I had met this guy [Lue] in the summer threw 1 of my cuzins.He called me ryt after we finished IMing for like 2 hrs.Neways, I fell in luv with him, & i mean like REALLY.I still am.The problem was that he had a gf & i had a bf wen we started talking.I broke ^ with mine[nt bcuz of Lue].newayz.The moments i spend with Lue were seriously unforgetable.1st time, him & his frens played just for me at his house.2nd he sneaked out to be with me.3rd i sneaked out at 5am to be with him 4 about 30 min.As u can c i did crazy stuff 4 him.Bc i luv him.& i cant get him off my mind.Ive had several bf's but 4 none did i feel this way @ anytime.The only 1 i felt sumwat similar 2 how i feel now is 1 of my ex's that i wen out with 4 1yr & 1/2.Now. He prank called me & said he luved me & i fell for it.The truth is his gf was on 3way.& started laughing saying "you idiot you fell 4 it".Wow.Iam an idiot.Bc Its been 8mnths since we 1st met & i luv him even more.After many other things his done 2 me. Wat 2 do!?!
2007-01-27 17:44:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Moving on is the best thing to do. It's going to be hard, but with the help of friends and keeping yourself busying you'll make it. Don't date guys who treat you like dirt. You're better than that and you know it. Stop hurting yourself inside and find someone who respects you for who you really are. That's real love. As to your ex boyfriend you should kick him in the nuts for being such a jerk.
2007-01-27 17:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my i was in the same boat about 2 years ago ,It sucks we both new we wanted each other and we had our b&gf once i new i loved him or i was starting to i pulled away and we both ended up at a high school foot ball gameand he looked so lost i wouldnt talk to him answer his phone calls just cause i felt like hes not leting go of her for me so i really couldnt see him any more and i had a boy friend and i did break up with my bf for him ,i felt like i couldnt leed my boy friend on if i loved this other guy so much i would ditch my boy friendand lie to him i even left my boyfriend on my prom night to hang out with this guy.any ways he left her were liveing together happy three yrs later,But i still dout our relation ship cause he did it to her why wont he do it to me.Just be open with each other tell him how you feel and let him tell you how he feels if he doesnt feel the same then you will know ,but It will give you some kind of closher belive me and dont worry about looking stupid cause he might be feeling the same way and waiting for you to say your ready.I wish i would have said some thing alot sooner.
2007-01-28 02:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as this may sound...he doesnt respect you. I know you are in love with him, but how could you be in love with someone who makes you sneak out at night and make you do other crazy things. Im not sure if you realize but hes using you. Using you like a science experiement just to see what things you would do for him and how far you will go for his love. The fact that he prank called you with his gf on the phone proves even more that he doesn't respect you. Its hard, I know. But your heart speaks louder than words so I cant tell you what you should do because you know what to do.
2007-01-28 01:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its funny i went through the same thing and i'm still sprung on him 4 more that i try to let go i cant it hurts more i did alot of crazy stuff for him 2 but it did'nt work out he was mean a jerk but i fell for him he was the one i luved and still do but you know i guess your heart decides wither you let go or not but dont look for him and next time he pranks you just say nothin laugh and hang up and your not an idiot were just blinded at the moments
any ways ever need anything or someone to talk to this is my email =====rokfairy@yahoo.com good luk
2007-01-28 01:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by rokfairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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We're in the same boat. My ex of four years and I broke up a year and six months ago, and up to now i still love him very much and i can't get him off my mind. His pictures are still in my iPod..i always listen to the songs we used to love..i still visit his cousins who are very close to me. Obviously, i haven't moved on yet. Sometimes become bitter and i want to curse love. I mean, you get that feeling that you gave everything yet your everything still isn't enough to make him stay. You tried to be perfect but still you're trying in vain. It's really hard, and you get the big phobia of falling in love again and risk getting hurt again.
My advice? Deal with it. Time heals all the wounds and so should you. You can't rush into moving on, you have to pass through several stages until you could say 'i survived!'. By now im sure you have the mottos 'love sucks', 'love is stupidity' etc....
1.) throw away all his mementos, photos, and eveything that reminds you of him.
2.) Spend more time with your friends and family.
3.) Keep yourself busy.
4.)Avoid listening to mellow music, esp. the songs both of you loved to listen to,
5.) Keep a list of all the bad things he did to you and tack them next to your bed.
6.) Sever all of your communications with him.
7.) Avoid seeing him.
8.)Avoid the places he frequents.
9.)Convince yourself that you don't deserve him.
Remember this:
GOD TAKES AWAY WHEN HE HAS SOMETHING BETTER TO GIVE.
2007-01-28 07:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness girl, I think the best thing for you is to move on. Keep yourself busy with other things, get involved in some activity you like and keep you mind off him. I don't think any good is going to come of the relationships; and you are going to end up the loser. Hurt and lonely.
Good Luck, it will be hard - - but you can do it!
2007-01-28 01:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Joy K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt love you the same way.. If he did he would've broken up with his girlfriend for you by now. But he didnt. So you should move on.. This is not love you feel for him. Its just the rush u get because you know you can have him and the fact that you do things you know you shouldnt make it more exciting. Its just temporary. If you ever have him, it wont be like this.. So just move on..
2007-01-28 01:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by bangles121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad part life is that you can not make someone feel for you the way that you feel for them. I am sorry there are no magic spells you can use on him. The good part is that Love is magic and someday, there will be a man that falls for you just as hard as you fall for him, and at that moment you will forget all others. ~And youll live happily everafter~ :)
2007-01-28 01:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. What kind of man would set you up with a prank call like that with his girl on the other line. That's some foul stuff right there. If you can't tell after THAT, your blind.
2007-01-28 01:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I couldn't finish reading your question. Please write in complete words at the minimum (at least for the majority of the question).
Second, picking poor choices in relationships is often a self-esteem issue.
Next, don't always believe what people say, instead examine what they do more than what they say and ask yourself is this good or bad FOR YOU. Don't let others dictate your ideas or beliefs (even me about witting in compete words...that is your choice.)
2007-01-28 01:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by cyahlaytar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋