2007-01-27 02:02:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can never tell him how to have sex, but YOU CAN tell him how you like it! Little suggestions when he hits the right spots like oooooohhhhhhh that feels good will keep him on the right track. If the relationship is really good then flat out tell him how you want it and that you want it NOW. If he is getting it wrong slow him down and tell him to move his body into the position that feels good for you. Chances are if it is feeling good for you it is good for him too!
Be subtle but make sure he is okay with the gentle directions. That is a good topic for after-play. When you lying there next to each other ask him if what you were doing felt good, but be careful because you could incite round two or three.
Best of luck
2007-01-27 02:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of guys being so respectful that he doesn't want to have sex with you because he is so worthy of your love.
I believe a man can truly love without having sex, wait for the magic honey moon night!
Having sex generally doesn't mean a guy loves you, a man can just as easily use you and take advantage of you. Than you will be labelled as a lady who wants only sex from men and then every man will be asking you out in town.
Having sex can mean all sorts of issue can be involved, is that a need for you to exist as a women or a way to show him that you love him?
2007-01-27 10:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need words for that. Either he's not ready or interested in having sex with you. So, the best thing you can do is take some "slow and gentle" control of the situation. Lead him where ever you want him to go and let him know that it's okay with you. If he still doesn't follow your lead, please give me a call. I'd love to have someone like you who's ready, willing and able to make my world a happy place to be in.
2007-01-27 10:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, duhhh. How's about taking your clothes off in front of him and and say nothing. If he doesn't get the "Message" then your boyfriend has got some serious issue's.
2007-01-27 10:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, so I'm trying to see your side.
I guess when you're making out, let your fingers do the talking. Touch him, take "him" out, stroke it, and it'll happen.
Unless he's some super conservative guy, he'll catch on.
He'd have to, all the blood in his brain has flowed somewhere else, lol.
2007-01-27 10:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Benjamin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him and just tell him to do it. if he is a virgin, just play with him for a little and get him worked up. once he is at the point of no return, you will get what you want.
2007-01-27 10:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him 'i want to have sex NOW' in sexiest way you can think of that'll give him a hard-on even before he will see you naked :)
2007-01-27 10:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh tell him you wanna have sex. believe me he'll go for it.
2007-01-27 10:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are married, you can have sex on your wedding night.
2007-01-27 10:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
weird question..
let your body and actions do the talking..
no need for words and voice for that
2007-01-27 10:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by ChocoCrumble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋