My boyfriend likes to look at porn. Sometimes and definitely not often or even every week. But i came home from a night away last night and there was a download for some porn. I asked him about it and he said it was cuz i wasnt here with him. Watching porn together is fine with me but im really uncomfortable with him masturbating to other women, you know? And ive told him that but everytime i leave to stay with my parents overnight (only twice now) i come home to something like that. I guess my question is shoule i just sit back and let this happen? Try and be ok with it? And i guess i was also wondering how many women have boyfriends like this?
2007-01-27 18:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by michakitty87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its better then letting him jack off to his imagination, at least you kno that he is watching random ppl, not undressing your best friend in his mind.
2007-01-28 08:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Dylan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that. But from my experience with not only my boyfriends, but my friend's boyfriends also... guys like porn. Don't take it personally, but don't just sit back and let it happen if you are uncomfortable with it. Have a serious talk with him and make sure he knows WHY you don't like it. Maybe if you offer an incentive... like a special night together *wink* when you get home from being away... it will keep him looking forward to you, and maybe he won't feel the need to look at porn. But if he still does it, and you love him, you might just have to accept it. From what I've heard, it's pretty normal. It sucks, but it's pretty normal.
2007-01-27 18:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is normal, as long as he is not having it with other lady.
There are time that lady get some heat up with porn. It help to sex up both of your life.
Just a word of advice, guy only like to masturbating with the porn, but no feeling involved.
2007-01-28 10:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by David Fhu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. The fact that he likes to look at naked women online means that he's not chasing after them. It's natural. That also means that he likes to look at you. It's either he likes to see all or likes to see none. There is no third choice for him to like to see only you and none other. Why not make an agreement with your b/f? He deletes porn before you get home.
2007-01-27 18:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you can install NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2007-01-28 10:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get over it, its not like he is looking at girls in person
2007-01-27 19:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋