Is it that we're just settling for "substitutes" and not waiting for the right person?
Are we allowing lust and sexual gratification to be our driving force in pursuing relationships?
What's the real missing link?
2007-01-27 18:48:27 · 7 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to go through a whole bunch of losers before you find real love so that you can appreciate it when it comes.
2007-01-27 18:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by MISS KNIGHT 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think there are many right persons for one .. you will really lucky if u are able to find atleast one of them. So since we really dont know whether we are going to find one .. we have to live along. So whatevr substitute u get, be frank and honest with that person. Of course, if u are really forceful, you could change the person and make him likeable ;) ( there are pple who say love him/her as he/she is etc:- ) . You have to see what suits u better
Sex and lust are part of the pacjkage, else we would all be homos . Esp when you are young the hormones and adrenalin gets you kickin. So its natural and unavoidable and it will only help. A healthy sex and lust .. keeps you body clickin and brings positive energy to the mind.
There is no missing link .. we are just force us to believe that there is gap and hence a missing link.
2007-01-28 03:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by thesinmon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we are allowing lust and sexual gratification to be our force in finding relationships...and then we find that there is nothing really there. no emotional ties, no common bonds...nothing but the sex. you can not build a good relationship on this alone...
the missing link...having a physical relationship too early in the relationship...wait and build some ties...have some common experiences together and be sure the sexual experience is one you wish to share. build a relationship with out sex...then when it moves to the next level it will be lasting and more fullfilling for both of you...
2007-01-28 02:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you are not supposed to LOOK for love...it'll come to you. and really...when people do start dating..they dont think of each other as substitutes. they hope its the one...
2007-01-28 02:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience and the skill to be in the moment for spontanious direction
2007-01-28 02:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for it, love will find you.
2007-01-28 02:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by lyndsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all about the heart..........
2007-01-28 02:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Stefan Kho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋