Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

Of course everyone will be lazy at some or other time. but as to me iam very lazy. i always postpone the things and do the things in very last min. Recently i completed my certification but till now i didnt touched the books. iam getting calls for interview but iam not showing any interest. i known that if i put efforts i will definetly succeed but iam not putting any efforts becoz of my laziness. i want to simply pass the day n enjoy the time by postponing all the work that i have to on that day. do iam addicted to laziness? please help me with your valuable suggestions i want to really change myself.

2007-01-27 19:08:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My roommate has 2 sons (ages 2 & 3) who live with us full time, the youngest ones father was daddy to both boys until he went to prison, his family then moved to another state. Recently he was released and went immediately to the state his parents moved to without any attempt to even talk to the boys. There is a lot of mistrust between my roommate and her ex inlaws, inspite of this my roommate has agreed to allow the boys to travel with their grandmother out of state to visit with their father and grandfather. My roommate is concerned that once they have the boys with them her in-laws might try to keep them. We have a form prepared authorizing the grandparents to seek medical attention for the kids if needed but how can we word something that states the guidlines of this trip, including the specific dates of travel etc?

2007-01-27 19:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently i lost a friend of mine named mark he was murdered over my christmas break when i was home from school he said he still cared for me and we slept together. I was devastated when he was killed we broke up a year ago or so but havesince remained friends and we dated about 15 months total. Now i am back at college and a new semester has begun. I still think of him alot i miss him, however i met someone new in my public relations class he is a cutie pie and nice we are both interested in each other so he asked me on a date i said yes im not sure what will happen between us. I am still in love with mark but hes dead and never coming back plus we were friends and he was a father to be with someone elses baby (they weren't dating anymore), i dont know what i should do please help.

2007-01-27 19:05:07 · 9 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy started dating and we broke up a year later,then he came back looking for me a year and a half later and now were back together. my problem is this, we are having a long distance relationship and i trust him to the fullest but we barely communicate. see, i know he loves me and he does show it at times but he don't call me as much as he should since its our only way of communicating until i move out there next month. see, he don't know how to make time for everything in his life so i get the end of the stick. see, its been a week since we talked and everytime i call him and ask him is it that he don't wanna be bothered he always say no its not that, its because he been busy.the last time i call him he didn't answer but when i texted him the next day he said he was at work and i told him well call mewhen you get off and thats been since monday, what should i do and what do you think is going on. please give me some honest, truthful, things that you would do answers.

2007-01-27 19:04:39 · 4 answers · asked by PHATO4 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 19:04:33 · 4 answers · asked by narges r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i told my couzin that dosent even live with me that i get boyfriends and he thought that im an angel and now he came to visit !!!! but now hes herreeee and all my other family is here wid him and everytime i come next to him i avoid him especially wen im alone with him coz if he talks to me abt it im gna be sooo embaresed and stuff,,, wat shoud i do??

2007-01-27 19:04:13 · 5 answers · asked by gurlie 2 in Singles & Dating

i have many girlk frns. but they will not talk closely to me lik they do vth my frns. hou to make flat..fall in me..make them get attracted towards me

2007-01-27 19:03:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-27 19:03:39 · 20 answers · asked by Rita W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you know two people in a relationship together and find out one of them has been cheating on them. Should you go to the loyal person and tell them what is happening or should you just stay out of it because its none of my business?

2007-01-27 19:02:34 · 10 answers · asked by J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im tired of guys just calling me the "cute shorty"[that's so middle school] i want to be more than that i want my friends and my parents to take me seriously.im a funny girl but i also want to be serious and believe me i try. why don't people take me seriously?I DON'T WANT TO BE "CUTE"

2007-01-27 19:02:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 19:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have been together 6 years. The past 3 months have been hell for me. She tried to break us up a few times but we got back together. For a month now we haven't fought but she will tell me i don't feel like seeing you today. She goes out and usually calls me when she gets home . Tonight i asked her to call at 10 just to say hi. She never called at all, all night. It's 3:00am and i still haven't got a call. When i ask if we're good she says yes and we have good sex still. She calls around 5 times a day and says i love you in the voice mails. If i don't answer she says i wish i would have talked to you and calls a few more times. I asked about marriage and she says she looks forward to it. I bought an engagement ring but now i think i cant ask her. I don't think she misses me anymore. Should i just let us go. We are soul mates and i am sick of fighting to keep us alive. She fought for 6 years while i was a bad BF now should i fight or is it over???

2007-01-27 19:00:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my current situation a basicly ended a bad relationship. the sex was amazing but beyond that nothing else clicked always argued and never could have a convo at dinner unless it was forced. I just recently moved to oklahoma to get my masters in buisness marketing. But now im finding myself becoming extremely jealous. im always wondering if she is sleepin with any guys or is she in a new relationship. so now im feeling like i made huge mistake and should have stayed with her, but im not sure if its her or the sex im missing. plz help this jealousy is killing me and having a huge toll on my studies. i find myself a lot looking at her my space to find out stuff...how do i deal with this.

2007-01-27 19:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by dishizal 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 19:00:06 · 7 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal that my younger sister is 13 and still sleeps with the blanket she go when she was born?

2007-01-27 18:59:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What does it mean when a guy text messages you alot even in simple silly stuff ??? Im confused about this guy who keeps sending me messages but he only called once or twice

2007-01-27 18:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 18:59:21 · 7 answers · asked by kat velez 1 in Family

What is the longest amount of time you have ever tried to get a girl to like you before she finally came around to like you back?
Or what is the longest time you have ever spent trying to get that one girl you felt you were desperately in love with before finally something happened that made you give up the chase and quit?

I'm asking because I just finished watching Futurama and realized it took Fry like 4 seasons to finally win over Leela and also thought about all those other classic sitcoms which featured situations like this...

...and of course I'm asking because I've been after a girl for 9 months, and while she tolerates some of my romantic advances and gestures from time to time, she still isn't interested in me in anyway except on the platonic friend level.

2007-01-27 18:58:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had scleroderma, and on friday, he had some problems with his heart and they had to do surgery on him, draining water from his heart, and finding a hole in his heart. He died during the process.

I feel devastated but I've never had any experience with death of anyone. And I just don't know how to feel. I feel sad and sorry, but what else am I supposed to do? Should I not be happy for now?

2007-01-27 18:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how did you deal with those feelings of hope you had for your marriage to by a miracle work out?
I mean there are clear substantial facts that say this isnt going to work out and so does my gutt feeling, but for some reason i can not let that little bit of hope go............the papers have not been served yet because of this little bit of hope.....but the hope is not real cause we have played that ONE MORE TIME song for four years already........any comments on how to deal? what worked for you? thanks.

2007-01-27 18:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm struggling with what to get my fiance for Valentine's Day. We live in different states and I want him to really remember this one as it's our first as a couple. I dont want to do something corny and he isnt a flowers kind of guy. Guys...help me out on this one!

2007-01-27 18:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Redneckswoman0121 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl wearing a heart necklace?
A guy wearing pants past his butt?
A girl wearing a scarf?
A guy wearing eyeliner?
A girl wearing too much perfume?

haha just curious...

2007-01-27 18:56:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy and I were together for 2 yrs. and things are defintely falling apart. he doesn't respect me, he always thinks that i'm nagging him, when this loser aint payin any bills. Then he has the nerve to stay out until 3 and 4 in the morning, while his dog keeps me awake by making noise. how should I go about dumping him and putting him out?

2007-01-27 18:55:34 · 11 answers · asked by Honey83 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 18:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by APRIL H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I explain the same things to my boyfriend over and over again, but he can't believe me! He thinks I am making him feel jealous and hurt on purpose! He lives in another country. We can only email each other now. We both are insecure. I am so frustrated, upset about the situatioon, and sad... How can we make happy each other again?

2007-01-27 18:51:13 · 7 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Singles & Dating

I explain the same things to my boyfriend over and over again, but he can't believe me! He thinks I am making him feel jealous and hurt on purpose! He lives in another country. We can only email each other now. We both are insecure. I am so frustrated, upset about the situatioon, and sad... How can we make happy each other again?

2007-01-27 18:50:13 · 6 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Singles & Dating

shoud you call him first
or should you wait for him to call you.

2007-01-27 18:50:12 · 6 answers · asked by iheartandylots 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband owes a lot of back child support to his ex. he was layed off for a while and she told him he could stop paying and start when he found work again -- but she refused to sign any paperwork stating this. It took 5 years to get suitable employment so he could afford the court-ordered amount. At the time he was first layed off, he couldn't afford a lawyer to go back to court. Now that he's paying support again, the state is added the 5 years with of back support to the bill. And, while his back debt goes down, the interest on it goes up. Our family is living paycheck to paycheck and almost running out of money each month. While his ex is living a very extravagent life thanks to her new husband.

are there any options to paying this back support that won't cause us to go bankrupt?

2007-01-27 18:50:09 · 8 answers · asked by Jen C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married, 43 years old and I had an affair with a woman 28 years old about a year ago. It didn't last very long, though. We knew it wouldn't work out since I am married and she had a boyfriend. I love her... and she confessed to me that she loved me too. We ended it, but we've always stayed in touch since. We had a couple of 'encounters' the past year, but maintained our status as 'friends' nevertheless. We still talk almost everyday and see each other for lunch or dinner every now and then. Nothing has happened physically between us since July of last year. Now here is my situation: We've had a couple of fights since July and I offered to stay away from her both times but she wouldn't let me go. She claims both times that she didn't want that to happen. I asked if she still loved me and answered NO. Why wouldn't she let me go? Every time I ask her what am I supposed to do, she always replies, "I cannot tell you what to do". Is she just waiting for me to divorce my wife?

2007-01-27 18:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by John Quest 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy and I noticed my eyelashes are pretty long. Is that a good thing? Do girls like that?

2007-01-27 18:49:46 · 5 answers · asked by jyj 2 in Singles & Dating