Well i've liked a gril for sometime and she's always had another boyfriend. I disaproved of this boyfriend because he's lied to her and cheated on her, and been just a downright jerk. She broke up with him because she caught him in a lie. I was wondering if I should pursue her and if I do what caould I say to get her to understand that i'm not just "after her" like the other guy was. I believe I honeslty love her but how do I really tell her?
2007-01-27 18:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Shane S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself, don't try to act a different way so she'll see you the way "she" wants cause then you'll know she isn't the one.
Just by posting what you wrote you proved you're an honest guy and I'm sure she'll see how much more different you are from her ex-boyfriend.
Trust me she's not going to give up on dating because of one asshole. Show her there's honest guys out there and take her now!
2007-01-27 18:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gril pal, you may get by utilising grilling up a fish or maybe some hen, then calling it your pal. And yeah, as quickly as grilled, they may well be extraordinarily warm. A lady pal.....get off the internet and flow out and surely meet some women and consult with them. (in line with danger tell all of them approximately your little gril pal at domicile waiting for you and your lady pal to eat it in the time of a intense high quality candlelit dinner).
2016-11-01 11:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No point telling... Show rather than tell. You start off as friendds and when she knows you better, she will understand. Currently, I don't think she wants to start another relationship. Give her some time to settle down. Take up the comforting role for the time being. Be normal friends first before taking the next step. Actions are stonger than words. Trust me.
2007-01-27 18:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend, take things slowly and just tell her that you have feelings for her (DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER) that would freak her out, just tell her you would like to try dating and see what happens. If you were there for her during all the **** of her past relationship, she will trust you and know that you are not like him. But make sure you give her space and let her make her own decisions, so push too hard to fast otherwise you will scare her off.
2007-01-27 18:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by teresawol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you should pursue her. Go after her and romance her. Love her extravagantly and passionately.
Just don't be surprised if she leaves for somebody who will give her the regular doses of falsehood, cheating, and misery that she believes she deserves. Hope for better, but don't be unaware of the possibility that you're just not nasty enough.
2007-01-27 18:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just and try to be a friend. be a person she can trust and tell all her feelings to. just be there. after she feels all better tell her how u feel. good luck
2007-01-27 18:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her directly,be good friends with her first.Gradually let her know.
2007-01-27 18:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you would keep up
she will have another boyfriend and you will enjoy waiting
jump
2007-01-27 18:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
open ur mouth and speak,can u do that?
2007-01-27 18:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by angie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋