Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

Ok, my little 9 year old sister has a problem. She's really nice and doesn't give me any kind of hard time. She HAD 2 friends. They both turned on her. They started to make fun of her and hurt her. She told the teachers at her school and they didn't believe her. My mom has gone to the school 6 times and they didn't believe HER. PLEASE HELP?!?

2007-01-27 03:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by maybetodaythesunwillshine2 2 in Family

i was talking to my friend and she goes yeah um didnt you no your best friend throut we were flirting with her boyfriend i did NOT FLIRT with her boyfriend wat do i do her boyfriend agervat the liveing CRAP OUT OF ME! wat do i do

2007-01-27 03:11:17 · 7 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you enchance your boobs if you don't have much to work with? What bra types etc, how does one get the cleavage look?

2007-01-27 03:09:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

getting married at the end of this year.And im so happy for them, but Im alittle unhappy about their choices. You see i dont have any sisters,nor do i have any girl cousins. I always wanted my godmother who is young and hip to be my maid of honour. Im also one of those girls who wanted a princess wedding with a pink theme. Anyways make a long story short, my cousins gf who has 2 sisters and endless amounts of female friends and cousins asked my godmother to be her maid of honour, and her wedding theme is a pink and brown princess theme. I dont mean to be bothered by it, but I am, now I feel if i do what i always wanted to do i am copying her...am i right?what should I do?

2007-01-27 03:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by pink_starlet84 1 in Weddings

we have conversations like:
me: i have a question...
him:yea
me: you know what, nevermind
him: jsut ask
him: you already got this far
me: no nevermind
him: now i want to know
him: please tell me
me: no
him: wtf why not
me: it was a stupid question
him: i'm not gonna judge you
me: its not that...
him: just ask
him: are you finally asking me out?
him: is that it
me: ywa thats it hehe (no it wasnt that)
me: *yea
him: very nice
me: no how much?
him: for you, not only is it free, but i'd pay
me: haha
him: very nice
him: just because we say this to each other every day, watch us just end up going out one day
him: how hilariouslyawkward would that be
me: haha
(conversation ends there)

But it wasnt just that time, as he said we say stuff like that to eachother ALL the time
does this mean he likes me, or is he just playing around?

2007-01-27 03:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both of our mothers want us to have a traditional wedding so I want to do things to compromise that we are going away to get married.

I plan to take my mother with me to pick out my dress, and let her do some decorations for a very INFORMAL reception when we come back.

What can I do with my mother-in-law so that she will feel included?

2007-01-27 03:08:25 · 6 answers · asked by Advice Please 3 in Weddings

How did you feel after wards, did it work? would do it again?

2007-01-27 03:08:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this problem when i go to school or some where some people starring at me i dont like it what i will change myself please help

2007-01-27 03:06:58 · 11 answers · asked by lowell 2 in Friends

2007-01-27 03:06:14 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday at lunch I came in and put my binder down on the table. This guy asked who's binder it was because it was so cool. It had a guitar on it. I told him it was mine. Later during lunch me and my friends were talking about random talents. I said I could belly dance. As soon as I said that the guy's head turned really quick towards me. Then I showed them. After that the guy leaned across the table and told my sister's boyfriend that that was hot. After lunch the guy was talking to my sister's boyfriend and he said that my friend sitting across the table from him looked alright and that him and one of his friends are having a contest to see who that girl likes better. Does that mean that he likes that girl or is there still a chance he likes me?

2007-01-27 03:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is married and wants to leave him but now he is trying to make things work and she feels she needs to give him a chance, I have feelings too

2007-01-27 03:04:00 · 7 answers · asked by hurtinginBC 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf wants me to sleep over his house. I am 20 and my parents dont like me sleeping out, and when I tell my bf he tells me not to think about what they say. I want to sleep over but my parents hate it and to not hear there my mother's mouth i try to bot to do that. Everytime I tell him about how and what my parents say it amuses him. It got to the point that my mother dont hardly speak to me that much. At first It didn't bother me but now I feel like he doesn't respect how I feel when i say I dont want to sleep over. He says he want us to move in together and I feel that then we would be together without having to worry about me having to go back home on time or whatever. I want to move out but dont have the right money to do so. I live in ny were rent is very high and a minimum wage job just aint doing it. But now I dont know what to do.

2007-01-27 03:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think I want to have children. I'm not sure and I'm getting kind of old to be still wondering if I should or not. I am wondering if there is anyone out there like me. Are you married without children? Are you single without children and over 35?

2007-01-27 03:01:38 · 16 answers · asked by SelfGrill 3 in Family

HELP!!!!!

2007-01-27 03:00:58 · 13 answers · asked by x0shortie13x0 2 in Friends

2007-01-27 03:00:41 · 30 answers · asked by nick w 2 in Singles & Dating

Having been with my wife for almost a decade (but now divorced) I am back on the dating scene and I am a little out of practice. Basically my brother set me up with a girl from his work who I knew vaguely and we had a date, at the end of the date I didn't kiss her-should I have done so? I do like her and she seems to like me (she texted me shortly afterwards saying she wanted to see me again) but now I feel like I may have given the wrong impression by not at least kissing her goodnight.

2007-01-27 03:00:09 · 30 answers · asked by Very happily married. 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 03:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by guerop3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 02:58:49 · 20 answers · asked by stephaniebm01 2 in Weddings

My husbands ex-wife is under the impression(from where I have no clue) that I'm 6 yrs older than her! She's turning 34 in a few weeks and I turned 37 a few weeks ago so where does the 6 yrs come from??? I don't know why but this bugs me. 3 yrs, not 6!!! Should I tell her she's mistaken? The whole thing is, my husband is younger than me by a yr and a half and she has always called me a cradle robber, a desperate woman trying to hold onto my youth, etc. I'm not old for crying out loud, I'm 37 =) And since she's 120+ lbs overweight, has mental problems and takes medications, and has had 4 kids, her actual "real age" is probably much higher than mine as I am fit and keep my weight in check plus haven't had 4 kids nor do I have mental disorders. I really don't understand why this bothers me so much but it must be resolved!! lol

Thanks for not being mean when commenting(hint, hint ;)

2007-01-27 02:58:17 · 13 answers · asked by Incognito 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 17, will be 18 in june.


I met a guy over the summer, who was a family friend. He is 24 and i have had a crush on him the first day i met him. I recently found out he has had feeling for me to. We hung out behind my moms back and have kissed. My mom found out about the hanging out part.


and now I can never see him again. I like him so much and i know he feels the same about me.

i don't know what to do. i'm goin crazy without him.

2007-01-27 02:57:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If they are so dead certain they don'twant kids can they change their minds?
Why do they do this?
If the woman in the relationship doesn't want kids and the guy changes his mind what are the chances of the relationship working out?

2007-01-27 02:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by Ciderlolly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm only 15, And I'm not allowed to kiss a boy till 20. How do I tell Him I like him?

2007-01-27 02:53:24 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been a while now, since the one I loved just suddenly decided to end it. But why is it my heart won't let go? We were best friends (she said that, I felt it) and we were in love. We had a life ahead of us, and for it to just hit an abrupt end, I feel cheated in that a life has been taken from me.

What's also hard, is seeing her carrying on as if nothing happened, and everything is ok, not really realising I'm hurting inside and it showing on the outside. I'm so hollow and lost. Nothing rhymes at the best of times, but I find myself soldiering on. In fairness, it's not like her to show her emotions, when it comes to the poignant side of things, only for her to carry on with her happy go-lucky-ways. It is to this end, I still don't know what it is she feels or thinks.

I wish the pain would go away, only it doesn't. Strange isn't it? Well, enjoy your weekends everyone - I do apologise for lowering the tone, but I'm still a little lost. Take care though, God bless.

2007-01-27 02:52:15 · 22 answers · asked by Yinhung 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents have always liked my sister much more than me. During all my childhood and teen years I felt like trash to them. Now I'm 25, I'm an engineer and hardly talk to them. I like my sister, she's 23 now, and we've alwys got along, though my parents didn't like me. Even in my teen years I didn't get in any serious trouble and was a very good student, but anyway I felt like trash. I think it's because I'm a male. I got extremel resentful and will never ge over this.
Now my parents had a problem and asked for my help. My sister can't help them. So, now they want my help despite everything. I haven't decided yet, but I think I won't help them, I'm not stupid. They simply don't deserve my help. It's kinda easy to say, "Oh, but they are your parents, after all they took care of you, yu only have 1 set of parents, etc", bu so what? I have my feelings and they were kinda aunfair to me, there's no such thing of uncondional love

2007-01-27 02:49:59 · 19 answers · asked by Gil 1 in Friends

2007-01-27 02:49:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having lot of arguments and ego clashes with my girl of late. We joined a software company some 4 months back and its since then that we are together. The latest argument being something like this : It so happened that some guys in my branch were planning an outing since a month and she was an active participant in that. She dint ask me even once wether I want to join and took me for granted. Finally other people in the organizing commity asked me and I refused since I was expecting a discussion with her on this. Till the last day she dint ask me and despite knowing that I was not coming, she decided to carry on. I was pretty hurt coz of this "negligence" on her part . This led to an argument and she walked out of the trip on the last day. Her stance on this issue was that Since I said no to others, I made myself pretty clear that I was not intrested to come and no amount of persuasion from her part cud have helped. What went wrong ? How cud such situations be avoided ?

2007-01-27 02:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by aries_18_mum 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, i have an appt, in a couple hours but i dont know what to do. i was planning to get blue or pink highlights in my hair [[i'm seen]] just a couple highlights. not my whole head. but now a boy doesn't want me to get it too loud, [[which its only a couple highlights so thats not real loud]] but my boyfriend thinks it would be kewl. or i could get my hair lighter blonde with a dark brown underneath....... i don't know what to do!!!! i want a style that both the boy and boyfriend will like, and something that matches my seen style. {{ seen is like emo for people who don't know}} thanks for the help!

2007-01-27 02:46:00 · 9 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Singles & Dating

I mean I'm a really shy person and I know as a fact he likes me. He is soo cute though, he makes me nervous!

2007-01-27 02:45:48 · 11 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

well i really like someone in my year she's really cute polite she doesnt know i like her. However i know she likes someone else i was thinking about totally giving up for the best, but its the 7th person ive ever really liked and all cases have ended up with either them dating someone already or them liking someone else. I initially thought she liked me just by the way she seemed really interested in me, but im obviously wrong. It was after she asked have i got a valetines (im not really the kinda person whos into those days :P) but i answered honestly with no, i asked the same back she just said most likely coz she kinda likes this guy from out side of school. Please advise :(

2007-01-27 02:45:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K, so i'm just getting back in the dating game. met a girl that i like and we had our first date last night and i think that it went pretty good. when should i call her again to ask her out for a second date?

2007-01-27 02:45:32 · 17 answers · asked by ssg_harris 2 in Singles & Dating