To get rid of this habit .
To make him a perfect father and husband
2007-01-27 02:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by rahman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry friend, men with such a behaviour don´t change... you should be honest with your father and explain him, what you feel. But, after all it´s your father, so try to have a good relationship with him - despite of all this.
Remember, he still can be a good father.
Take care of your mum and give her all the love and respect she deserves, but, unfortunately there isn´t more you could do...
2007-01-28 22:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can be sure of is not subject your children through same trauma but you can't change a man's nature. You can only hope to infuse some sense into him by having a sane and serious discussion over the issue over him and tell him how this hurts you and makes your mom miserable and even threaten to cut off all ties with him. That may or may not change him though and you must be ready to accept whatever happens. You can be independent and live separately from your father and disown him, to console your mom and support her through this emotional and family crisis.
2007-01-29 07:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry a change like that has to come from inside the person. If you try to correct him he will only resent you.
You can take a risk and tell him how much it hurts you to see his actions, but from there I would drop it. He is only going to get mad at you. Another ploy is to start acting like him and maybe when he sees how dumb it is he will cover his tracks a little.
The oddest part of this is that some how your mom is roped in to this. Usually when men change the relationship ends. The cheater could figure out that he never realy wanted the woman he is with or the woman could figure out that with our all the drama her man is now boaring. Some times it is just best to stay out of adults relationships. Usually the person that means well who gets in the middle usually is the one to get hurt in the end.
Your mom may say she wants it to end but if her actions show otherwise.
2007-01-27 11:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by DDLynn l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow the gandhian policy, u are not supposed to make your father a perfect father and husband. of what use is it to u ? and womenist is not a crime or an illegal activity. U are supposed to play the role of a perfect son. He has a right to chalk his course of life, without your interference, as long as he is legally ok.
2007-01-30 06:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could still be a good father and a good husband! Remember the Russian adage, "Perfect is the enemy of Good"!
2007-01-27 10:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that recent science has proven that men are not necessary to the existance of mankind. That women wil be able to reproduce and continue mankind withought them..that in a few short years, men will become extra bagage on this earth.Tell him that for this worthless extra baggage, it is wrong to abuse and take advantage of the superior sex..
2007-01-28 03:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by chickn noodle soup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about you mom first. Love her and take good care to keep her out of that trauma.
for you Dad. there's no cure for such a person. It's only life that can teach him a lesson. Be patient and have faith in god.
:-)
2007-01-28 11:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to change your father. The only thing you can do is learn from his mistakes and don't follow in his footsteps.
2007-01-31 00:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
took yor father to a psychiatrist.
2007-01-27 10:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE MATURE IN EARLY LIFE TRY IF HE CAN GUIDE THE FATHER.
2007-01-28 11:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋