Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

Everything I do does not seem to be what he expected me to do. I try to make sure not to do anything that would anger him. Is it normal to be treated this way when you are married?

2007-01-24 02:26:07 · 22 answers · asked by knotwanted4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or wrong or something?

2007-01-24 02:25:53 · 18 answers · asked by Mike c 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend might be pregnant she's 16 like me and her bf is 19 she hasn't told her parents that they are even seeing each other and she's going to wait till next month just to make sure she's taken ept's but they aren't always right and she's hoping they are not right. Should i say anything or just leave it be and let her tell her parents? Should i be worried about her. Her bf is responsiable and has a good job and will take care of them but i'm worried about her should I say n/e thing?

2007-01-24 02:25:23 · 18 answers · asked by LOVE YOU 1 in Friends

If your friend went with one of your ex's that you just broke with.

2007-01-24 02:25:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband just informed me, last night, that his niece is going through a divorce.
Here's the kicker:
She and her husband just finished having a very lavish (and expensive) wedding ceremony a year ago! So many ppl were invited and she was so happy about her marriage and preparations for the wedding.
The reason for this divorce:
Her husband went to Iraq not long after their wedding and met someone else. (Sad, but unfortunately, not uncommon).
The question:
Since she is obviously very upset and beside herself and, though, we're not particularly close, I wanted to extend my apologies, but have reservations. Would she view this as my "rubbing it in" in any way? I find myself walking on egg shells. Or do I just say nothing and wait for "the hurt" to subside?
Oh, one more thing, she lives 600 miles north of me and my husband.
What do you think I should do?
Please, no psarchastic comments or criticisms. I only look for educated insight.
Thanks.

2007-01-24 02:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy for about a month now. He has invited me over to his new place for dinner tonight. I don't know what to take. I can't take a bottle of wine because he doesn't drink, no flowers......what else can I take? Any help is appreciated thanks!

2007-01-24 02:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by funbobbi22 2 in Singles & Dating

You know this person is "the one" , you have a history that goes back to teen years (19 yrs ago). you have an 11 yr old child together - he has been gone for 10 yrs and was never expected to be back - so you moved on, met a good man, had 2 more children but always still had phone contact with this first man, weekly calls to the child you have together.
Now first man is back and all your feelings come flooding back to this intense passionate love, that is almost too consuming, it just eats you up - it's like a drug I guess that feels wonderful but then somehow it starts to kill you and everything hurts. I don't understand this kind of toxic love, that can be so comfortable and then so painful - and one that you would consider risking everything for..... any advice at all.....

2007-01-24 02:22:44 · 13 answers · asked by XXXFAIRY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had the best few months of my life. Met the perfect man, and we are getting married soon. He is great spends time with my family as well as me. Always treats me good takes me out cinema restaurants friends weddings introduces me to all his mates, and of course i no the family really well. He loves my opinion 2 and asks me what i want etc. He really is perfect, we get on well have loads in common most importantly me makes me smile and i do to which is why we are getting married.

We even spent new years 2gether and told me and showed me how much he loves me.

However i cant it that im so jealous when we see this particular women.They work 2gther once a week. My man loves 2 go out of his way & help ppl but i jus dont like it wen he helps her esp when see was moving.
I met her and she is nice and attractive however she is getting married 2 her boyfriend soon. But why do i have this jealously feeling?I dont like it.I do trust him. Im 24 and he is 26, this women is 27! help

2007-01-24 02:22:35 · 39 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Singles & Dating

I work from 9 to 6 and my husband is usually asleep when I get home. He gets up long enough to eat and take a shower and goes right back to sleep untill he has to get up the next morning to go to work. Is that normal or shoul I be worried about his health. By the way he is a welder and works from 6 to 2:30. Help

2007-01-24 02:22:28 · 13 answers · asked by Hazel 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend told me I said a co-worker's name that he knows I'm not cheating with but he's still very upset and he said I said his name before in my sleep but I know I'm not a little bit interested in this co-worker. I don't know what to do or say to my boyfriend and he left at 3am and I haven't heard from him yet. I am very much so in love with my boyfriend and I really don't want it to end over this.

2007-01-24 02:21:56 · 21 answers · asked by lovely79 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe people deserve second chances and that they change what was wrong before? Can you ever really just forgive and move on or will it always be in the back of your mind? How many sencond chances do you think really work out for the better?

2007-01-24 02:20:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I was with this guy at school and he started hitting on me and stuff, and he asked me do you exercice, I said no cauz I'm thin , he goes like no you're not! I said what, do you mean I'm fat I got to make a diet and exercice? he goes like

"no, You're very P H D and that means you're tempting."

Ok I got it PHD or watever the word is, is a compliment but what does it mean ? I know it's something related to body type but what does it mean(and is it actually P h D or is it another word)

Thanks

2007-01-24 02:20:30 · 8 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 02:19:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

would any one think i was wrong to try and find a younger woman to hlp me fulfill my life

2007-01-24 02:19:03 · 23 answers · asked by Mo Lester 1 in Singles & Dating

they say woman have a 6th sense - do you believe this to be true and where you right or wrong with what you thought

2007-01-24 02:18:30 · 15 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 02:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by my spill canvas 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats the first thing that attracts you to a girl?

Do you like it better when a girl approaches you or had you rather approach the girl?

2007-01-24 02:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

ever have secret crushes on men? And are they perfectly content with being enfatuated with another man, but they have no intentions of acting on that enfatuation? What say you married women?

2007-01-24 02:17:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that they miss something about thier ex? The relationship is still fairly new and the honesty is appreciated, but they do have a child together so there will always be a connection. It's not an issue of trust, but how do you keep it from becoming a bigger issue in your mind?

2007-01-24 02:17:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i always end up saying wrong things or acuse my best friends frienship when it comes to her hanging out with her crush.i feel bad at times when she leaves me but when she tries to include me in her plans( she olwaz does it)..i dont know why i dont go with her and i exclude myself but when she comes bck i end up saying alot of wrong things.things like "she makes me feel bad olwaz" i dont wanna admit to her that i felt bad coz i think that feeling is wrong to even feel..so in the end i end up saying alot more..
i dont know how to control it ..she tels me to tel her olwaz if i am feeling bad..i have hurt her alot..i dont know what to do..i exclude or want to be alone even though she never forgets about me...
i feel insecure and she says its ok to feel that way and tell her instantly instead of it building up in my head..

2007-01-24 02:16:17 · 6 answers · asked by dew 1 in Friends

2007-01-24 02:15:03 · 19 answers · asked by katie-pie 2 in Singles & Dating

And there is this girl, smokin fine, but she is mentally retarded and a patient... she turns me on alot, and was wondering if nobody was around, shouyld I maybe try and get a little action from her.. what do you guys think??

2007-01-24 02:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Singles & Dating

It has been a few months since I told her my feeling (which she said just want to be friends). Indeed, I love her and I can't visualise my life without her! My emotions toward this matter is just like a tide - sometimes I feel I should still slowly grab her heart while sometimes I am afraid that she might have someone else in her heart and hence I should forget her. Moreover, I am pretty shy in front of her and she also does not talk that much.. But, it really hurts me when I recall that day she 'rejected' me and when I visualise her choosing someone who does not deserve her.. If you were me, what would you do and why?

* You are 14 years old and so far you have been very nice to her and recently you have made a birthday card for her; and since then you have noticed that her behavior changes - she teased you more often. After all you have done for her, will you give up and forget her or strive to win her without being stalking?

Should I one day, maybe one year later, ask her again

2007-01-24 02:12:43 · 8 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 02:11:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First we are all well over the age of 30. I have known these two brothers (fraturnal twins) for a little over 3 years. They are both everything any woman could want and more. I have had a major crush on brother number 1 for quite a while and have expressed my feelings, but he just wants to remain good friends. His brother on the other hand has expressed to me he has strong feelings for me. I don't know if I should start dating brother number 2 if my heart is drawn towards his brother. Do I go ahead and date number 2, take things very slow and hope my heart and mind switch to him? Honestly, they are both super wonderful men. I'm ready to be close to someone again. What do I do???

2007-01-24 02:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by EsteeIsFrench 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you remember your first time? Did it go like u wanted it to?

2007-01-24 02:11:02 · 27 answers · asked by laura m 1 in Singles & Dating

i love her and she says she loves me but we live so far away from each other and she tells me she wants to get married and i want to but how can i really tell she loves me?

2007-01-24 02:10:51 · 1 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has Heart problems and diabities, and on top of that a pace Maker. He also had a little scare with Cancer this year. He is fine now witht eh cancer but with all the other health problems he well lets just say he can get it up but after 1 min. of foreplay it pops off and is gone. I love him and i would never cheat o leave him but my question is what can i do to get over the sexual fustration. He dosn't want to talk about it and he knows i have toys but he acts like everything is normal. He gets his but when it comes to my turn he turns and walks away and is bright red in the face. What do I DO? HELP

2007-01-24 02:10:32 · 16 answers · asked by Ladydew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 02:10:30 · 12 answers · asked by Sam N 1 in Weddings

2007-01-24 02:09:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce