We have been dating for two months and he says he wants to wait for a special moment to have sex. Can anyone tell me why a grown man wants to wait.? When we have done everything else but sex. Is he even interested in me?
2007-01-27 01:42:25 · 26 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's obviously gay. Either that or he realises that you are a walking STD. That doesn't bother me, so I'll tell you what, just give me your phone number and I'll sort out that pent up sexual frustration that you have. I won't even charge you the first time. Can't say fairer than that, eh?
2007-01-27 01:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver T 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. i do not imagine so. yet i am going to't extremely answer for you. With sex i do not imagine time concerns, its more desirable of how close you 2 are. you'll properly be extremely close bf/gf at 2 months or you may be the couple that sees one yet another the different week. You sound like your having a great time and also you have a good time with spending time with him. From what you wrote, convinced it appears like your at that factor.
2016-10-16 04:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by asar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, keywords to me are, 'grown man'... Maybe he wants to make sure that the two of you are right for each other.. maybe he respects you... maybe he's been burnt because he had sex early in a relationship... maybe he's not ready... there are many reasons NOT to have sex, and, any one of the above may be the one.
Relax, don't panic and be too greedy, you may drive him off...
Once upon a time, BOTH parties waited till AFTER they were married, (imagine that,) to make love.. Now, if they're not in bed by the second date, somebody's worried.
2007-01-27 01:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by chuckufarley2a 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny to me that on one hand you have girls saying that the guy is too pushy and then you don't understand why he won't hurry up. No wonder single men are so confused. I would say he is being a gentleman and waiting to see where the relationship goes before he jumps in the sack. Then again, maybe he's nervous, who knows?
2007-01-27 01:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its difficult to know without knowing all the details but if you really like this guy, than just trust what he says. At least its refreshing that he isn't trying to get into your knickers from the start. Maybe he just wants to build something special that isn't sexual with you first. If you are really ready though, there are ways (dressing irresistibly sexy, creating opportune moments) should do the trick
good luck
2007-01-27 01:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by glim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you don't seem to be 100% satisfied with this man. I believe in 'survival of the fittest' Although this isn't prehistoric times where "survival" is literal, in your case, there's plenty of men out there that are more than willing to have sex with you, that have the same or better qualities outside of this issue.
If he wants to wait, he's either a virgin/shy/insecure, or he's not interested. Either reason, in my opinion, is to find someone else that will satisfy your needs.
2007-01-27 01:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by cko5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TWO MONTHS?????????!!!??
I'm sorry but that's ridiculous. Its time to move on girl and find someone who is interested in all aspects of a relationship INCLUDING the physical.
A good sex life is the cornerstone of a good relationship. Its not the be-all-and-end-all but it very important.
2007-01-27 01:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to be sure he wants you permanently before he has sex with you. So if he has sex with you, he's decided. Bit weird, but there you are.
I'd be having sex with you first or second date.
2007-01-27 01:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably really respects you and he either is a virgin, scared, or he's rushed into sex before too soon in relationships and it ruined them. If you care about him then wait...you won't regret it.
2007-01-27 01:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. what kind of man doesn't want sex? strange. i think he's the romantic type. baby girl, he wants the first time to be special. just wait for it.
2007-01-27 01:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋