is this similar to adultry?

Question

one of my girl friend,exxxtrrrrrrrrrrrrremly gorgeous had an infatuation to me.but i dint realize at that time,later on when i fell in love,hell like love,with her, she had got another boyfriend.later on i too got a loving girl.
but the problem is after one year of no contact with that ex friend am unable to get her out of my thoughts.i cant keep in touch with her cuz i love my current girl sincerely,though my ex is really a temtation..but sometimes she calls me on phone and am tempted to flirt with her.so i start calling and messaging her,but she wont respond,she will talk to me now and thenm when she calls me.
the thing is i cant ask her to stop calling as she is coming like a madf dream in my thoughts everyday,but if she calls me once in every month i cant control but stroke for her.but i have to be sincere with my current girl.what shall i do?

Answer 1

So your dating & no one is married? I suggest you keep your present gf and forget about the EX. It's not healthy for you to dwell on something that shouldn't be. What's going to happen when Ur gf finds out about her contacting you? Go on with Ur life, Ur ex is messing with Ur head. Don't let her. You need to be a man & stop this nonsense. Below is the definition of adultery.

Main Entry: adul·tery
Pronunciation: &-'d&l-t(&-)rE
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural -ter·ies
Etymology: Middle English, alteration of avoutrie, from Anglo-French avulterie, from Latin adulterium, from adulter adulterer, back-formation from adulterare
: voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husband; also : an act of adultery

Hope this helps or gave U something to think about.

Answer 2

Well the first thing I would do is take a spelling class, along with finding out how to word things properly , and you may be able to figure things out.