HI there im 23 years old and My parents have been having arguments for the past 3 months, my parents were always happy and toghether, they would go out dancing, to dinner etc.. they were the happiest couple, until my dad got a promotion at work and things started to change he started coming home very late, people have starting to rumor about him having another woman who is younger, so my mom has been looking for clues and she has found many things that are defenitely some awkward things that I agree with her. She is in a very bad depression and that makes me very sad, why do parents have to separate after so many years? why are men like this, how should i feel towards my dad? he told me that he is not cheating on her and I want to believe him but its so hard. I am very sad.
2007-01-27 01:42:13 · 5 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm "so" understand you!!! My parents live together for 25 years now (i'm 24). And for couple years our life was a mess. I'm really into my family, and it means a lot to me, and at some point i realized that i'm tired ot it all, i don't want to do anything that people (specially dad) don't appreciate. I didn't deserve it. It was very hard for me. But it their life, they can do what they want, i don't want to be involved.
I understand that people do separate, and i'm fine with that, but as long is that happening to my family i don't accept it. I told my dad that if he leaves us - i won't talk to him, cause he betrates me. we were very close with him, and now we only say to each other typical phrases like hi and so on.
I think you should support your mom, but what's going to be between her and dad they should decide on their own. And you have to be strong like me!
Good luck to you, and i hope they'll figure things out and everything will be ok
2007-01-27 02:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to say this to a daughter, but it's most likely a bedroom problem. I know this may sound silly to you, but there are two great books that may help them if it's not too late.
The first one is called...
he Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura Schlessinger and the second one is called...
The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage by Dr. Laura Schlessinger.
The woman has help many people with marital problems including my wife and I.
2007-01-27 11:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to do with your parent's marriage so butt out. Your parents have reached a point where they need to be away from each other, they may or may not proceed into divorce but again if they do it is between them and not you. You need to stay out of your mother's "hunt for clues". If she tries to enlist your help simply tell her no. Again this issue is between your parents and you shouldn't be in the middle of it.
2007-01-27 14:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is not the man , it is the woman. your mom may become cold,or she deals with your dad in a traditional way. let her change her self first.
2007-01-27 09:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by muhammad elian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wake up and face facts:your father is a cad and you should be ashamed of him.
2007-01-27 09:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by 2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋