me and this guy started dating and we broke up a year later,then he came back looking for me a year and a half later and now were back together. my problem is this, we are having a long distance relationship and i trust him to the fullest but we barely communicate. see, i know he loves me and he does show it at times but he don't call me as much as he should since its our only way of communicating until i move out there next month. see, he don't know how to make time for everything in his life so i get the end of the stick. see, its been a week since we talked and everytime i call him and ask him is it that he don't wanna be bothered he always say no its not that, its because he been busy.the last time i call him he didn't answer but when i texted him the next day he said he was at work and i told him well call mewhen you get off and thats been since monday, what should i do and what do you think is going on. please give me some honest, truthful, things that you would do answers.
2007-01-27 19:04:39 · 4 answers · asked by PHATO4 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just dont give up your life and move unless you know he really wants that ...ask him about moving to you just to see how much he would think of doing that to be with you..be sure ....but give love a chance it only comes around a few times
2007-01-27 19:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by sumone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds he doesn't want to make time for u. all the rest are just excuses, but the truth is either he has someone else there and he is busy or he just feels uncomfortable talking to u on the phone for some reason. do not find excuse that he can't make time to call u. how long does it take to call and say hi, i miss u, but i am sorry i can't talk long, i need work to do? like 1 minute? do not tell me someone doesn't have one min or money for one min call. and when u call a man and he doesn't answer cos he is busy he will call u the next minute he is not busy, but he does the call, not u texting him and stuff.
2007-01-27 19:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be going through something and doesn't want to talk to anyone, but if you say you haven't really had good communication before then i think you should move on. communication is crucial to relationships especially in long distance ones
2007-01-27 19:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by MISS KNIGHT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he really does suck at calling or maybe he really is busy or busy cheating or something you have to ask him why he never calls
2007-01-27 19:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋