Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

2007-01-27 02:02:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok here goes!! My boyfriend is a very loving person he treats me very well but on the flip side he isn't very intelligent! i mean he has common sense but not too much book sense! Is that typical of men? Sometimes i feel like i'm talking to a child and it frustrates me don't get me wrong i love him b/c he treats me well but sometimes i want to have an intellectual conversation but he can't keep up! So i keep certain conversation to a minimum then when i don't talk he asks me whats wrong but i don't know how to tell him how i really feel. Besides i think that would hurt his ego. I am so confused? what should i do people?

2007-01-27 02:01:55 · 3 answers · asked by T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

theirs some issues since we met each other. he thinks im hot i think hes hot but their something that doesnt let us go out. since its wrong to go out he told me from the beggining nothing was gonna happpen. he was going to flirt but thats it. that was about 7 months ago, he calls me occasionally and we hanges out like 4-5 time in those 7 months. last time we hanged out something finally happend. its been a month and i finally heard from him. he wants to hang out again, but we both know what would happen.

What made him change his mind? am i a bootycall?
plus even though he hasnt told me i know he is dating other girls :/

2007-01-27 02:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Singles & Dating

So I met him 4 years ago and I was on a higher college course than him (for those who don’t know that’s the years between high school and university, usually 16-18years old) and I had better GCSES (grades) then him.
He’s not got his family around and has had to support himself from16yearsold and was doing his GCSES and a lower course then me.
Any way, judgmental cow I am I thought I was better than him because at the time I didn’t think he had much prospects in life other than working in asda (Wal-Mart) and I was young I thought with my bright future he would be a burden, so we were just friends, and we lost contact.
But I saw him recently and now I am on a course lower than before because I didn’t want the stress and he’s finishing his second higher one and, wait for it------------ going of to university! Which I don’t think id be smart enough for so its completely different now, totally reversed, he’s is going places and I’m the one heading for asda (walmart).

2007-01-27 02:00:43 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I kind of given up on love and wanting to be in reltionship but the problem is that I am in a relationship. I knwo it may sound weird but its true. In fact i feel well I know the only reason I am with him is because the sex is great. I mean he do not treat me right. I want me to do alot of things for him and get upset if I dont do it. He always wnat it his way or no way. I know I shouldn't be with him but every now and then you will need that time and thats what he is good for. I have fun with him but he is to controlling and uptight for me to be with as far as married.

2007-01-27 01:59:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now and we both seem to say that we love each other loads through out every day, im starting to think that i just say it now because i know its what he wants to hear.

Can you say it too much? I do love him with all my heart, but does he need to hear it more than 20 times a day???

What do you think?

2007-01-27 01:57:53 · 21 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-27 01:57:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 01:57:26 · 20 answers · asked by vinu 1 in Family

2007-01-27 01:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is the ettiquite for a date?
what about the first date?
i need to know everthing
from the most general to the tiniest tidbit of ettiquite

2007-01-27 01:55:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll ivite her to have a talk at 4o'clock and tell her that I face a proplem and I have 2 choises . the first is to leave it without solving,but lots of things will be damaged later .the second is to solve it .that time every thing will either goes as I wanna or everything will be damaged at once.


If she smiled and told me to solve it so she loves me and if she asked me about it I'll tell her "it's you ". and continue in another day telling her about my feelings .

2007-01-27 01:55:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THE REASON WE BROKE UP WAS BECAUSE I SUSPECTED HIM CHEATIN ON ME AND LITTLE THINGS JUST DIDNT ADD UP BUT HE SWORE THAT SUMTHIN WASNT GOIN ON BUT HE DID THAT BEFORE AND ENDED UP TELLIN ME THE TRUTH...SO I SAID HE CUD HAVE DID IT AGAIN...I JUST RECENTLY STARTED DATING SOMEONE ELSE..( I HAD TO GET OUTTA THAT RELATIONSHIP)....WE GET ALONG GREAT!! THE ONLY PROBLEM I THINK IS THAT IM 19 HE'S 27..AND HE HAS 4 KIDS.....SHUD I NOT BE GETTIN INVOLVED OR JUST LET IT PLAY OUT?!??!?!

2007-01-27 01:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by beauty iz me 1 in Singles & Dating

sex?affection?sense of belonginess?manhood?sense of being loved?companionship?to have a family?

2007-01-27 01:54:52 · 5 answers · asked by Casper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Now I've asked a question or two on here that was asked in fun but this is a serious ? Because of past relationships I find I have a hard time trusting women, now that's not saying that I am an *** about it I try to be trusting I just find myself questioning what's being said. Is this wrong? Will this change? I am sure that some will say yes it will but I am not sure. And I don't want to mess up possible relationships. There it is what do you think?

2007-01-27 01:54:32 · 3 answers · asked by ogrething2001 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf of a year broke up two days ago, and I can't get over him. We've spoken a little since then, but I have been doing most of the talking. I'm trying to get him to come over and talk to me and try to work things out. Some of my friends say give him time and space others say that I need to get it done with before it's too late.

Yesterday I asked him a question via text message: What do I need to do to get you back?

He responded: Can't answer that right now

And also, out of the blue he texted me: No matter what I do, I'll still love you. Then called, but I kind of blew him off out of anger for the break-up and he got mad.

Does any of this mean anything to you? Because I'm being positive thinking that we might be able to work things out. And how do I get him to meet up with him?

2007-01-27 01:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by SEXY LOVE 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is my situation.....I have this "friend" who I have known since high school. In the early stages of our so called friendship everything appeared "cool" and we would hang out almost on a daily basis but I always had the idea in my head that things were too good to be true. Over time though I started to convince myself that maybe she might be a legit friend. Lately though it seems that the only time we hang is when she needs a favor or a ride somewhere. Im strongly starting to believe now that we are only friends because I have a car and money. Now I'm the type of person that if I feel that someone is being shady then I will call them out on it. The only problem that I have with the "being blunt" tactic is that if I'm wrong then it makes me look like an *** and I destroy a friendship. What is the best way to handle this situation?

2007-01-27 01:53:29 · 8 answers · asked by Cash_Money757 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is my situation.....I have this "friend" who I have known since high school. In the early stages of our so called friendship everything appeared "cool" and we would hang out almost on a daily basis but I always had the idea in my head that things were too good to be true. Over time though I started to convince myself that maybe she might be a legit friend. Lately though it seems that the only time we hang is when she needs a favor or a ride somewhere. Im strongly starting to believe now that we are only friends because I have a car and money. Now I'm the type of person that if I feel that someone is being shady then I will call them out on it. The only problem that I have with the "being blunt" tactic is that if I'm wrong then it makes me look like an *** and I destroy a friendship. What is the best way to handle this situation?

2007-01-27 01:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by Cash_Money757 1 in Friends

I've seen some questions on here about "does he want me for me or just for sex???"... Wouldn't it be better all round if guys just came upto you and told you EXACTLY what they wanted??? or would that ruin the pursuit???

And wouldn't it be better if you just told guys that you are only after sex or wanted a relationship or were DESPERATE for marriage???

2007-01-27 01:51:10 · 13 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been unhappily married for many years, and "should have" gotten a divorce 9-10 years ago. Now things are really complicated as I untangle myself from this mess.

Still, I have been imagining what it will feel like to get back out there again and meet smart, attractive guys -- it's been waaay too long since I've had anything going on ;) Then, I realized -- what if all these smart, attractive guys are already married or don't want a 40YO woman! !!??!! Panic attack!

Is it time for me to face some harsh realities or are there really some decent (and sexy :) guys still out there????

2007-01-27 01:50:33 · 20 answers · asked by Wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Third world women live in family under set rules.
first world women live life with freedom.
But in the end result matter? which part of world women r more satisfied with their life?
Think before ur answer.

2007-01-27 01:49:59 · 9 answers · asked by Wondrer 4 in Family

Sometimes I get into this erge where am in a sex fenzie. Am 26 my bf is 35 he works hard at work. I refuse to cheat on him but damn i dont want to kill him. Sometimes I crave sex to much its like a hunger. Even he is afraid if he cant please me I will find another man. This doesn't always happen but every so often. Is this normal?

2007-01-27 01:49:40 · 5 answers · asked by Kingteenunu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone within my work/social circle are either married or getting married. Even those who set me up on blind dates, I found them not really compatible ie. we can't carry out a decent conversation for a start or there is no chemistry to suggest that a 2nd date would be good. It is just strange as it appears that the increase in the demand for matchmaking/dating agencies is on the rise. Where have all the single guys gone to?

2007-01-27 01:48:47 · 8 answers · asked by littlepurplebugz 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl that me and my friend were friends with not anymore cuz she baskstabbed the both of us now she stoled my friend, olgas boyfriend she stoled my used to be crush and now olga like this guy really much and she stoled that too not only did this girl backstabb us but she started talking crap behind our backs she spread rumors about me shes a sophmore im a freshman she told olga that she was the freshmans dog and yesterday she texed olga out of olgas ex(the guy she really liked) cell phone and she kept talking **** i got mad and i screamed at her she told olga she was immature olga is not immature karla(the backstabber) is because she spread rumors saying that i wanted to marry my crush and i wanted to have his babies this has been going on for a year obviously she cant let go of stupid **** i want to end this now either we go heads or i need somehting IGNORING HER DOESNT WORK! weve tried that ok it doesnt work someone please help this ***** is pissing me off any advice ?

2007-01-27 01:47:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-27 01:46:27 · 28 answers · asked by beer buddy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have worked jobs that take me away from home, ie. offshore 28/14 schedules, and I have done this for 4 years now. She says it bothers her cause she has to be a 'single' parent, but when I am home that is all I do-'make up for her time that she cared for the kids. I am the bread winner making 60-70k or more a year compared to her 15-20k that has no benefits. The other day she gave me a deadline of one month to find a job in NC where the median income is like 20-27k and limited benefits. To give you another idea just daycare alone is like 9k with the possibility to come down to 7k when the youngest goes to pre-k school. Let me not mention the truck, house, or just maintenance payments. I think her plan is buy straight out a trailer and live there and work at Wally World for $8.oo an hour, as long as I am home with her and the kids. I have stated my dislike for NC and wish to move to another area, but she has family in NC and wants to build a clientele there. Am I in the wrong?

2007-01-27 01:45:28 · 23 answers · asked by hobbs1833 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 01:45:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it, that when a woman tells a man she wants sex with him, he'll do what ever she asks??? BUT when a man approaches a woman in the same straightforward way, she gets the hump and calls him names???

Instead of all the "games", wouldn't it be so much better if people could say what is on their mind???

2007-01-27 01:42:33 · 2 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

now its been about 5months that we never spoke. he contacted me, we went for dinner on thursday. he said that he wouldnt be here if he only wanted one thing...meaning that i said no at 1st.. should i believe him.

2007-01-27 01:42:33 · 6 answers · asked by jc 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 01:42:29 · 5 answers · asked by Wondrer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for two months and he says he wants to wait for a special moment to have sex. Can anyone tell me why a grown man wants to wait.? When we have done everything else but sex. Is he even interested in me?

2007-01-27 01:42:25 · 26 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Singles & Dating