I just don't know where to start or where to begin to let go. He don't want me to talk and he talks to me any kind of way. He gets mad when I try to explain myself. He is so mean and he show me very little repect and he have cheated so many times and he thinks I am stupid and crazy and young and don't know anything. He live with me and we have a son together and everything in my house is mine and is paid for. When he comes home he don't have to worry I cook and clean and deal with the kinds and try to make sure he is okay and at night I try to please him even more and that is whatever he wants and on top of that, I am disabled and suppose to do less as possible but I have for all these years tryed to be the best I can be and it is like it is not good enough. He act like he is not in to me anymore and that I mean nuthing to him. Help please how do I strike back.
2007-01-27 18:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very difficult.
Start doing what makes you happy.
If he doesn't like it or care enough about you to actually accept your changes. then Divorce him.
2007-01-27 18:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you are worth more than that. You deserve respect . Any smart guy would tell you that you are what most guys look for. You take care of home, you are independent, and you take care of your man. Well to me it looks like he's taking you for granted and is not worried about you going anywhere. I would tell him how you feel whether its face to face or in a letter. Just leave a letter one day for him to find and if he doesn't take you feelings into consideration then i would tell him that you could do better and find someone who will respect and love you unconditionally. He may tear you down but always remember that its someone out there that will cherish, love, and respect you and probably take care of you. Good luck and hope you find happiness because thats the golden key in life, after that everything else will fall in place.
2007-01-27 18:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by lyricsseven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get him out of your life. You don't need him to live. You're paying for everything yourself and you're raising kids and you're disabled. Why do you need a cheating guy on top of all that? Kick him out NOW! If you're married, file for divorce NOW! Take control of your life and have some self respect. You deserve to be happy and this guy could care less.
If this guy is cheating on you, why are you trying to please him in bed? You are aware of the fact that he could give you an STD, right? That is a very real threat in this day & age. Don't sleep with him anymore. It's not worth risking your life & health to please someone who can't even remain faithful. Have respect for your own body and health. Do yourself and your son a favor and get him out of your life. NOW! You need to make your child and yourself a priority, not this guy.
2007-01-27 18:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your disabled not stupid.why are you still there? do not let your physical issues keep you from respecting your kids needs and your own needs. dump his *** and move on (ps i have a disability too)
2007-01-27 18:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by basketchick43078 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of his *** kick him out if you do everything for yourself then you and your son can do without him
2007-01-27 18:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Waythere 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋