Since her aunt passed away, she has to leave city to attend furneal. She has been out since yesterday and will be back on Sunday.
She have her boyfriend and me stay at her place. Her boyfriend is there to take care of her three dogs and to watch her 6 years old daughter for two or three hours after school when I'm at work. Also she want him there for in case her daughter's father tried to take her way.
Last night, her daughter woke up and cried due to night mare. My friend says this happen often and she'll usually go back to sleep in 15 or 20 mins. So I ignore the sound of her crying. However her crying stop suddenly so I went down to see what is up. I found her room door open, the boyfriend was sit on her daughter's bed rubbing her back. I gave him a dirty look and mouthed "get out" He glare at me and whisper "good night sweetheart" to her before get up and leave to go back to bed.
Today I asked the girl what happened. She says he came in
2007-01-27 17:36:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and hug her, talk to her, kiss her on the head and rubs her back until she fall asleep.
I called my friend and told her about this. She told me I was wrong and to apologize to him. She says he would never do anything wrong and treat her as his own daughter.
They has been going out for about seven months. He have known her daughter for about three or four months. He's 24, my friend is 26.
Is she out of her mind or not?
2007-01-27 17:36:59 · update #1
yes she is. you should sit down with your friend and explain what u think and how you feel about this and why give her the oppurtunity to understand where u are coming from. talk to the child ask specific questions be sure of what u feel from her answers. go from there. also talk to the guy and ur friend together if he really is on the up and up he will not be offended.
2007-01-27 18:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Special Edition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing and if your friend gets pissed off then so be it, you don't know what is going on in the guys mind he could be a perv and this is the way they get close to kids! When your friend gets back on Sunday you need to talk to her and tell how you fell about this thing it could be nothing or something just weighting to happen!!
2007-01-27 18:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO TELL YOU BUT HERES THE THING YOU DO HAVE TO WATCH OUT FOR GUYS THAT IS TO NICE TO KIDS TO FAST CAUSE THERE IS ALOT OF GUYS OUT THERE THAT IS CRAZY BUT THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS LOOK OUT FOR IT AND TO SAY SORRY TO HIM CASUE HE DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG HE WAS PUTTING HER BACK TO SLEEP AND SHE FELT OK WITH IT AND COMFORTABLE SO YOU NEVER KNOW BUT YOU HAVE TO SAY SORRY CASUE HE DID NOTHING WRONG AND KEEP YOUR EYES OUT FOR ANYTHING CAUSE HE HASNT KNOW THEM FOR LONG AT ALL
2007-01-27 18:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by BoRiCuA MaMi 69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋