Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

Is it that we're just settling for "substitutes" and not waiting for the right person?

Are we allowing lust and sexual gratification to be our driving force in pursuing relationships?

What's the real missing link?

2007-01-27 18:48:27 · 7 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

I lov agirl.but she didnt.i wrote alter to her last year..bt she didnt reply and revealed to her dad..(ofcourse..she will not hide anythin with her dad). her dad is little bit angry on me. our families kno each other and both families are decent. theyt are high rich family..ours is uppermiddleclass family
she not even cares for me..but in her heart she thinks tht im too sincere abt her.So hou can I proceed inmy love..i cant make my things done well without her.should i proceed in my love or should i stop thinking of her..i mean im asking whether she suits my menatality of love..tell ur opinion plzz....

2007-01-27 18:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i have come to a conclusion that "true love" is a lie. All of it is a myth. Please do not ask me to explain because i will go on 4ever. I do not plan to get married ever. I decide not to have any kids because i do not wanna overpopulated an already over populated planet.... from there, what should i do with females now??? do i:

live life by the "3 F's" - Find, F**k, and Forget

or

Find a girl who would just wanna live together but without a serious commitment

2007-01-27 18:47:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl I like and we talk alot,I say and she says I love you all the time,but she is talking to all these guys.She dosen't say I love u to them but idk.but when I say somthing she like Im sooo sorry and I love you.What do I do

2007-01-27 18:47:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 18:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a formula - use all your 5 senses
Watch, Hear, Smell, Touch, & Taste your partner before you do the real thing

Any other Ideas...

2007-01-27 18:46:58 · 13 answers · asked by spice3boy 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u first look out for in a girl if u see them? which is the most attractive feature? out of a group of girls ,how do u look for the one you like if you do not know them?

thanks.

2007-01-27 18:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when your bf wants a break for a month what does it mean?
im with him for 5 years i knew that he dosent want to commetment?
so he told me that lets have a break for a month to c our lives and what happens to look for our future .. im so angrey i dont know whats hes up to and whats its all about ? what do you think?

2007-01-27 18:44:48 · 20 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend likes to look at porn. Sometimes and definitely not often or even every week. But i came home from a night away last night and there was a download for some porn. I asked him about it and he said it was cuz i wasnt here with him. Watching porn together is fine with me but im really uncomfortable with him masturbating to other women, you know? And ive told him that but everytime i leave to stay with my parents overnight (only twice now) i come home to something like that. I guess my question is shoule i just sit back and let this happen? Try and be ok with it? And i guess i was also wondering how many women have boyfriends like this?

2007-01-27 18:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by michakitty87 1 in Singles & Dating

long story short,i had this best friend of mine for about 9 years,we became friends in the 6th grade,and ended the friendship as a sophmore in college,like 1 week ago.anyway 9th grade i spilled my guts, told her how i felt about her,i was sincere,i really loved her. but she said no,in a nice way.she jumped from boyfriend to bf, one jerk after another, they hit her, emotionally abandoned her, and only hurt her.i loved her so much and wanted her to be my world. i was her best friend so i got to bring her roses,and take her to movies and dinner,and spend time with her without having to make up excuses as to why.but she could never see how much i wanted her..she broke my heart,it hurt alot and it still does.i just wanted a chance to make her happy,because i can tell it's not a feeling she's used to.i brought up the idea occasionaly as the friendship went on.but still,no.i think mentally,i'm emotionally bankrupt,like i just give up,i believe i wasn't meant to be happy,i did my best & failed

2007-01-27 18:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so I fell in love with my high school sweetheart in 9th grade and we went out for a year and a half then I had to move 3000 miles away so we broke up because we said the distance was to far but we have always kept touch and always feel like we should be together. I'm 20 now and have a boyfriend but he doesn't want kids or marriage or anything I want but I really care about him but at the same time I will always love my highschool sweetheart my highschool sweetheart told me he couldn't and still can't see him self marrying anyone but me and I feel the same should I move back and start from where we left off or should I just pretent nothing is there I don't know if this is how everyone feels he was my first love but I can't get over him and its been 4 years we've been apart but we talk at least every 3 days and he wants me home so we can be together and have a family what do I do???? is this just how I will always feel about my first love or is this what forever feels like????

2007-01-27 18:41:22 · 18 answers · asked by pink_questions 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 18:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by Geneva S 1 in Friends

or do you look at the facts?

2007-01-27 18:39:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I went on a bit of a double date yesterday...

I sat next to him, waitin for the next turn to bowl...and he looked straight at me...and said "you're beautiful"

I didn't know how to respond....

what should I have said?

2007-01-27 18:38:57 · 16 answers · asked by CuriousLikeACat 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been together for almost three years and during the first part of our relationship, he was way into porn...pictures and movies. We fought about it all the time and finally he stopped doing it. Do you think it was wrong for me to insist that he stop? I just made me feel like he wasnt getting enough from me you know?..and that he needed it from somewhere else? was i wrong?

2007-01-27 18:38:35 · 3 answers · asked by maximraxma 1 in Singles & Dating

whee. the topic says it all.

2007-01-27 18:37:26 · 23 answers · asked by Devoiex 2 in Marriage & Divorce

dont guys like me im just wondering because ive never had a bf and im really nice, smart, pretty (from what everyone tells me) i have a good heart and a figure lol so why????

2007-01-27 18:36:47 · 13 answers · asked by cmpk26 1 in Friends

want sex really bad alot? im a 15 year old girl and i get sooo turned on by everything! is this bad? i have aim so if u do to them send me an i.m. at pretty pink moi thats better than repling on here bc on aim we can talk for a sec... thanks for ur help!!

2007-01-27 18:36:04 · 4 answers · asked by bre bre 2 in Singles & Dating

help up people, i think the guy i like is also interested in me. he is17+, i am 13+. wat shud i do?

2007-01-27 18:35:03 · 9 answers · asked by cutipie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have faint dark circles recently under my eyes. What do i do to get rid off them???? My wedding is approaching and i certainly don't want be a dark circled bride?????? Plz help any1.

2007-01-27 18:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Weddings

I met a girl at a party the other night and we talked for a while and when she was leaving i asked her for her number and her friends urged her on to give it to me saying like "oh he's cute give him your number" and as she gave it to me she was like "i don't usually give guys my real number but here it is." I really found her to be cool and we had alot in common so my question is what should i say when i call her and how long should i talk to her for, should it be brief or try to keep a long conversation going and also should i ask to go out sometime or just try to keep her interest in me?

2007-01-27 18:34:55 · 5 answers · asked by Bob J 1 in Singles & Dating

Divorced for 6month and It still gets to me why he just couldn't come clean with everything?I thought if you told the truth it sets you free?He could've saved himself of almost a life time of guilt that still rides him like a monkey on his back.I mean I knew enough that it ultimately ended our marriage, but why does the not knowing issues still haunt me and effect my life now?

2007-01-27 18:34:26 · 9 answers · asked by Skinz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

All my friends have boyfriends and girlfriends. I will be turning 23 next month. I still don't have a boyfriend. I am a very friendly person and can mix with anyone. I do have crushes and admire some guys but I don't feel the connection. I am not sure is something wrong with me or its just the people who don't want to approach me.

2007-01-27 18:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by applecity 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the signs that a male shows that he is shy to have intercourse with his girlfriend?

2007-01-27 18:32:43 · 5 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

Well i've liked a gril for sometime and she's always had another boyfriend. I disaproved of this boyfriend because he's lied to her and cheated on her, and been just a downright jerk. She broke up with him because she caught him in a lie. I was wondering if I should pursue her and if I do what caould I say to get her to understand that i'm not just "after her" like the other guy was. I believe I honeslty love her but how do I really tell her?

2007-01-27 18:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Shane S 2 in Singles & Dating

I just don't know where to start or where to begin to let go. He don't want me to talk and he talks to me any kind of way. He gets mad when I try to explain myself. He is so mean and he show me very little repect and he have cheated so many times and he thinks I am stupid and crazy and young and don't know anything. He live with me and we have a son together and everything in my house is mine and is paid for. When he comes home he don't have to worry I cook and clean and deal with the kinds and try to make sure he is okay and at night I try to please him even more and that is whatever he wants and on top of that, I am disabled and suppose to do less as possible but I have for all these years tryed to be the best I can be and it is like it is not good enough. He act like he is not in to me anymore and that I mean nuthing to him. Help please how do I strike back.

2007-01-27 18:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seriously. I know this is possible, because I've seen it with mine own two eyes. I just need to find a willing and attractive woman, ages 18-30ish, with some lee-way for older women who still look young.

2007-01-27 18:31:38 · 4 answers · asked by parthenophilast 2 in Singles & Dating

i just recently met my boyfriends mom and i get the feeling she doesnt like me very much. i only met her once so she doesnt know enough about me to judge me. and my boyfriend also has been acting differently towards me ever since me and his mom met. i think she told him she doesnt like me. he told me in the past that his mom always disapproves of his girlfriends in the past. what should i do?

2007-01-27 18:31:01 · 21 answers · asked by rubberducky 2 in Singles & Dating

i've decided not to talk with him again..and ignore him...and i started doing this ..but the prob is that i need him so much.and i keep asking myself if he remembers me or am i very easy to forget?i miss him so much..everything around me reminds me of him....but i can't go back and talk to him!!!what can i do?

2007-01-27 18:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by no care for all 2 in Singles & Dating

Theirs a boy i like and i think hes a wonderful guy,i asked him to the dance twice first time he said no second time he only wated to go as friends,i already hva a boy friend but i dont know wich one i whant more im not going out with the boy i like yet but i whant to.

2007-01-27 18:28:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends