I've seen some questions on here about "does he want me for me or just for sex???"... Wouldn't it be better all round if guys just came upto you and told you EXACTLY what they wanted??? or would that ruin the pursuit???
And wouldn't it be better if you just told guys that you are only after sex or wanted a relationship or were DESPERATE for marriage???
2007-01-27 01:51:10 · 13 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ya... in a "perfect world" .........But good idea there .....just come straight out and let each other know your intent for getting together........If you just want sex and no relationship....or if the intent is "desperate for marriage".....at least all the cards are on the table. Goodluck with that tho* hahahha
2007-01-27 01:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be better if all people male or female were just open and blunt enough to say what they wanted. Bottom line though if someone has to ask if the other person likes them for them or just sex, then they have already answered that question for theirself. People just get to where they wear their blinders too much and dont see everything. You can tell when someone likes you for you or the bedroom action. On the marriage part, well if soemone starts talking marriage within a week, I say Run for the hills quick......
2007-01-27 09:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by unforseenfantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not really, cuz it takes away the mystic of actually bein able to have a relationship. I mean, if we found out hu we were gna get married to right away, then wats the point of even dating? its fun!
so id rather not know, it would make it funner
2007-01-27 09:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by lalaland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great explanation I wouldn't just come out and say it though but not to me it shoudn't really hurt the comeon in the new starting relationship
2007-01-27 09:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by lil mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah upfront is much better not yes means no and no means yes hey im a girl and that gives me a headache ha ha
2007-01-27 09:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only in a perfect world
2007-01-27 09:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wld save a lot of time and heartache
2007-01-27 09:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree it would keep down a lot of heartache
2007-01-27 09:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever! (hand goes up....) You just want people who agree with you...if they don't you give them violation.
2007-01-27 21:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by avalonlee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could defintely clear up some confusion!
2007-01-27 09:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by rachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋