If you are seriously uncomfortable around him because of his constant 20 q's then don't stay friends with him.
2007-01-28 09:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by KJ97Y100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him bout ur new bf then tell him 2 leave u alone if he doesn't just get ur girls on him
2007-01-28 10:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still want him back..yes..But if you dont want to...then tell him that friendship is the only thing you can offer.
2007-01-28 09:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a psycho, RUN!!!
2007-01-28 09:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by SphinxEyez999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋