Congenital heart?

Question

I'm interested in this guy, that I recently found out has a congenital heart...we flirt, we talked about getting together etc. But I noticed that at times he pulls back and acts more like a friend...He seems to have a fear of getting close to anyone. I heard that a lot of people with this condition choose not to marry or sometimes get into stable relationships because they choose not to hurt the people their with (incase they pass away) He doesn't know that I found out about his condition, to me it doesn't matter I want to be with him regardless. And he seems to be pushing me away. What can I do.....I haven't spoken to him since the 1st of this month....I miss him.

I haven't spoken to him because he is avoiding my calls....I don't know how else to make contact with him without seeming like a stalker.

Answer 1

Show him the happiness he brings you. If you can convince him that with out him you will be more miserable then you would ever be if you lost him, it should help your case.

Think about it, if you make each other happy and he has that much less time, then why are you guys wasting so much time distancing apart, when every moment could in theory be your last...

Answer 2

if you miss him, call him or go visit him.
things are going to be real slow for the both of you though, but stay with him. show him that you want him and that you know that he wants you, and that he doesnt have to be so withdrawing with his affection, tell him its better to be loved then not loved at all, and that is how you feel toward him.

Answer 3

What's a congenital heart?

Answer 4

if you miss him call him... be honest with him. tell him that you know about his condition and that it doesn't matter to you and that you want to be there for him. good luck :)