when you find someone you love why can't you be with them?

Question

She is married and wants to leave him but now he is trying to make things work and she feels she needs to give him a chance, I have feelings too

Answer 1

if she wants to make things work then she obviously has feelings don't get too deeply involved where u mess someone else's relationship up. True love is letting go of someone you cant have. Its very painful i know when someone doesn't like you back but you can be there for her if the relationship doesn't work out with her partner. When i say be there for her i mean to comfort her. she is a friend and you've been blessed with having her as a friend try not to forget that and lose her totally

Answer 2

You first gotta ask yourself, is it really love, or infactuation? They can feel similar, but there is a huge difference. If she is married and is going to give her husband another chance, the only thing you can do is move on. The longer you're stuck on her and keep hoping she'll leave him, the more depressed you will get. Move on and find someone who isn't already involved. I'm sure you will find someone. I'm a firm believer that there is someone out there for everybody.

Answer 3

True, you have feelings too, but has her. Don't get too worked up over it, though. You just arrived too late to the party, and your dance-partner was already taken. Look around the room, there will be someone else who needs a dance partner, so go after her instead!

Answer 4

You just take your feelings and go elsewhere. That's marriage, not a fling like abck in highschool. Move on hun, it's for the best.

Answer 5

you have to give them time to make things work. If it is meant to be it will be

Answer 6

keep your feelings private and move on to the next girl there's plenty more out there

Answer 7

she is married so move on.