Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

HI there im 23 years old and My parents have been having arguments for the past 3 months, my parents were always happy and toghether, they would go out dancing, to dinner etc.. they were the happiest couple, until my dad got a promotion at work and things started to change he started coming home very late, people have starting to rumor about him having another woman who is younger, so my mom has been looking for clues and she has found many things that are defenitely some awkward things that I agree with her. She is in a very bad depression and that makes me very sad, why do parents have to separate after so many years? why are men like this, how should i feel towards my dad? he told me that he is not cheating on her and I want to believe him but its so hard. I am very sad.

2007-01-27 01:42:13 · 5 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't get me wrong, my future mother in law is a sweet heart, but she is currently planning my Bridal Shower and she isn't allowing anyone (my mother & bridesmaids) get involved. My mother, her, and his sister are all helping pay but she is being stubborn and wants everything to go the way she wants it to no matter what I (the bride) or my mom is suggesting. My groom, naturally, is taking his mother's side on this....what can I do to help my stress and nicely find a way to tell her that everyone needs to be involved and she needs to stop being so controling? Helpful answers need only apply. Thank you!

2007-01-27 01:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany 4 in Weddings

Should i tell the police that it was my fault not my dads???

My dad said to keep quiet but i don't want him going to jail.

2007-01-27 01:41:31 · 18 answers · asked by andie f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

yes can someone help me with a poem one of my friends died and i was asked to write something in the obituary can someone please help me n.b this was a real close friend

2007-01-27 01:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-27 01:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend now pays football one night a week he is on about starting to have a snooker night with the lads and he will prob go out one night over the weekend. Do you think this is the norm where both 26 just thought we where heading in the direction of starting a family not acting like like where 18 again

2007-01-27 01:39:53 · 23 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

Both of have been married before and agree that that piece of paper meaning the marriage certificate causes problems. We are scared of ruining our perfect relationship. Is there a alternative? We are so Happy together and want to spend the rest of our lives together but dont want the leagality of it! Husband and wife without the repercusions of the legal Marriage certificate.Is there a commitment ceremony we could check into? Someone please help....................................

2007-01-27 01:37:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to perform a play today and I am really nervous!!!!
God Bless and Be Safe :)

2007-01-27 01:37:23 · 8 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

What would happen then? what would your reaction be? would you still be mates with her or would u feel more conciouse of her looking at you and feel paranoid? would that affect your freindship or wouldd you tell her straight off you are straight and thats that. or would it stop you even being freinds with her?

2007-01-27 01:35:39 · 24 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Friends

2007-01-27 01:35:38 · 16 answers · asked by gav 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, me and my girl of 9 years are "taking a break" Basically we got into some arguments and she thought maybe we needed time to ourselves, but never over 9 years has she ever done this. I told her that I didn't want to break up and I was happy in the relationship and she would say, "are you really? I only wanted to take a break because you did" type of thing. But then a few hours later she said "something" was bothering her, and that she'd always love me and be there for me but she needed some time for me to work out my issues and hers.

I asked her, "Are we together?" and she said, "I don't know".. that is what hurt the most. I told her how long would it take to clear her head and she said, "a few days" but I don't know what to think. I'm hurting from this and wish she'd just decide what she wants to do.

Anyway, what do you think will happen?

2007-01-27 01:34:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or there was no way you could have the 1st or not a chance because you just couldnt be together for some reason what so ever. I'd personally opt to have 1st best for my love life but i wouldnt be happy with 2nd best tho although you could say its close. What would you do if you couldnt have some1 u loved more than the other? Have you ever been in situations like this that made you HAVE to choose your 2nd best guy/girl and married them later on? do you still have thoughts on if you would be happier if you had gone for 1st best but tehre was something stopping u at the time and you couldnt? Pls plm pls tell me your experiences. thanks.

2007-01-27 01:33:19 · 9 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

i seem to be always pressured into having sex with the women i date, i tell them that im not that kind of guy ,but it doesnt do any good. What can i do?

2007-01-27 01:32:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my girl friend,exxxtrrrrrrrrrrrrremly gorgeous had an infatuation to me.but i dint realize at that time,later on when i fell in love,hell like love,with her, she had got another boyfriend.later on i too got a loving girl.
but the problem is after one year of no contact with that ex friend am unable to get her out of my thoughts.i cant keep in touch with her cuz i love my current girl sincerely,though my ex is really a temtation..but sometimes she calls me on phone and am tempted to flirt with her.so i start calling and messaging her,but she wont respond,she will talk to me now and thenm when she calls me.
the thing is i cant ask her to stop calling as she is coming like a madf dream in my thoughts everyday,but if she calls me once in every month i cant control but stroke for her.but i have to be sincere with my current girl.what shall i do?

2007-01-27 01:31:53 · 2 answers · asked by elina rosedom 1 in Singles & Dating

Mood lighting, sounds/music, or aromas?

2007-01-27 01:31:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I sure hope it was not Oops!

2007-01-27 01:28:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK Theres this girl, right. Well it's between me and this other guy. Well she really likes me, she just doesnt wanna break the toher guys heart. Well we were talkin about it, and we came to the conclusion that, if he really liked her, he wouldnt try to own her. ( He hates it when she talks to me, he's threatend to try to beat the hell out me, like 6 times) Well they were mad at each other yesterday. Well, then a strange thing happend, at the basketball game, all of a sudden things were better, and the were all over each other..( not makin out, just leain on each other and stuff like that,) well then after the game, they all went to a party. Sunday me and her are supposed to hang out. It's just really confusing signals....everyonse telling me " dont mess with his girl"...everyones been talkin shi t....and rumors that arent true have been started, i"m just in a stick, confusing, situation, and need some advice on what to do..

2007-01-27 01:28:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All my feelings are muted somehow.

2007-01-27 01:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by upirblood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I tell her all the time that I'm just not comfortable with her going to the club. I also don't too much like the fact that she has a small entourage of "big brothers" or a bunch of guys that do on occasion hit on her and look out for her when it suits them.

2007-01-27 01:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by stupidfresh08 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a full-time student and I am the main breadwinner right now. I like to enjoy treats and nights out once in awhile, however I feel like he is out of control and it makes me resentful. I handle all of the finances and bill paying because I actually enjoy it, and he gets frustrated with numbers. He will often spend over $500 a month on extras, CDs, DVDs, Lunches out. I buy things occasionally, but I pack a lunch and limit myself to $50 a month for something extra for me. I have tried asking him to set a limit but he thinks I am trying to be controling and says he hates that he has to ask for money. I would not mind if he bought a DVD here and there or even went out to lunch once a week, but his spending habits are killing us!! I have been postponing a vacation because we can't save enough. I feel a little cheated, I work very hard and work like to enjoy things more too, when I tell him this he says i need to loosen up and just enjoy, spend whatever, but I just don't feel

2007-01-27 01:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by rd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 01:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by beer buddy 1 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE ASKED THIS BEFORE BUT I STILL NEED AN ANSWER
There is a guy i like but i duno if he likes me.I'm not popular and not so beautifull either(judge for yourself on my profile).There is a popular girl who likes him and she is pretty.He is my best friends cuzen. I told her and she started laughing.He is now one of my brothers friends which makes it worse cuz ill see him regularly and my brother is rude to me infront of his friends. What do i do?Plz help

2007-01-27 01:25:30 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this boy in m y school, his name is sean me, my bff, him and his 2 bff play b-ball @ PE every school day, and I don't know if he likes me back. My friends tell me to make a move but I am too shy and I dont want to embarrass myself. We don't talk that much but I am nervous because @ the end of the year we are going to different schools. What should I do?

-Mel

2007-01-27 01:24:14 · 8 answers · asked by if only he knew 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy kissed a gal...and the gal wanted to make sure he liked her...so she asks if he likes her...and he says apparently...wat does that mean?
is the guy interested in her? or he's just sayin it coz he doesn't kno the answer yet?

2007-01-27 01:22:57 · 14 answers · asked by Forever happy 3 in Singles & Dating

For example: we sold our computer (for financial reasons) and he was going to build a computer for us. He told me it would be comparable to the one we had. Last weekend and the weekend before he said he would have everything loaded on it, but he doesn't do it. I am disappointed and frustrated since I rely heavily on the computer. He has no explanation as to why he doesn't do it.

2007-01-27 01:21:55 · 14 answers · asked by Nicole 4 in Family

Into a relationship with no hanky panky.

2007-01-27 01:21:09 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

We are going the islands and he has offered to pay for everything. Not a dime from me if he can select and buy all of my clothes for me. What do you think? I like to be sexy and this could be fun but the deal would be no input from me.

2007-01-27 01:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by camorningsurfer 4 in Singles & Dating

So theres this kid, hes in both my eigth period classes (I switch from chinese and chorus every day) Hes like really popular (im SORTA, allthough ur gonna say that doesnt matter, it does in my school) HE always smiles at me in chrous and is always looking at me, and in chinese he ALWAYS sits next to me and talks to me. Hes pretty dumb though.... anbd he gets into fites all the time and gets in trouble in school and gets yelled at by teachers and he sometimes makes fun of me but not alot, but ussually hes really sweet. Does he like me????

2007-01-27 01:20:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello
yday asked we asked one question but still not getting proper answer
we are webdesign firm maknig unique website for lovers where they can gift a website to their loved ones as valentines day gift

pls tell us which one is better out of these

www.madeforeachothers.com
www.website4gift.com
dedicateasite.com
loveyourlove.com

thx in advance

2007-01-27 01:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by cuttienayan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-27 01:20:28 · 16 answers · asked by quiksilver23 3 in Friends