Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

sex until we have a better connection as far as communicating. he has not been there for me emotionally in this relationship so i feel why should we have sex. am i wrong? he has some ugly habits that are affecting our relationship and he wont change so im not having sex with him cause i refuse to have sex with someone who cant be there for me emotionally. what do you think? besides its my body and i can do what i want with it. i shouldnt have to have sex with him cuz he wants to. if he cant treat me right outside the bed then why should i let him have his way with me in the bed. right?

2007-01-27 17:48:10 · 13 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend takes the Morning-after-pill quite often.
If she uses it too much, will it affect her in the long run?
When she maybe wants to have children?

2007-01-27 17:45:22 · 7 answers · asked by *Flutter* 2 in Singles & Dating

im in seveth grade and I like this guy in my class, he is kinda shy, i realy like him.he sits in front of me. i told this kid that sits next to me that i liked him and then he told him, i didnt care if he told him, every1 in the class knows that i like him. even he does. he didnt say anything to me, he smiles at me and looks at me , and laughs when i do something funny. the people that sit next to me are always saying that i should ask him out,they say the same thing to him to but im to scared to talk to him, i realy like him and i dont know if he likes me back or not, this has been going on for about 2 to 3 weeks. on friday there was a dance, everyone was going, but i didnt want to go and nether did he. these kids in my class were talking to him and i could hear them, they said that he should ask me to the dance,and he didnt say anything like "i dont want to go with her" or " no, i dont like her" all he said was "im not going to the dance" what should i do?

2007-01-27 17:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had met this guy [Lue] in the summer threw 1 of my cuzins.He called me ryt after we finished IMing for like 2 hrs.Neways, I fell in luv with him, & i mean like REALLY.I still am.The problem was that he had a gf & i had a bf wen we started talking.I broke ^ with mine[nt bcuz of Lue].newayz.The moments i spend with Lue were seriously unforgetable.1st time, him & his frens played just for me at his house.2nd he sneaked out to be with me.3rd i sneaked out at 5am to be with him 4 about 30 min.As u can c i did crazy stuff 4 him.Bc i luv him.& i cant get him off my mind.Ive had several bf's but 4 none did i feel this way @ anytime.The only 1 i felt sumwat similar 2 how i feel now is 1 of my ex's that i wen out with 4 1yr & 1/2.Now. He prank called me & said he luved me & i fell for it.The truth is his gf was on 3way.& started laughing saying "you idiot you fell 4 it".Wow.Iam an idiot.Bc Its been 8mnths since we 1st met & i luv him even more.After many other things his done 2 me. Wat 2 do!?!

2007-01-27 17:44:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since last semester they have been sporadically ignoring her for NO reason (i thought of everything possible), writing their names on their food items while using some of hers, having loud parties at night, going out as a group and leaving her home alone without so much as a word. She pays rent, part of the bills. There's 3 of them, they all follow each other like brainless idiots. I only ask b/c she's at wits end, I imagine getting lonely, I have no more advice for her, she cant move until graduation in May. They're so childlike when she asked whats going on they say nothing and look at her like she's crazy. Is there anyway you can think of to reach a bunch of childish followers with elementary mentality in college?

2007-01-27 17:44:20 · 2 answers · asked by charli_red1218 3 in Friends

2007-01-27 17:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by alejandra611 2 in Friends

2007-01-27 17:42:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 17:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by sanya 2 in Family

Im 18 and Im not one of those persons who just because their friend did something I do it too. But lately Ive just been more aware that Im sort of a freakish. Im 18 and for starters Ive never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and yeah, probably Ive had some dates (like what, 2?). I mean, right now everybody is worried about being pregnant, but I not even been kissed!!!. Im not what you would call really shy or ugly (Im not conceided, but just so you can judge Ill tell you that overall my friends find me pretty). What am I supposed to do?

2007-01-27 17:39:39 · 8 answers · asked by monica c 1 in Singles & Dating

i just broke up wit my bf and we hate eachother...really! he hurts me by talking behind my bacc when i dont do it to him it reaalllyy hurts me bad. but theen' i found this guy who was their for me every step of the way through this and said he loved me and told me how beautiful i was i can tell he truly loves me buhh we are not going out. now i found out that my loving, caring guy is now hangng wit my ex! im so mad!! i dont want ANY problems!! HELPP! what if my ex starts just saying crap bout' me to him WHAT DO I DO!!! ]]]]]]:

2007-01-27 17:39:02 · 8 answers · asked by bayyuhmbabeyy<3 1 in Singles & Dating

i have an wonderful boy friend and we are really in love we been goin out 4 3years but now he finally asks me do i want to have sex with him but i told him i don't know im really confused n scared i don't know what to do can you plz give me advice!

2007-01-27 17:38:49 · 34 answers · asked by aaliyah b 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs, we fight all the time, he's cheated in the past, as have I, but now that he's older he's starting to be nicer to me for some reason.(Probably age-he's 38 now)We have a lot of issues that will probably never be resolved and i think we stay together out of familiarity. I have close friends that live out-of-state that constantly offer me the chance to stay with them and their family(good,wholesome,country-folk)by myself of course. they want me to be happy for once in my life and I want to go badly but i am filled with guilt at the idea of just leaving after 10 years when things are rough.I'm 29, I have no family and no job right now.So should I just go for it and do what I want for once or stick it out with my boyfriend knowing that we will probably end up hating each other in a year?I'm afraid that if i go and things don't work out there, I'll miss my boyfriend and it'll be too late to change things back. Please help!

2007-01-27 17:38:32 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i think you should give the ring back. if the male breaks off the engagement should you give the ring back? i want to know proper etiquette not about how the engagement ended.

2007-01-27 17:38:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it seem like i am different from all of my family, no one else in my family is shy. Most of them are very bold.

2007-01-27 17:38:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help my parents keep fighthing they ussually dont talk ever since my Dad injured his back at work its like you cant talk to him anymore he thinks its everyones fault and now he's saying he will leave us im really I dont know stressed I guess he just blames everyone you know sometimes I just wish he'd die thats how its gotten to me I dont want any of the counselor adivice family counceling IT Will not work I will leave it there for my own reasons,
I really dont know what to do?
I Feel sick I dont feel like eating Im starting to hate everyone around me.
All thanks to this "Dad" Whihc I dont even like calling him that anymore.

2007-01-27 17:38:02 · 3 answers · asked by dazzi_4 1 in Family

Since her aunt passed away, she has to leave city to attend furneal. She has been out since yesterday and will be back on Sunday.

She have her boyfriend and me stay at her place. Her boyfriend is there to take care of her three dogs and to watch her 6 years old daughter for two or three hours after school when I'm at work. Also she want him there for in case her daughter's father tried to take her way.

Last night, her daughter woke up and cried due to night mare. My friend says this happen often and she'll usually go back to sleep in 15 or 20 mins. So I ignore the sound of her crying. However her crying stop suddenly so I went down to see what is up. I found her room door open, the boyfriend was sit on her daughter's bed rubbing her back. I gave him a dirty look and mouthed "get out" He glare at me and whisper "good night sweetheart" to her before get up and leave to go back to bed.

Today I asked the girl what happened. She says he came in

2007-01-27 17:36:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

AWNSER PLEESE

2007-01-27 17:34:49 · 14 answers · asked by ana1vivas 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm interested in this guy, that I recently found out has a congenital heart...we flirt, we talked about getting together etc. But I noticed that at times he pulls back and acts more like a friend...He seems to have a fear of getting close to anyone. I heard that a lot of people with this condition choose not to marry or sometimes get into stable relationships because they choose not to hurt the people their with (incase they pass away) He doesn't know that I found out about his condition, to me it doesn't matter I want to be with him regardless. And he seems to be pushing me away. What can I do.....I haven't spoken to him since the 1st of this month....I miss him.

2007-01-27 17:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by Yvette 2 in Singles & Dating

we are in love and all...but im not really sure wat to say in a "love letter"

2007-01-27 17:33:59 · 22 answers · asked by Millennials' Planning Program Consultant 3 in Singles & Dating

Since her aunt passed away, she has to leave city to attend furneal. She has been out since yesterday and will be back on Sunday.

She have her boyfriend and me stay at her place. Her boyfriend is there to take care of her three dogs and to watch her 6 years old daughter for two or three hours after school when I'm at work. Also she want him there for in case her daughter's father tried to take her way.

Last night, her daughter woke up and cried due to night mare. My friend says this happen often and she'll usually go back to sleep in 15 or 20 mins. So I ignore the sound of her crying. However her crying stop suddenly so I went down to see what is up. I found her room door open, the boyfriend was sit on her daughter's bed rubbing her back. I gave him a dirty look and mouthed "get out" He glare at me and whisper "good night sweetheart" to her before get up and leave to go back to bed.

Today I asked the girl what happened. She says he came in

2007-01-27 17:33:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this guy (Dad) kept answering a question with a question & didn't have a way to get back to him with the answers...???

2007-01-27 17:31:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 17:31:54 · 23 answers · asked by wayan r 1 in Singles & Dating

She called me up and was talking for 2 hours about how she feels ugly. And i kept telling her i would go out with her, if it wasn't for a major problem she has and she dennyed the problem. I don't like her any more, so what should i do.

THE GIRLS A CUTTER. So i realy don't want to go out with her. In High School.

2007-01-27 17:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

i am getting married in August and i need to know the best way to pay for it?

2007-01-27 17:30:42 · 16 answers · asked by Rachael v. 1 in Weddings

I have been going out with this guy . we are both really busy but we still try to find time to hang out at school. I am 15, he is 17. i know that is illegal but i still care about him. we are suppose to be going to our upcoming snowcoming dance together, when we are hanging out should i try to make a move and maybe make out with him? Or do you think that would be wrong of me to? I dont want to get into any trouble. :[

2007-01-27 17:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One day walking in the hall this girl asked me out of nowhere "would you bang me?" now the chicks at my school are really prude so it wasn't an offer; i said i would and now we have exchanged hello's and friendly waves; one day i asked remember me after a vacation and she was with her freinds and said "yeah!, id band this kid!" so does she like me what do you think? i'm wondering should i get her number

2007-01-27 17:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by dangoinvestor 3 in Singles & Dating

and why

2007-01-27 17:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by wedjb 6 in Singles & Dating

I would like to put some romantic/fun ones on there...we mostly listen to country or alternative. Thanks!

2007-01-27 17:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by an1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on my best friend, but he's had a gf so I didn't do anything about it: just kept it inside & hoped it would go away. But he broke up w/ his gf about 8 months ago, so one day I came out & said that I liked him. He said he liked me too, but we decided that it would be best for us to just stay friends. I was fine w/ that. Then, we became closer than I’ve ever been w/ anyone & he became my best friend in the world. It was great! We were having so much fun. We told each other everything: including that he still liked both me & his ex. I still liked (maybe loved) him, but I just wanted him to be happy. Then winter break ended, & now we’re busy w/ classes, & we don’t see each other as much. But I found out that he has been getting together w/ his ex almost every night. Lastnight, we were at a party together & I overheard them talking & he said that she was the one he cared about. My heart broke. At that moment, I lost both my best friend & any hope of us being more than that.

2007-01-27 17:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by bizzle_bee_23 2 in Friends

2007-01-27 17:25:54 · 5 answers · asked by i love tyler yonker 1 in Singles & Dating