My friend might be pregnant she's 16 like me and her bf is 19 she hasn't told her parents that they are even seeing each other and she's going to wait till next month just to make sure she's taken ept's but they aren't always right and she's hoping they are not right. Should i say anything or just leave it be and let her tell her parents? Should i be worried about her. Her bf is responsiable and has a good job and will take care of them but i'm worried about her should I say n/e thing?
2007-01-24 02:25:23 · 18 answers · asked by LOVE YOU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
um ya , you know the answer to this one. tell her parents and you have no trust between you 2 any more. set it up so her parents over hear the conversation about it, now there is nothing wrong with a littl indirect action to help a friend tht needs it but isnt getting it.
2007-01-24 02:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bf is the one who needs to say something.. first of all.. if u r also friends with him try talking to him and tell him to take the girl to a doctor... the doctor will not say anything if the girl doesnt want but do take the girl to a doctor. tell her bf to have a talk with ur friend and arrange they will both go to her parents. hes not a kid anymore and if he loves ur friend he needs to show it now.. hes got to take responsibility and go talk the girl's parents even if she doesnt want. its for her own good and im sure that the parents (after they will freak out) they will appriciate at least the fact that the guy had the will to go personally and talk to them (hopefully) hes got to say he s sorry and any other excuse he can find cause its really serious.. but it will be worse if they keep it a secret whther she is or not...
2007-01-24 03:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is Positive that she is pregnant, yes she should tell her parents. She is only 16 and gonna need them more than ever now. Hopefully they will be the type to support her at this time. She still has alot of growing up to do herself, and raising a child is a full time job. Right now the best thing you can do for your friend, is be there for her, shes gonna need you to lean on...
2007-01-24 02:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay out of it as long as you can. You could get your friend into so much trouble. Nothing is certain at this point, why make things worse. Talk with her and do your best to comfort her but don't do anything unless she asks you.
2007-01-24 02:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince her to tell her parents. I am sure they will be upset but she will need support and her parents will eventually accept it. They are going to find out sooner or later and if she is upfront and honest with them, they will respect her more than if they found out from someone else.
2007-01-24 03:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be the one to tell her parents. It's going to be bad enough for them hearing it from her- especially if she does turn out to be pregnant. You interferring before she's said anything will make things twice as bad.
2007-01-24 02:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your job as a friend is to be supportive - she will tell her parents in her own time - as a friend just make sure she goes and gets the prenatal care that she needs
2007-01-24 02:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by noel22f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do in this situation is to let things be and let her tell her parents. Let your friend know that you will be there to support her and her decisions. you could probably also be helpful and try to encourage her to tell her parents. trust me, from personal experience, it is better if you stay out of things and let her work them out herself.
2007-01-24 02:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by claricestarling182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her tell her parents. Don't say anything to anyone. This is her news that she needs to tell when she's good and ready.
2007-01-24 02:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ohkay if yew really want to be a good friend. yew would worry about her and keep on telling her to tell her parnts. and then like wait if she doesn't tell them. you tell them its better to tell them sooner then later right? Just keep on hopeing that she will make the right choice.
kthxs
hope i help ya!
2007-01-24 02:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋