theirs some issues since we met each other. he thinks im hot i think hes hot but their something that doesnt let us go out. since its wrong to go out he told me from the beggining nothing was gonna happpen. he was going to flirt but thats it. that was about 7 months ago, he calls me occasionally and we hanges out like 4-5 time in those 7 months. last time we hanged out something finally happend. its been a month and i finally heard from him. he wants to hang out again, but we both know what would happen.
What made him change his mind? am i a bootycall?
plus even though he hasnt told me i know he is dating other girls :/
2007-01-27 02:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is their anyway to change his mind? i know i sound pathetic but i really lik ehim alot.
2007-01-27 02:10:55 · update #1
lol no im not 12. i was born in december
2007-01-27 02:14:08 · update #2
what confuses me is, is that hes has 7 months to make his move. why wait till now?
2007-01-27 02:15:56 · update #3
I don't think he "changed his mind" his mind is still set on his first decision. I think something may have happened out of convenience for him. Why not? he thought. His "feelings" for you have not changed. But that doesn't mean your not "do-able" Men dont associate emotions with sex. Sex is just sex for them. And if you put out every time he calls then you will become nothing more than a booty-call.
Personally, unless I could keep my emotions out of it (which most girls cannot do) I would not put-out to him anymore. I would still talk to him and hang-out, unless he was constantly trying to push me into sex, but if you have fun with just seeing him for an occasional pleasure fest then go for it. It has been my experience when dealing with those guys who have several "booty-call" girls that in the end my emotions are hurt. Not that i love him or anything but it lowers my self-esteem. Like I'm not good enough to know but I'm good enough to be a donor container! Its all up to you, but like I said, he didn't change his mind, he still feels the same way about you as he did on day one. Now he can just release his poisons with you every now and then and when one of his preferred booty-calls is not available, you'll always be on that "want to get laid" list
2007-01-27 02:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jaded Shell of Being 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry hon, he sees you as a bootycall. He barely calls, and only does when he wants a little lovin (thats why he called again - he thinks he'll get some more). The thing that doesn't let you go out is him is his stable of other girls and lack of respect for women. If he was truly interested, he would call/hang out more regularly, not be dating others, ask you to be his gf, and besides, "somthing happened" and he didnt call for a month? Is that what you want from a man? because thats your future will be with him. Move on, you can do a lot better.
2007-01-27 02:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Learning Conformity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a booty call to me
2007-01-27 02:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when there is a massively age inappropriate "relationship" such as this, it is obvious that it is purely a sexual relationship. There is very little that an almost 40 year old man really wants to talk about with a 20 year old girl. Oh he may pretend to care about your music, but i doubt he really cares about Hannah Montana. He wants you for sex sweetheart. If he introduces you to his people, it`s because he`s bragging and showing off his new toy. Sorry
2016-05-24 05:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe him going out with other women is why he doesn't want to get serious. He probably isn't ready for a commitment to one woman but doesn't know how to tell you or maybe after you guys hung out he developed feelings and didn't know how to cope and he's calling now because he figured it out. I hate to say it but sex changes a friendship bad! While men know that sex is just sex, women tend to be more emotional about it, not all but most. Confusing sex for love which it isn't
2007-01-27 02:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer already, its been how long after?/ You know whats going to happen and yes its a booty call
2007-01-27 02:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you are a booty call. What's sadder is that from your story, you aren't even on top of the list.
2007-01-27 02:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by BartenderWJT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a booty call.
Try to have more respect for yourself, and don't let guys do that to you.
2007-01-27 02:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes for sure he is and like your name i hope u r not really 12
try not giving him any and just hanging out bet he doesn't call for a long while
2007-01-27 02:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you for sex. You deserve better than that. Don't let anyone use you like that. Tell him to get lost next time.
2007-01-27 02:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋