that they miss something about thier ex? The relationship is still fairly new and the honesty is appreciated, but they do have a child together so there will always be a connection. It's not an issue of trust, but how do you keep it from becoming a bigger issue in your mind?
2007-01-24 02:17:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes things come out of our mouths.. inner thoughts out loud. It doesn't necessarily mean they want the ex back but just thinking of a time together. If they say it again to you maybe it is a hint of what they want from you.
2007-01-24 02:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...it's kind of natural to miss something about an ex but to tell your current bf/gf about it is just asking for trouble. Personally, I would drop the person. If they miss someone enough to tell me, I'd wonder what they're not telling me. That person is an ex for a reason so the bf/gf might have a hard time letting go of the past and that does not work well if you want to move forward in a relationship. I say drop 'em and run.
The having a kid thing isn't an issue on this one unless they said they miss the kid, that's understandable. The ex? No, that's not cool at all.
2007-01-24 02:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it would be hard.. Try not to take it personally. Its probably really hard for them because they have a kid together. Some make an issue out of something that isn't an issue.. Does that make sense? Just trust him as long as he gives you a reason to trust him. Be honest with him, but be kind.. tell him it bothers you if you have to.. don't be a butt about it though. it will be ok.
Hope that helped!
2007-01-24 02:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by stephanieann31882 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 12:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, honesty is always appreciated but comments about the ex are always forbidden especially this early on in a relationship. If it bothers you that much maybe you should bring it to his attention. Otherwise, monitor the relationship he has with his ex and make sure it doesn't cross the line from baby momma to momma's gonna take your man!
2007-01-24 02:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up. I their mind you will never measure up to the ex especially if the one ur with is the one who is responsible for the break up anyway. They will always regret not doing right by the ex and will miss them and feel guilty. They will not have feelings for you like they have for the ex and you may always feel inadequate or 2nd best.
2007-01-24 02:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Hun, it will always be there in your mind. And you know as well as I do that a child is a strong bond. Take it easy, protect your tender heart first and foremost. If he misses something about her, there's a part of him that wants that back, be careful. Good Luck
2007-01-24 02:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind at at all. I would take it as a subtle suggestion about something I should do / improve on.
2007-01-24 02:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be concerned about my relationship with her. That's never a good sign.
2007-01-24 02:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋