I HAVE ASKED THIS BEFORE BUT I STILL NEED AN ANSWER
There is a guy i like but i duno if he likes me.I'm not popular and not so beautifull either(judge for yourself on my profile).There is a popular girl who likes him and she is pretty.He is my best friends cuzen. I told her and she started laughing.He is now one of my brothers friends which makes it worse cuz ill see him regularly and my brother is rude to me infront of his friends. What do i do?Plz help
2007-01-27 01:25:30 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next time your brother is rude in front of his friends you have to stand up for yourself and tell him you really don't appreciate his attitude. Say it in a way that you really mean mean it so that it embarrasses him. Then you address his friends and ask them if they would treat their sister that way in front of other people. Remeber that beauty comes from the inside, it's not just the way we look on the outside.
2007-01-27 01:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you need to feel beautiful, even if you're not what others may judge as "Physically" Beautiful. You have heard "It's what counts on the inside" Right? What you feel about yourself on the inside will radiate on the outside. Haven't you ever seen someone so beautiful, then once you got to know them, if they were not a nice person, their looks fade? So I would say start there. Start "feeling" beautiful for who you are. Once you do that, people around you will be drawn towards you. However, this may not make the one you desire attracted to you in a relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. But you never know.. Just be yourself around him. Have fun. Don't allow how your brother treats you toaffect how you react in front of this guy. Just laugh it off.. This guy if he is worth it, will see your brother as a jerk.. and thus bring a better type of attention towards you. Good Luck..
2007-01-27 09:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Karen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a look at your profile and I don't know what you're worried about in that regard. Just a normal young chick, I wouldn't call you unattractive. Don't be so negative about yourself.
In terms of this guy, well it depends, if he is in with the popular crowd (and like them) they you have to ask yourself, do you really like him or what he might be able to offer? I don't believe the "if it's meant to be it will happen" argument - if you want something to happen then just ask him - if he says no, well that's just the way it is. If he's rude, well then he's just some jerk and you found out. It's better at least to know that way rather than waiting and then wondering "what if".
2007-01-27 09:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Harry Harrison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't always go for looks my ex girl friend was the most beautiful popular girl on school and i broke up with her cuz shes just not worth it shes dumb and all she talks is about fashion and how much her clothing cost her. and tell your brother he should stop but tell him on a serious voice and looking straight into his eyes i bet he stop.be friends with the guy you liked. if he is a jock there is nothing you could do all they care is about looks and he ain't Worth it. and if you want to forget about him just tell him how you feel and what you feel for him and if he rejects you i bet you will feel better after you tell him how you feel.
2007-01-27 09:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, it will happen. don't be so hard on yourself.
Maybe you could tell your brother that you need him to be a bit kinder to you in front of other people. i'm sure he doesn't realize it hurts you so much.
Be happy and don't worry so much about this guy and you'll find that suddenly he will be attracted to the happy carefree you
2007-01-27 09:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by glim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty isn't the main thing which a really good guy cares about !!! We-men care about ur heart !!!
Just care alot about him such as help him,play with him,go out with him,smile with him !!!
2007-01-27 09:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by crystal_heart100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't be shy but tell him that he is cool and ask if you could go out sometime.kick the other girl to the curb.look as good and he'll probably feel he likes you.
2007-01-27 09:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by LaIesha F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang around him some more. Try to do things that kind-of give hints that you like him without actually telling him.
2007-01-27 09:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first stop putting yourself down --- if he likes you he likes you --- talk to him --- ignore the idiots --- get him somewhere quiet away from all the distractions --- if he likes you he will come willingly if not then you know he does not --- best wishes
2007-01-27 09:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to gain confidence and find out wat he thinks of u. Maybe if u ask ur brother since there's friends now whose the interesteding?
2007-01-27 09:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by blackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋