I have a crush on my best friend, but he's had a gf so I didn't do anything about it: just kept it inside & hoped it would go away. But he broke up w/ his gf about 8 months ago, so one day I came out & said that I liked him. He said he liked me too, but we decided that it would be best for us to just stay friends. I was fine w/ that. Then, we became closer than I’ve ever been w/ anyone & he became my best friend in the world. It was great! We were having so much fun. We told each other everything: including that he still liked both me & his ex. I still liked (maybe loved) him, but I just wanted him to be happy. Then winter break ended, & now we’re busy w/ classes, & we don’t see each other as much. But I found out that he has been getting together w/ his ex almost every night. Lastnight, we were at a party together & I overheard them talking & he said that she was the one he cared about. My heart broke. At that moment, I lost both my best friend & any hope of us being more than that.
2007-01-27 17:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by bizzle_bee_23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be strong.. You said that you just want him to be happy.. He has made his decision, so open your heart to accept it.. I know it hurts, but life goes on.. Just keep those beautiful memories in your heart..It's time to look for a better man..
2007-01-27 17:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Pianoholic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is carved in stone. You have let the "friends" thing throw you off. If you want him, make a move on him past "just friends". Pretend you didn't hear the comment he made to her. If it doesn't work, you have lost nothing really. Could be he just doesn't know how to move to the next stage with you, so give him the opportunity. Good luck!
2007-01-27 17:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Roberta B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should look outside of your friendship for a relationship with someone that can love you back. It's not easy to forget the one you love but it is worth trying. And you never know, you just might meet someone wonderful who will make you happy and laugh and who can love you as well!
2007-01-27 17:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone. be his friend and go out and find a guy to love. there is an old saying if you love something let it free if it comes back its yours to love if it don't its meant to be. you can love somebody but that don't mean your in love with that person. stay his friend but move on. before its to late for you.
2007-01-27 17:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man thats mest up....just try to forget about him and move on with your life find some one that will love you back... i think its better if you guys just stay as bestfriends...
2007-01-27 17:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change life can ya?
2007-01-27 17:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋