My bf wants me to sleep over his house. I am 20 and my parents dont like me sleeping out, and when I tell my bf he tells me not to think about what they say. I want to sleep over but my parents hate it and to not hear there my mother's mouth i try to bot to do that. Everytime I tell him about how and what my parents say it amuses him. It got to the point that my mother dont hardly speak to me that much. At first It didn't bother me but now I feel like he doesn't respect how I feel when i say I dont want to sleep over. He says he want us to move in together and I feel that then we would be together without having to worry about me having to go back home on time or whatever. I want to move out but dont have the right money to do so. I live in ny were rent is very high and a minimum wage job just aint doing it. But now I dont know what to do.
2007-01-27 03:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your parents will always be your parents...and what they think about you should be important. Your boyfriend may only be temporary, especially if he is pressuring you to ignore your parents feelings and your apparent reluctance just to satisfy his urges.
2007-01-27 03:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off u should move out get a job or something 20 is enough to live with ur parents u should of moved out at 18 they can't tell u to do anything...
and ur boyfriend isnt not respecting u when u say u dont want to sleep over at his house he's just agitated that u still listen to ur parents and that u shouldnt care its normal if i was in his place i would do the same...i know u dont want ur mom to be mad at u but its ur life shell get over it she cant be mad at u for life
u only live once u know enjoy it
if u really like this guy u should be with him b4 he runs off ok?
2007-01-27 03:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect your parents wishes. You are living in there house, and should listen to what they say. As for the boyfriend deal, he needs to get off your back. Tell him that you love him, but he needs to start respecting your feelings. He needs to be patent, and when you say no, you mean NO!! If he doesn't respect that, then it's time to dump him. It would be his loss.
2007-01-27 03:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by .:Feliciano:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your contemporary bf to recover from himself and ask him if he has any admire for the lifeless. you have lost a particular pal and its ok to be mourning or questioning approximately that individual lots. do no longer sense in charge.
2016-11-01 10:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do YOU want. Decide what based on what you want and feels right to you.
2007-01-27 03:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋