who would actually be with a 30 year old mother of 4 and recently divorced?

Answer 1

some one that realie cares for her and them.

Answer 2

A very caring type of man. If she has qualities, like a good personality, fun to be with, interesting, good mother, a man may find that this is what he is looking for in a woman. My son is now engaged and will soon be marrying a woman who has 3 children. She is the most fantastic person and I have never seen my son soooooo happy. They make a great family and plan to add onto the family with another baby. But my son says even is for some reason they can't have one, he is happy with the children already there. So, see there are men who would want to actually be with a 30 year old woman who is a mother of 4.

Answer 3

A honest sincere man who would love the mother along
with her child, and would want to be with both of them
as maybe he had problems before in a relationship and
now is looking for someone that is more settled in in their
life. You have just a much chance as a single mom that
is younger as there are men that are looking for that
special person and since you have only 1 child you have
a better chance than if you had 3 or 4. So don't give
up hope, just make sure this time around that HE is for u.

Answer 4

Short of severe mental or physical abuse, why would a 30 year old mother of 4 be divorced in the first place? I honestly don't understand why people get married, have kids, AND THEN decide that they're no longer satisfied with who they married and had children with. Yet it's those SAME parents that will sit there and wonder why their daughters are having sex at age 14, why their sons are doing drugs at 15, and why they all have such disfunctional relationships! It all starts with Mommy wanting to know who would be willing to "be" with her despite her 4 kids now that she's newly divorced and fresh on the market! You make your kids sound like a liability, and you don't even realize it!!!!

Answer 5

Millions of men would want a Mother of four who has recently divorced. It shows you have strength, courage and patience. You just have to be patient and wait for the right man. Do not sit at home waiting for him to come knocking at your door. Do some fun things when you get the chance. I'm sure it's hard but you can do it.

People will only respect you as much as you respect yourself so keep your chin up! There is nothing wrong with you. you are still a beautiful person, you just have four little ones. It doesn't mean the man you meet has to raise them. I have a cousin that was in the same situation ans so was the man she met. They waited until the kids were out of the house but hey stayed together and got married when they could move in together.

Answer 6

Since I've been mentioned here (when women call for a nice guy), let me answer:

NO. Because I want my own children, not somebody else's.
NO. Because I want a wife with assets, not with liabilities.
NO. Because If I'd asked you out when you were young and child-free, you would have said no.
NO. Because if you divorced a guy, after 4 children and many years of marriage, you're the flaky type.
NO. Because my mission in life is not to clean other people's messes.
NO. Because after four children, her body is not attractive anymore.
NO. Because with all those single, young, pretty, child-free women out there, why would I want to spend my life and money in a single mom of four?

So think before you get a divorce. You may not be the queen bee anymore.

Answer 7

A RECENTLY divorced woman should be concentrating on herself and her children. As far as who would actually be with a 30 year old mother of 4 ... well, possibly a man who loved children and couldn't have any, or a man who liked the traits, characteristics, personality and so on of said mother and accepted/wanted/appreciated her four children as part of the "package."

Answer 8

someone you meet whom is actually into you for you and who is serious about you. Lots of men will look at you like hey she is an easy lay because you have the 4 kids. But if you meet someone that you think is really serious about you then be honest and tell them the truth and nothing but the truth. If they cant handle the fact that you have children then they aren't really interested in the real you to begin with. Good luck and don't give up you will find the right person in time

Answer 9

If my wife, God forbid, died. But, I am financial stable. This would allow me to not worry about the $'s that would be soaked up from such a union. I've raised my kids, well most of them. So I wouldn't be too concerned about that challenge, this would give me insight on dealing with others kids. Yeah, I think it would not be a negative idea. However, a 30 year old Mom has to be so much more mature, so much more interesting so much more beautiful than usual! I mean if she were to get on the dating scene again (oh the horror) she would be competing against much younger singles and young Moms. There would have to be more that she could bring to the table than just "I'm a Mom". Good Luck!

Answer 10

when your 30 with four kids and a nice guy comes around who shows interest in you and the kids. Even just after a divorce can be a good thing for a woman. This happened to me when I was a kid. It allowed my mother to be loved again and her confidence grew back.

Answer 11

There are more people in this world that are going through what you are than you can imagine, and some of them are men who are asking the same question.And there are men who would love to have children that can't so finding a woman that has them already is nice. Don't you worry, God has a special person for you when you least expect it.