Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

I WAS MARRIED TO A WONDERFUL MAN FOR 31 YRS. AND HE PASSED AWAY A YEAR AGO. I'M NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP BUT AM TRYING TO MEET SOMEONE ON LINE THROUGH A SITE TO MATCH UP A LOVE CONNECTION.MOST MEN I HAVE CHAT WITH ARE WANTING A RELATIOSHIP RIGHT AWAY OR SOMETHING ELSE RIGHT AWAY. I'M NOT SURE IF I SHOULD TAKE MY PROFILE OFF THIS SITE OR STAY AND KEEP TRYING TO FIND A FRIEND FIRST AND THEN SEE WHERE IT MIGHT GO.I'M USUALLY UP FRONT AFTER A COUPLE OF CHATS ABOUT NOT BEING READY FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP YET BUT BELIEVE YOU HAVE TO HAVE SOME CHEMISTRY AND FRIENDSHIP AND KNOWLEDGE ABOUT EACH OTHER BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE CAN HAPPEN. IS IT TOO SOON OR SHOULD I STICK TO WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR OR JUST REMOVE MYSELF FROM THE SITE AND CONTINUE TO BE LONELY. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVISE.

2007-01-27 02:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by connie0709@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

My gulfriend visit me 1 day 2geda wit her friend, suddenly she told me they want me both. bt d problem was i never experinced anything like that b4. Guyz how does it feelz & gulz do u feel d same way if it was only u & him?

2007-01-27 02:41:39 · 2 answers · asked by handsome 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 02:40:14 · 2 answers · asked by Eli 1 in Family

To get rid of this habit .
To make him a perfect father and husband

2007-01-27 02:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by rahman 1 in Family

ok im getting an alsome hairstyle and right now my hair is completly damaged. When i go back 2 school with my incredable hairstyle will more ppl talk 2 me? because a lot of ppl wont even talk 2 me right now.

2007-01-27 02:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-27 02:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf wants me to sleep over his house. I am 20 and my parents dont like me sleeping out, and when I tell my bf he tells me not to think about what they say. Everytime I tell him about how and what my parents say it amuses him. It got to the point that my mother dont hardly speak to me that much. At first It didn't bother me but now I feel like he doesn't respect how I feel when i say I dont want to sleep over. He says he want us to move in together and I feel that then we would be together without having to worry about me having to go back home on time or whatever. But now I dont know what to do.

2007-01-27 02:38:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday at school my friend was talking to this chick before class so.. i went to see her and she didn't say hi to me so... i just sit down listing what they are saying then she got me in the comversation
is my friend shy to say hi to me or dose she feeling for me ??? bc when my bud came to see us she said hi to him

1 more thing she act weird lately around me

p.s she has a bf

2007-01-27 02:37:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a califronian honey and i have the hottest bboyfriend around. I really want to tell him I want to have sex with him and that he is THE ONE but I don't know how. I mean, we make out and it doesn't mater where we do make out (in restraunts, in town, etc.) but I don't think he is getting the hint that I want to have sex REALLY BAD. How do I tell him and what do I do?

2007-01-27 02:36:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so they say im cute and that i have baby cheeks i have chubby cheeks and i still have kind of like a girlie body im 14 freshman in highschool and im short why do they say that even girls i dont want to be cute i want to be awsome!!!!!!!!!!!! also today im gna go out with some friends new friends so what do i do they are all sophmores so how do i do what do i not act like to make them think im immature cuz im not

2007-01-27 02:35:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago. We live about 4.5 hours apart. We hit it off really well and had an amazing connection and flirted and joked around and everything and she even commented about it being awesome/me being awesome. We talked via e-mail/IM for a few days and then she called me and we talked for 5 hours and everyday up until Tuesday for a while. Didn't hear anything from her again until Thursday when she e-mailed to cancel our plans to meet this weekend saying she was nervous about it and wanted to wait. Now she won't talk to me at all, phone or anything. I haven't called since Thursday night and am planning to give her at least a week to decide what she wants to do. Is she blowing me off? Should I move on? She seemed really excited about meeting and now this, it doesn't make any sense. I'm 24 and she is 23 btw.

2007-01-27 02:32:38 · 17 answers · asked by edgeblade69 2 in Singles & Dating

Can having an affair, ending it and feeling guilty make you realize just what you have at home and how much you DO love your spouse?

2007-01-27 02:31:27 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 02:28:51 · 8 answers · asked by Flawlessx3 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm at the end of my marriage. My wife and I have been together for about 19 years(married 14). She's 11 years younger then me. I freely admit I was attracted to her for her beauty and sexuality. She was 22 and I was 33 when we met. Over time she's failed to mature. She's more selfish and has only held a job on and off when she wanted something. She's sill a hot looking woman but her sexuality has decreased significantly while mine has, if anything, increased (no, she's not cheating). We now have a lot of problems when it comes to finances and sex. Yes, it was probably my fault. My questions:
1) When we finally split she'll basically be helpless. Should I feel quilty (as I do)?
2) At 52 do I have a chance to find a mature, sexy woman who can
be compatable with me?

2007-01-27 02:27:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have been going out on and off for 7 and a half years, and I'm only 20 years old. We have broken up and gotten back together over 10 times and most of the time it was me. Now i'm feeling the same urge to break up again. I just feel like I should be meeting new people and testing the water a bit. Is it possible I should stay with my girl forever? Everytime we break up I want her back but when we are together after about 3 months I get the itch again. I am so confused. I know I love her but do I love her enough to marry her and spend my life with her? Or am I just really indecisive? Am I just afraid to be alone? PLEASE HELP!!

2007-01-27 02:27:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can still see his name on my list has he deleted me yet?

2007-01-27 02:27:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 02:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf of a year broke up with me two days ago (says he's tired of us arguing about the same things over and over again), but I can't get over him. We've spoken a little since then, but I have been doing most of the talking. I'm trying to get him to come over and talk to me and try to work things out. Some of my friends say give him time and space others say that I need to get it done with before it's too late.

Yesterday I asked him a question via text message: What do I need to do to get you back?

He responded: Can't answer that right now

And also, out of the blue he texted me: No matter what I do, I'll still love you. Then called, but I kind of blew him off out of anger for the break-up and he got mad.

Does any of this mean anything to you? Because I'm being positive thinking that we might be able to work things out. And how do I get him to meet up with him?

2007-01-27 02:26:19 · 16 answers · asked by SEXY LOVE 1 in Singles & Dating

say your on a romantic date with a girl you like
u start kissing and stuff..

what would you want her to do after that?
and how..

thanks x

2007-01-27 02:25:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 02:25:10 · 18 answers · asked by stlbluzfan69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I get the whole bad boy thing, i'm like that myself and it has worked for me.

But i mean cmon. Is it just that I'm in a strange part of town? Im constantly seeing girls with shorter guys than they are! Im short, 5"10, but at least im taller than most girls.

And theyr always going for ugly types, drug addicts, skinny, etc.. I mean god! I sometimes feel like i have to dress shitty and pretend to be a loser just to get any attraction.

What happened to natural selection n ****? Like girls going for tougher, stronger men who can take care of them??

2007-01-27 02:24:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In spite of years of efforts, talking, therapy, begging, visits to the doctor for hormone level checks, and all the attention she could hope for, my wife only will give up sex for me, at best, 3 times a month. I am made to feel like she is doing me some huge favor and I am unreasonable in asking for anything more than her telling me to "hurry up" and "don't waste time trying to make me come".

We used to be a 10 times a week and orgasms-a-plenty couple. She isn't cheating on me. I have checked up very thoroughly on her.

We find ourselves at this point: she has pretty much lost all interest in sex and has no interest in trying to bring it back. She also finds it offensive if I get off on internet porn or even "take care of myself" in the shower. She will try and catch me in the act and yell at me.

I love her in every other way. Our kids are 14&15. I don't want to leave her but my choices are: cheat, divorce, or be miserable forever.
Which one??? She says I just need to "deal"

2007-01-27 02:24:16 · 5 answers · asked by SuperDude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Woudl you support me if I say that I am going to wait for this girl who previously rejected me? It is just that i love her as much as or even more than I love myself.. Please do understand my reason and not criticising me as a stalker or any weirdo.. I have never felt such feelings before; someone more than just physical attraction..

Would you support me if I say that in a few years' time, I will continue to develop myself and become someone and by that time I will ask her out again? I am 14. In the meantime, I would be a good friend and be there for her?

WIll you support me?

2007-01-27 02:23:18 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my best friend hook up and it has always been just best friends with benefit type thing and he always tells me just so I know. well he came over the other night. he told me he liked me more than a friend and we'd be good together and yada yada and when we get older he's going to take care of me and we held hands and we hooked up while we were sober (which has never happened). then i get a call last night saying he doesnt kno wat to do hes at some girls house with a friend and hes gonna hook up with this girl but he cant remember here name and asked me for my advice. LIKE WTF! y would he say that after everything? does he like me or not? please someone tell me!

2007-01-27 02:23:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 02:22:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

most of the wise people are pretty and most of the pretty faces are dangerous.
most wise people are cunning and pretty and foolish.

2007-01-27 02:21:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is dating this girl and she has a sister my age that I'm freinds with anyway. I don't want to start asking anyone anything about it untill i can find out if she like me too. How do I get her to like me and how do I know if she does?

2007-01-27 02:20:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf has a son and his ex has full custody and is a real control freak! Last time she found out he was seeing someone she kept his son away from him for months. Now he has been trying to get shared custody and has done everything in his power to do so. He does not allow her in his business and he dosn't share with her that he is with me. But I feel he hides me away. He has explained to me that if she found out we where together he wouldn't be able to see his son till after a long custody battle! I know this is true cause I know how evil his ex is! In the past I havn't been the best gf and have strayed more then a few times. He always forgives me but I keep letting him down! But also I am sick of being hidden from his ex! he said after the custody battle it wouldn't be a problem to tell her. I know he is frustrated as well that he has to keep me a secret and frustrated that I bother him about it everyday! What should I do so he sees things my way! And does what I want?

2007-01-27 02:20:30 · 8 answers · asked by Krista H 1 in Singles & Dating

instead most guys come to me for advice.....and treat me like one of their guy friends.but i do love to socialise with people.and this is me : www.myspace.com/athirah401
.i'm the one on the right.or maybe it's because i'm unattractive?....

2007-01-27 02:20:19 · 10 answers · asked by nur a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 02:19:20 · 37 answers · asked by jac6jam 1 in Marriage & Divorce