THE REASON WE BROKE UP WAS BECAUSE I SUSPECTED HIM CHEATIN ON ME AND LITTLE THINGS JUST DIDNT ADD UP BUT HE SWORE THAT SUMTHIN WASNT GOIN ON BUT HE DID THAT BEFORE AND ENDED UP TELLIN ME THE TRUTH...SO I SAID HE CUD HAVE DID IT AGAIN...I JUST RECENTLY STARTED DATING SOMEONE ELSE..( I HAD TO GET OUTTA THAT RELATIONSHIP)....WE GET ALONG GREAT!! THE ONLY PROBLEM I THINK IS THAT IM 19 HE'S 27..AND HE HAS 4 KIDS.....SHUD I NOT BE GETTIN INVOLVED OR JUST LET IT PLAY OUT?!??!?!
2007-01-27 01:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by beauty iz me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT EVERY1 IS SAYIN....I DONT KNO..I REALLY LIKE EM...BUT THEN AGAIN...HE DOES HAVE A LOT OF KIDS...I HAVE GOTTEN ATTACHED 2 HIM..HAVENT MET HIS KIDS YET..BUT I LUV KIDS...AND IM GOIN TO JOIN THE AIR FORCE...SO NO IM NOT IN SCHOOL RIGHT NOW..JUS WORKING...TILL I GET TO LEAVE
2007-01-27 02:13:26 · update #1
Girl....get out of the situation you are in NOW!!! The best thing for you to do is not date men with extra baggage...for real. Your too young to be or act like a stepmother. Find someone closer to your age and date them. Your still very young...hopefully your in school...if so...concentrate on school, because it will get you a lot further in life then the guy with the four kids will. Or if school is not in the picture have fun with your life and find a good job and build goals for yourself. Seriously get out of the relationship, he sounds like a baby maker to me....do it before you get pregnant!!!
2007-01-27 02:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get involved! Your only 19, you don't need the responsibility of taking care of those kids if you decide to become closer with this guy!
2007-01-27 02:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl let it play plus u may like the kids but they aien't yours and u r only 19 come on now use your sense
2007-01-27 02:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by lil mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you need to date guys your age without children! I had my first baby at 17 & it was not fun.You still need your freedom,youre too young to be tied down to any children!
2007-01-27 02:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by swt-bby-gl-69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋