I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now and we both seem to say that we love each other loads through out every day, im starting to think that i just say it now because i know its what he wants to hear.
Can you say it too much? I do love him with all my heart, but does he need to hear it more than 20 times a day???
What do you think?
2007-01-27 01:57:53 · 21 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
telling a person how much you love him, as long as it comes from the heart, is never too much. even if it takes every second of the day if you feel like telling him you love him, then go on! this is better than living your whole life without the person you love beside you.
2007-01-27 03:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for some people, depending on the relationship, that you can say it too much and if you do it ill start to lose meaning. You don't have to say it all the time just hug him or kiss him and do little things to show him that you love him.
To my other half, sometime during the day I send him text messages telling him that I love him, or you could leave notes in his car or in the pockets of his jeans, jacket etc all these little things are lovely and its just another way of showing him that you love him, rather than saying it all the time. (However I will admit that I still say it lots and lots to my other half just because its nice to say and the respond I get from him and seeing his smile just makes it all worth while)
2007-01-27 10:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it as much as u feel is necessary to do so. I tell my husband that I love him about 20 times a day too lol
But Ive always had a funny way of thinking - I always worry that if anything ever happened to either me or him, I would want 'I love u' to be the last words we had said.
Maybe a little morbid lol but it makes me happy :-)
2007-01-27 10:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very insecure,so beware he doesn't get too clingy. Tell him that any cheat can say the words but it is how you are long term which will prove whether it is love or not. Don't get into 'phoning and texting him over and over when you're not together as it can be a pain in the butt. if he feels good about himself he won't think it so extraordinary that someone loves him.
2007-01-27 11:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by k9mudlark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can be over used - it just becomes more of a habit and not as meaningful when used too many times. You do not always have to say it - you can also show someone that you love them (and I don't just mean in the bedroom) by doing things for them and showing affection
2007-01-27 10:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE YOU...there dead easy to say isnt it, but to actually love a person is far more than just saying it, if you said porride porridge porridge 20 times over..the word loses all meaning doesnt it, so why keep on repeating i love you all the time, if you save it for when you are actually thinking it, then it will have a deeper meaning and you and your partner will appreciate it all the more.
2007-01-27 10:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged years ago, we said it all the time. That ended, for detailed reasons.
Now I'm married, and we hardly ever say it. But we know it to be the case. It's a truth, like 'the sky is blue', or 'water's wet'. I guess we don't need to keep hearing it. We're both happy and close.
2007-01-27 10:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to say it say it you can never say it enough. If you don't want to say it than don't say it first and see how many times he says it in a day and just kiss him when he does or hug him or smile or say I love you back sometimes. Mix it up. You might miss it when it is gone though. If you know you love him say it. It's like sex sometimes its called love sometimes it's called F****** sometimes it's called sex etc. but it all means the same thing. And everytime you do it, it doesn't have to be this crazy passionate thing and sometimes it is. Same thing with saying the words I love you. It doesn't always have to be this crazy passionate thing.
2007-01-27 10:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Zepol Nives 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me & my fiance dont say it very much, just occasionally and at the end of a nice text every now and again. the point is that we know how each ther feels and r secure in our relationship so there's really no need 2 keep saying it. plus if u dont say it very often it makes the times u do extra special and more meaningful.
2007-01-27 11:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what, we as girls always want that security of knowing our guys love us.. and we will say it as much as humanly possible if needed, and our guys will say it back a few times. but honestly, i was the same at first, when you truely love some one, and they know how much you love them, then its really not even necessary to have to say it, not even 2 a day, to say the least.
in the beginning, i used to say it, about every five seconds... and he would eventually start getting annoyed, not because he didnt love m e back, but because he know i loved him and he loved me possibly more. basically what im trying to get at, is that your relationship should be so great and wonderful with one another, that just by looking in each others eyes, seeing the sparkle when yours connect with his, should say alot more than words.
true feeling and actions, speak louder than words.
plus, if he ever was to be concerned, he'd ask you...do u still love me, then, you can hug him tight, kiss his neck and gently say.. of course my love... i love you more than life it self...
remember, less is often better than too much...
2007-01-27 10:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by susan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋