We have been together 6 years. The past 3 months have been hell for me. She tried to break us up a few times but we got back together. For a month now we haven't fought but she will tell me i don't feel like seeing you today. She goes out and usually calls me when she gets home . Tonight i asked her to call at 10 just to say hi. She never called at all, all night. It's 3:00am and i still haven't got a call. When i ask if we're good she says yes and we have good sex still. She calls around 5 times a day and says i love you in the voice mails. If i don't answer she says i wish i would have talked to you and calls a few more times. I asked about marriage and she says she looks forward to it. I bought an engagement ring but now i think i cant ask her. I don't think she misses me anymore. Should i just let us go. We are soul mates and i am sick of fighting to keep us alive. She fought for 6 years while i was a bad BF now should i fight or is it over???
2007-01-27 19:00:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I haven't slept like i slept for the past 6 years in 3 months. Same thing with school my eating habits ect. My life i a wreck and i feel like i am done. I can never picture her with another it will kill me but i think i have no choice anymore.
2007-01-27 19:03:46 · update #1
She is also my first love. It makes it worse!
2007-01-27 19:06:11 · update #2
LOOK if its over its not the end of the world. GOD is still on the throne and he still loves you.
2007-01-27 19:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to anyone on here that tells you that she will come back to you. Why did or how did the ball get to "her" court? You have to always keep the ball on your court. Right now you seem like a desperate person and she sees that, and she's just telling you things just to "shut him up". I would just ignore her calls, don't call her, don't call her back. If she ever shows up to your house, use some lame excuses like "oh I couldn't find my phone." Oh, I was at my friend's. Something's wrong with my phone. My phone's been acting up, I miss a lot of calls, maybe she'll realize that she needs you. If she doesn't come over to find out what's up, then she doesn't care about you, which means you should never call her back. I'm telling you from experience. First break up sucks but you'll have to move on from it, it's much easier said then done but you've got to do it, it's a part of life. Wish you luck.
2007-01-28 03:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could fight, but it sounds to me like she is done with the relationship....she fought for the 6 years, and now she is done.
let her go...sometimes letting go frees both of you up....give her a little space and see what happens..
2007-01-28 03:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself do you really want to be with her or are you just with her because you don't want her with anybody else? If you answer the latter it's over
2007-01-28 03:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by MISS KNIGHT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, i think it's over. i would hate to see you two get married, and then divorced. sometimes it's better to separate for a while, and try to meet new people. if you're meant to be, then you'll get back together.
2007-01-28 03:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you cook her dinner one night and sitdown and talk with her... explain how you are feeling... ask how she is feeling, and if your relationship is going anywhere or if you are just wasting your time pursuing something she doesnt want... good luck
2007-01-28 03:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont depress yourself, give her some time.If her love is true,she will come back to you.
2007-01-28 03:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋